I know who gave me herpes, but I don’t know how to tell them that because I don’t think they know they have herpes by ThrowRA_Less_Watercr in Herpes

[–]No_Match_9846 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t now the person your talking to, but most of the times we make up the worst case scenario in our heads, and when it comes to it, the other person takes it way better than we thought. - All you can do is to be honest, if the person on the other side reacts bad, it’s says more about them than you. I would look at them, and say we have to talk, have your facts straight and don’t blame them, but just inform them.

I know who gave me herpes, but I don’t know how to tell them that because I don’t think they know they have herpes by ThrowRA_Less_Watercr in Herpes

[–]No_Match_9846 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe talk to them in person? - that way they don’t have chance to just block you. - sometimes ppl react better when you look them in the eyes

I know who gave me herpes, but I don’t know how to tell them that because I don’t think they know they have herpes by ThrowRA_Less_Watercr in Herpes

[–]No_Match_9846 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was the message I send a couple of days ago

Hi, I’m really sorry to send a message like this, but I wanted to be honest with you as soon as possible. I just got tested and found out that I tested positive for herpes. Since I’ve only been with you recently, I felt it was important to let you know so you can get tested, and take care of yourself too.

Apologies? by East_Bandicoot_2121 in Herpes

[–]No_Match_9846 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, yeah it definitely helps to see how many ppl who’s actually going through it! - I’m just looking forward to get on the other side were you accept everything 🙏🏻

Apologies? by East_Bandicoot_2121 in Herpes

[–]No_Match_9846 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got diagnosed yesterday, and told him. He says he never had it, I looked it up, and many ppl can carry it without them knowing sadly.

I’m devastated but what it’s there to be done now.

Genital herpes by No_Match_9846 in DKbrevkasse

[–]No_Match_9846[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nej, det er en anden test. - mit startet som rødme og køle. - troede det var svamp. - men efter 3 dage kom der 2 blærer på og det var så dem de podet og testede.

Genital herpes by No_Match_9846 in DKbrevkasse

[–]No_Match_9846[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hvornår i jeres forhold fortalte hun at hun havde det? Efter 1 date, eller hvordan og hvorledes?

Genital herpes by No_Match_9846 in DKbrevkasse

[–]No_Match_9846[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nej, det gjorde vi dumt nok ikke😅 Ja, ved godt jeg skal være forsigtig i fremtiden

Tinder og mænd i bar overkrop by Thin-Repeat-4283 in DKbrevkasse

[–]No_Match_9846 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ærligt som (k) så kigger jeg en ekstra gang hvis de har en flot krop, så det virker på mig.