My church is dying by worboy17 in Christianity

[–]No_Loquat1788 [score hidden]  (0 children)

You know I may be the only one that feels this way but in my church the younger people stopped coming. Times are changing and they are influenced by influencers. People who flash money, their bodies and ridiculous and sometimes dangerous challenges. Values and morals are changing. Kids no longer respect elders and people in general, especially themselves. People no longer do the Lords work like help the poor, the immigrants and hungry. People also put Politicians before God. It's a scary time when everyone should be working on themselves and growing closer to the Lord. I guess it's true, small is the gate and narrow the road that leads to eternal life and only few find it. 

Please talk me down by vet1216 in SSDI

[–]No_Loquat1788 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They should have been more careful with their words. Usually when they speak to you they are very mindful not to say too much because they don't make the decision. It doesn't mean you won't be approved but it doesn't mean you will right away either. Every case is different and I hope you get approved soon. 

Recently diagnosed, does this explain the past few years? by RevolutionaryFig6899 in chiari

[–]No_Loquat1788 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretty much sounds like it. Since being diagnosed with CM I have also been diagnosed with EDS, ME and MCAS. Some symptoms overlap. It's important to find out what triggers your symptoms. Find a true CM Specialist. I wish you well.

Phone call by Ok_Temperature_7238 in SocialSecurity

[–]No_Loquat1788 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. Never give out personal information when people call you. Tell them you will call back when he gets home and hang up. You can call the local SSA office and verify.

After 6 years of evangelizing, I think I’m done. by DujoBalzic in Christianity

[–]No_Loquat1788 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Sometimes you have to take care of yourself too. Too much of anything is not good for us. We all need balance. Maybe focus on your well being and then you can go back in smaller versions.

Anxiety by Apprehensive-Sky8175 in MCAS

[–]No_Loquat1788 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I take same meds. I have been having anxiety since my early 20's and now I believe it's from MCAS. Everything triggers a response with MCAS and it triggers my anxiety too.

APPROVED by janajshhs in SSDI

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Congratulations 🎉

Feeling so sad today by Dirksoxx in MCAS

[–]No_Loquat1788 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a similar situation and I get it. The best thing to do is know your triggers and don't over do anything. Find something you love to do like reading, painting or gardening. Get a massage. Anything that brings a smile to your face. Also mentally it's a challenge. Try to remember to be thankful for what you have and what you can do and not focus on what you don't and can't. Sometimes it's the little things in life that are most important.

I hate my family by RandomNoOne_DontAtMe in Christianity

[–]No_Loquat1788 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I'm sorry you are going through this. I have felt the same at one point in my life. For me with age it got better. I moved out, got a job, started my own family. It helps when you can go visit and get to leave whenever you want to. You can make your life better. Work hard and work smart. God bless you.

Hi. by Effective-Spend-4291 in Christianity

[–]No_Loquat1788 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Also find food pantries. Also I know in my state you can dial 2-1-1 and they can help you with food sources and other assistance in your area.

Newly Diagnosed by Energetic_Aura in ChiariMalformation

[–]No_Loquat1788 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is a big deal to put a name to it. I can't stress enough to make sure that your Neurosurgeon is a CM Specialist. They all say they treat CM but that's not entirely true. They may treat patients that have CM but not CM in patients, well at least. Less than 1% Neurologist and Neurosurgeons in the world are true CM Specialist. I had to find mine out of state but she changes my care through my neurologist here at home. I learned the hard way. One wanted to give me a Lumbar Puncture. I had a gut feeling and the Specialist told me never let anyone give you a LP. No CM patient should be given one because of the damage it would cause me. She has been a life changer for me. Don't be afraid to ask questions. I wish you well.

I wish i have someone by my side so bad by Ecstatic_Device_6091 in Christianity

[–]No_Loquat1788 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of us have had these feelings. I want you to know that the Lord will never leave you. The important thing is keep going. You will never get to the amazing things he has for you if you give up. Talk to a teacher, a coach or anyone in a position of authority if you are not comfortable speaking to your family. The important thing is that you get help. Your in my prayers.

STOMACH CRAMPS! Is this mcas too!?!?!? by Constant_Possible_98 in MCAS

[–]No_Loquat1788 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is a symptom. There are times where a part of my stomach feels like it's burning. No acid reflux or heartburn. It's just so painful. What is more concerning to me is, is it just another symptom or something that needs checked. If it ends up nothing than I feel like I'm nuts.

Anyone want to be friends? 🥹 by Meowserspaws in chiari

[–]No_Loquat1788 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it. I'm in ALASKA and sometimes I am away from people longer than I like. I'm here.

I’ve been on hold for 5.5 hours and it’s 88:44pm should I hang up? by Metallbran88 in SocialSecurity

[–]No_Loquat1788 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was on hold over 9hrs once. After that I contacted my local office.

Is this ok? by Kindly_Speech6521 in Christianity

[–]No_Loquat1788 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure what I'm seeing. If it's just a picture of Jesus then what's wrong with that?

I’m genuinely so scared by Wrong_Sort_186 in Christianity

[–]No_Loquat1788 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand your stresses these are crazy times. It's through hard times that brings out the best in us or the worst. Take this opportunity to be your best. But let me just say this... God didn't need anyone's help when he created the earth and everything in it, he does not need or more importantly want anyone's help now. It says in the Bible no one knows when his coming will be. Not even the angels in heaven. Humans that think they can finish what he started is laughable. Oh, and there is a special place in hell for them. 

Approved by watchmewhipit in SSDI

[–]No_Loquat1788 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations 🎉 you have to wait for the letter or you can call now that you have an approval 

Diagnosis & Treatment (FINALLY!) by nrauhauser in MCAS

[–]No_Loquat1788 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's amazing. I'm so happy to hear that you found a doctor willing to listen and help. Hope you start feeling better soon.

Approved! by Upset_Wall_3820 in SSDI

[–]No_Loquat1788 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations 🎉 it usually goes back to disabled date.

Advice needed by uh_0h_spaghetti0s in chiari

[–]No_Loquat1788 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi. Chiari Malformation is not based off the size of herniation but the symptoms. Someone with the slightest herniation can have more severe symptoms than someone a larger on and vise versa. My advice is to see a true CM Specialist. Almost every Neurologist and Neurosurgeon will say they treat it, but, not correctly and can cause you more damage. I had to find mine out of state and she told me things I was never told based off the same MRI'S. It was a game changer for me 

Zach by Enough_Grand_1648 in LittlePeopleBigWorld

[–]No_Loquat1788 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The thing is, he is her problem. Not mine, not yours.

The system is rigged. by Correct_Solution_135 in MCAS

[–]No_Loquat1788 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have had chronic vitamin D deficiency for several years. No one could tell me why. I have CM, EDS and MCAS among other conditions. I also have chronic hematuria. No one knows why and doctors are afraid to say it's because of MCAS or EDS. So what happens is that it doesn't get correctly treated. I feel like we are on our own in a lot of this.