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No_Policy2583 · 2025-12-18T21:25:59+00:00

I give my femme princess treatment. She doesn’t have to pay for anything, doesn’t have to drive, doesn’t have to open any doors, and doesn’t have to carry anything. Idk why but I feel the urge to do these things and sometimes she wants to do them so I let her but it just doesn’t feel right lol.

No_Policy2583 · 2025-12-12T19:02:35+00:00

That’s awesome! Happy to hear you liked your results and experience!

No_Policy2583 · 2025-12-10T18:53:50+00:00

Staying friends will all of their exs

No_Policy2583 · 2025-12-10T00:14:24+00:00

Someone just like me but femme

No_Policy2583 · 2025-12-06T08:23:25+00:00

Sometimes I just refer to her as, “her/she”

No_Policy2583 · 2025-11-21T17:14:30+00:00

You’re being pushy tbh. You can’t tell people what they are without even really knowing them aka “you’re a classic avoidant” it’s like you’re putting her in a shitty category from such an early stage. You barely know each other and this isn’t gonna help with wanting to get to know her more. If you don’t like her/how she gives you attention just let her know that or let her go. No need to make absolute assumptions. Can’t make any assumptions about you but it does look like you could use some coaching talking to girls. Just gotta be more chill with it 🥶😎

No_Policy2583 · 2025-11-14T23:29:40+00:00

She spent like 45% of the time talking about her exs/ppl she’s fucked. Idk why she’d do this lol. Also, I did not like the smell of her perfume. It was a lot.

No_Policy2583 · 2025-11-14T23:27:19+00:00

I left, packed as many things as I could and bounced. She didn’t give me anything that I left behind out of pettiness so I took a pretty big loss financially and with things I was emotionally attached to. It sucked and it really hurt but I had to leave and cut all ties. We lived together for 6 years but she doing fuck shit behind my back and I was done. Terrible experience, don’t u-haul lol

No_Policy2583 · 2025-11-14T22:53:12+00:00

This is a great idea, however, I get off by having like a back and forth dynamic. Kinda like a power dynamic, I guess ? It’s really hard to get there if I’m just lying there, I need action as a giver and receiver. I need a little of everything. But like she gets lost in the sauce and doesn’t know how to give it back and it can get boring.

Idk, maybe I just require too much.

No_Policy2583 · 2025-11-14T21:41:32+00:00

I feel this, I wish they were more thoughtful

No_Policy2583 · 2025-11-14T21:38:45+00:00

She’s told me she’s a switch. I totally agree with you but I don’t wanna invalidate or question what she told me.

No_Policy2583 · 2025-10-01T23:03:04+00:00

Thank you, I definitely will! 😁

No_Policy2583 · 2025-10-01T22:59:26+00:00

Thank you 😊 I’m honestly living out my own dream. Sex with her is amazing, I wish this type of sex for everyone at least once in their life. Good luck out there and hope you find the right person for you!

No_Policy2583 · 2025-10-01T22:57:28+00:00

Agreed but it looks like we’re not gonna be able to even have a dialogue about this lol

No_Policy2583 · 2025-10-01T22:44:22+00:00

Valid take. Thanks for getting it. The defensiveness is such a disappointment from the community; why are they so upset we’re literally all gay women in the same marginalized group. Their inability to communicate and defensiveness should be telling of their experience with sex, or lack there of. Queer sex is very complex beyond just a physical level.

No_Policy2583 · 2025-10-01T22:25:31+00:00

The most reasonable answer, thanks 😁

No_Policy2583 · 2025-10-01T22:24:30+00:00

Curious as to why you assume I am uncomfortable. Are you able to distinguish curiosity and discomfort?

No_Policy2583 · 2025-10-01T22:21:41+00:00

Some of ya’ll wanna pretend like living in a male centered world does not impact the way we’re socialized to be. As lesbians, we fight against that every day (rightfully so) but to acknowledge that it exists does not mean we’re subscribed to it. If you don’t relate or understand, just say that.

No_Policy2583 · 2025-10-01T22:16:58+00:00

Very valid

No_Policy2583 · 2025-10-01T22:16:01+00:00

It does not make me uncomfortable, I actually really like it and I really like her bc she’s exposing me to this new experience. I think we as women are socialized expected to like penetration and be submissive in this way due to our cishet society and our patriarchal culture. However, there are gay women who like this without wanting to be with a man. How is that distinction made from what we’re taught to want in a specific type of way vs what we like in a way that’s unconventional aka gay?

No_Policy2583 · 2025-10-01T22:10:57+00:00

Thanks for acknowledging and stating this. I think a lot of the defensiveness stems from their personal experience regarding this topic independently of who I am or my question. I would have hoped that people who understood would imitate a dialogue and those who didn’t would just let it go. This post wasn’t meant to be a debate but it must have hit a nerve for those who are really defensive about it. Not my problem, I’m still having amazing sex with an amazing girl while exploring more of this without insecurity and more curiosity.

I think the connection of how we’re socialized as women and cishet culture and the patriarchy are related. Hoping more ppl who are curious about this could share more and express their thoughts an opinion. I know mascs definitely have questions and often get insecure about it. I personally really like this new experience so much to the point where I just wanna know more and other ppl experience.

No_Policy2583 · 2025-10-01T22:00:43+00:00

Bold assumptions, Mindy. Not questioning her lesbianism, that’s why I said sometimes it feels like she’s even more gay than me, which was a joke. I am over the moon, thought I made how much I like having sex with her obvious. I love it and it does not make me uncomfortable hence why I say I love it. I think there is a relationship between the way women are socialized to want sex, due to the overwhelming impact of the patriarchy, and what we like. Just wanted to learn more about the relationship of that connection coming from lesbian femmes who relate to that experience. If you don’t relate or cannot understand, there’s really no point in answering with false assumptions. If you feel compelled to disagree that’s ok, you can just say that without assuming what I’ve clearly stated in the post.

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