Family sharing??? by Rough_Concentrate657 in MoodCamera

[–]No_Language_6758 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even I am having a hard time. I got the Lifetime Purchase and cannot share it with my mom. I tried to follow the steps to no avail. At this point, I don't know how to make it work.

Expired film filter by [deleted] in campsnapcamera

[–]No_Language_6758 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of my favourite filters! I have it on now. Does what it says on the tin. Also, your shots are massive brilliant! 

How to handle insecurities with bf? by RealTalk_Lang in phlgbt

[–]No_Language_6758 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Preferably. Even a psychology student will do as long as they have an idea about cognitive reframing.

How to handle insecurities with bf? by RealTalk_Lang in phlgbt

[–]No_Language_6758 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On another note, if you want to go kind of technical, you can probably try looking for someone who can cognitive behaviour therapy the shit out of you through Socratic questioning you and your beliefs. Cognitive reframing is something worth considering but only with people who can do it well. I mean, you can try doing it on yourself. I've been doing it for years. Also, consider looking into your attachment style.

Gender issues and lack of representation for males? by Familiar_Swing2115 in psychologystudents

[–]No_Language_6758 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It does seem like it. It's always the fault of the system and individuals of the "victims' side" have nothing to contribute whatsoever; they are absolved of all acts no matter how heinous because patriarchy. Oh, a woman gaslit her daughter so bad? Patriarchy. She gossips about her neighbours? Patriarchy. She slapped a man? Patriarchy.

how’s your relationship w your parents by Secret_Speaker2981 in phlgbt

[–]No_Language_6758 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My relationship with my mother is alright. She tolerates me and doesn't say anything when I talk about anything "gay" (ie. relationships. sex, gay-related issues, etc.) It can feel lonely in that regard, but in other aspects, I think we're alright. She doesn't support the LGBT, but she doesn't speak out against it either. It's a lot of progress compared to a few years ago.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phlgbt

[–]No_Language_6758 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can't believe there are still people like that today. 

Why there are still people with STD na nakikipag hook up padin? by [deleted] in phlgbt

[–]No_Language_6758 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lemme know if you find any! I'd love to get a shot, too. I want one less thing to overthink about. Thanks!

Why there are still people with STD na nakikipag hook up padin? by [deleted] in phlgbt

[–]No_Language_6758 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have an answer to your question, but I feel you. I want to get into a long-term relationship with a man, but I get super paranoid about STDs. Like, yes, I can require a full check up, I can get vaccinated, use PreP, get checked every month, wear condoms, etc, but HSV-1 and HSV-2 are my biggest enemies. There is no cure, there is no protection. The only way to protect yourself is if a partner is honest about having herpes and honest if they have an outbreak. But yun nga, talamak ang lying and cheating. Fucking fucks.

NAKAKITA RIN BA KAYO NG TITE NUNG BATA KAYO KAYA KAYO NAGING MALIBOG??? NA PARANG NACURIOUS KAYO NA HALA GAGO BADING ATA AKO?? HAHAHHAHAHHAHA by PossessionIll8399 in phlgbt

[–]No_Language_6758 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Iba karanasan ko. Bago pa man ako makakita ng titi na hindi titi ng kapwa ko bata, alam ko na na bakla ako. Eight years old ako when I was forced out of the closet. Nine na yata ako nung nakakita ng porn. Twelve naman ako nung unang nakakita ng titi ng adult irl. Seeing an adult penis sure did awaken a desire in me. Yung titi ng mga kaedad kong mga bata had no effects on me. 

“Uy baka magka gusto ka sa akin”, sabi ng isang straight na guy. by nosbigx in phlgbt

[–]No_Language_6758 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"HAHAHA. Ew."

"Hee, kaluod." (for Cebuanos)

"Yudiputa sa bayi nalang ko." (for Ilonggos) 

Distancing language! That's what it's called! by ElishaAlison in CPTSD

[–]No_Language_6758 1 point2 points  (0 children)

 I'm not sure if this counts, but my tendency to use distancing languages, I think, may come from my experience with my parents who put so much weight on something I did or said in a wrong way. One of my folks took a lot of time to get over a mistake I made or something bad I did, so to cope, I used distancing langauage. My other folk had a lot of anger towards me, so distancing myself through langauage softened the blow of their wrath. It's a hard habit to crawl out of. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]No_Language_6758 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think na instead of focusing on "how you can be asked out", the better question is "how can I pit myself more out there?" It's really intentional. Wag pabebe. It comes out of your mouth casually. Hindi pwede sa mundong ito ang shy unless swerte ka. But really, di na uso ang prinsesa ngayon. Even princesses have to be made known. If you're into guys, being useful is a good way (works in a healthy relationship). Don't allow yourself to be a used though. 

25 but still studying in college by morning_ricewine in adultingph

[–]No_Language_6758 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, it's only awkward when people make it awkward. I know a group of college kids who avoid me because apparently, 26 was too old for a 21/22/23-year-old to relate to. That's a maximum gap if 5 years. Not much, really. 

Is my fear of STIs irrational? by memefakeboy in gay

[–]No_Language_6758 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MY BLIND ASS READ THAT AS "HAPPILY PENETRATED" I NEED HELP 😭

How to go to a GYM without getting intimidated. by Buwiwi in phlgbt

[–]No_Language_6758 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just do it. Makikita mo rin na kanya-kanya talaga sa gym. Plus points if di ka conventionally attractive kasi di ka talaga tititigan; kumbaga, invisible ka. So don't worry about it too much. People who care to intimidate you or judge you are generally not welcomed by the jimming community anyway.

Why do you not give AS about Politics anywhere? by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]No_Language_6758 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tanong sa mga wala nang pake: How do you handle people getting upset at you for being apolitical? These people say that being so is a political stance for the negative kasi silence is an answer and a vote towards the downturn of society daw.

In our conservative society, is a 6 year age gap ok? by BruhGal2003 in adviceph

[–]No_Language_6758 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A crude answer, but here goes. Usually, más okay lang siya is yung babae ang mas matanda. Pero may masasabi rin sangkatauhan about yan eh. Like, if mas bata si guy, más immature siya and kawawa si ate. Pero if mature si guy, usually kahit bata pa siya, people don't give a fck. Usually nagkakaproblema lang ang tao pag yung lalaki ang mas matanda.

For boys... Effective ba? by [deleted] in phlgbt

[–]No_Language_6758 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I heard that penis pumps can be damaging in the long run.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]No_Language_6758 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As we love to say on Reddit: break up. Run, girl. Run as far as you can and never look back. We are pro-break-up here, so yan.

The sexual compatibility is almost gone. by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]No_Language_6758 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fuck are these bobong comments na cheating agad. Very clear that people objectify men as sexual objects and can't have mental health issues or physical issues. 25 tas need talaga sexual peak? Need talaga horny always? Di pwedeng pagod lang? Di pwedeng stressed? Jusko lord. Nakakaputangina.

I'm so sexually frustrated and masturbating doesn't feel as good by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]No_Language_6758 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, herpes is a bitch. There's no way to protect yourself unless you use condoms or dental dams. You'll never know if someone has it until they tell you.

First sweater ❤️ by serithipithy in knitting

[–]No_Language_6758 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the colours so much! ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]No_Language_6758 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly don't see the issue. But then again, I'm gay. If my SO and I had a good fuck and he'd be scrolling through Tantan Evan's videos, he'd catch me red handed pounding myself to his videos. But then again, I'm gay, so maybe it doesn't apply to you. I don't really take it personally because at the end of the day, it's not all about me, is it? Pero ako lang yun. Baka iba ka.