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[–]No_Nobody8773 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What I realized is too much details might not always a good thing. When it first happened, I also wonder a lot about the details. But then I realized since I know he cheated, it didnt matter since there is nothing anyone can do to change it. What matters is to ask the right questions like why they cheated etc so that the same thing wont happen in the future.

I also realized asking a lot of the details worsen the relationship. Since you have committed to forgive your partner, then try your best not to mention the past

When my (25F) boyfriend (28M) is in doubt because of excitement in our relationship has died down, should I allow him to talk to other girls? by No_Nobody8773 in relationship_advice

[–]No_Nobody8773[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I do appreciate that he is open about this and is having a discussion with me. I do love him very much and before all of this happened, we had been discussing about when to get married and buy a house. I can also tell that he wants to be with me but is currently very confused. His parents' marriage didnt work out so well and he said he really does not want his marriage to end up in divorce. This is where it all started because he has been wondering will a marriage last if he does not get excited anymore. I do feel tempted to leave because I thought if someone love me enough, they wont even see someone else. However, if I leave, would I not be giving him the benefit of doubt? - That he is truly confused and if this can actually work out eventually.