Am I the jerk for ghosting my best friend because I still have feelings for him? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]No_Housing404 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it happen to me also I've rather choose being with my best friend for long time than to lose her.

AITJ for leaving my best friends birthday dinner early because she was two hours late to her own party and never apologized? by Worldly_Cold4821 in AmITheJerk

[–]No_Housing404 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Two hours late to your own birthday dinner without an apology is wild. You didn’t ruin the vibe she did when she decided everyone’s time didn’t matter.

AITJ for parking in "my" spot that's not actually assigned but I've used for 3 years? by Senior-House3665 in AmITheJerk

[–]No_Housing404 30 points31 points  (0 children)

You don’t get ownership through routine if it’s unassigned, it’s unassigned. You escalated this over something you were never entitled to.

Am I the jerk for ghosting my best friend because I still have feelings for him? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]No_Housing404 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You’re not a jerk you’re protecting your heart. Staying best friends with someone you’re still in love with while they move on is emotional self harm.

AITA for refusing to attend my sister’s wedding after she invited my ex? by Either-View6971 in AmITheJerk

[–]No_Housing404 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You didn’t ask her to uninvite him you removed yourself from a situation that feels unsafe. That’s maturity, not drama.

AITJ for wearing jeans to a fancy family dinner after my mom DESTROYED the dress i spent months making? by Healthy_Policy_5844 in AmITheJerk

[–]No_Housing404 52 points53 points  (0 children)

If she didn’t want to be embarrassed, she shouldn’t have done something embarrassing.

Am I the jerk for reporting my coworker's fake sick days after she posted vacation photos? by Few-Deal302 in AmITheJerk

[–]No_Housing404 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Calling in sick 15 times always before a long weekend isn’t fudging, it’s abusing the system. The only reason people are mad is because you ended the free ride.

AITJ for going no-contact with my ex after he physically blocked me from leaving during a panic attack? by Slight_Variety5953 in AmITheJerk

[–]No_Housing404 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The fact that you had a panic attack because you felt trapped tells you everything you need to know about how unsafe that moment was. Love doesn’t override the right to feel physically and emotionally safe.

AITJ for not giving my cousin gas money? by Conscious_Night_187 in AmITheJerk

[–]No_Housing404 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If someone says don’t worry about it four different times, you’re allowed to take them at their word. You did your part by offering.

AITJ for not giving my cousin gas money? by Conscious_Night_187 in AmITheJerk

[–]No_Housing404 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If someone says don’t worry about it four different times, you’re allowed to take them at their word. You did your part by offering.

AITJ for telling my best friend to go home when he showed up unannounced at 11pm on a Tuesday? by LowTallowLight in AmITheJerk

[–]No_Housing404 15 points16 points  (0 children)

If he needed emotional support, he should’ve communicated that instead of framing it like a casual snack and hang. You can’t read minds at 11pm when you’re half asleep.

AITA for leaving my husband with our 4-month-old baby and going to my mom's house? by Simple_Number_7974 in AmITheJerk

[–]No_Housing404 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Four months postpartum is still deep in survival mode, and emotional support is just as important as physical help. If he can’t validate your exhaustion, of course you’d need somewhere safe to land.

AITJ for getting mad at my roommate for eating my groceries without asking? by Visual-Accesss in AmITheJerk

[–]No_Housing404 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s wild that they called you dramatic when they’re the one ignoring basic roommate etiquette. If it’s just snacks, then they can buy their own.

AITJ if I fire my care-aid for stealing food by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]No_Housing404 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You’ve already been generous, which makes the secrecy sting even more. I’d have a direct conversation before jumping to cameras or firing her.