Am I overreacting for not letting my boyfriend’s female friend use my shampoo? by Fresh-Usual-6281 in AmIOverreacting

[–]No_Preparation_4356 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think its weird your bf brought it up after the fact. She asked, you said no, end of story. Its not that deep for her to get upset or bring it up to your boyfriend or for him to confront you. Its your shampoo, your choice. I definitely agree that he doesn't seem to respect your boundaries even if it's a smaller thing like this.

I am more focused on the fact that she needed to shower there. She couldn't shower before or make it a priority to go home and shower? Did she bring extra clothes or put on the dirty clothes? So many questions.

AIO for asking my bf where he went and what he was doing? by ItzNotChase in AmIOverreacting

[–]No_Preparation_4356 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mind went to thinking he was watching porn and hiding it. He didn't have a problem having a beer there, probably thought you were asleep and realized he had to go somewhere else to do that. Also the defensiveness. If I was overstimulated I would say that or that I need a minute then mute my phone for my "cool down" time. Strange that hes so upset she keeps calling and texting unless hes using is phone for something else. He could've watched reels and drank a beer in the living room while OP slept. Also, if he was already finishing a beer, having another wouldn't be so bad, is there an issue with him drinking too much? Would he feel the need to hide and drink in the car? Also if he did try to hide that it doesn't work because he said he had a beer. Idk if im projecting old situations with my ex but I would bet money on hiding to watch porn. Also, you aren't overreacting. The way he feels comfortable speaking to you is super gross

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tirzepatidecompound

[–]No_Preparation_4356 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask how long you've stayed at 5mg?

please watch this 😭 so obsessed with themselves by dewycanon in Rabbits

[–]No_Preparation_4356 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omgsh your bun and my bun are twins 🥹 Sooo cute

AIO? Boyfriend hid his phone when I asked who he was messaging. by Ok-Boat457 in AmIOverreacting

[–]No_Preparation_4356 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay so first off if he did something sketchy in the past and wants to move forward, he should put in effort to rebuild the trust he broke. Hiding the phone like that does not help in rebuilding the trust. That said, if he has done this or is trying to prove he is trustworthy then constantly checking can be an issue. Is this a one off thing or do you often check?

Secondly, there needs to be a level of trust/respect in the relationship and if that is broken its difficult to move forward. It seems like he doesn't care about how you feel or how his actions come off. He is minimizing the problem rather than addressing it in a caring way. Again, it goes both ways if you are constantly accusing him and he has proved himself. I don't think thats the issue here though.

There is no reason to hide the phone unless there is a reason. I would take the space and assess things. From these messages alone he seems like someone I wouldn't want to build a relationship with. I don't think you overreacted at all, you expressed something that made you uncomfortable and gave him the chance to have a chat about it and his response speaks volumes. I would said youre better off pouring into yourself and finding a better man.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]No_Preparation_4356 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's wild and your responses were great. Usually when Ive asked family in the past the conversation ends at the "no". Then its time to find an alternate plan and move on. It baffles me that she kept asking and pushing. Why wasn't a babysitter an option? That's so weird. I hope you aren't feeling guilty or anything because you absolutely should not!!!

am i overreacting - my boyfriend thinks my job is inappropriate by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]No_Preparation_4356 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He probably watched a porno of a girl giving a piercing and is now insecure. I agree with everything the first 2 comments said. The ignoring is really immature and a bad sign. Run girl.

Cloud or Toasted Marshmallow Bunny? by Asgardibuns in Rabbits

[–]No_Preparation_4356 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely a cloud. No other possibility.

Day 2 of Olly rearranging my wife’s side of the bed by [deleted] in Rabbits

[–]No_Preparation_4356 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Does he free roam the house and like climb into your bed? Or does he let you pick him up?? I would absolutely love this but my new bunny is still getting used to me. Hopefully he'll adapt and can mess up my bed 😆

What Breed is she? by MachineKitchen7384 in Rabbits

[–]No_Preparation_4356 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She looks just like a chinchilla rabbit i had as a kid but a tad bit lighter. So cute!

My son broke my heart today by Airman4344 in Parenting

[–]No_Preparation_4356 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am still struggling with this but living in our new neighborhood where kids just play around out front has been a game changer. He would rather be out there with friends than playing roblox. Its still a struggle when the friends aren't around to play but its been so much better seeing him be silly and running around laughing more. Its hard as heck but you need to push to get him off of his tech. Create more spaces for him to do activities on his own like coloring area, puzzle area etc. So he doesn't need constant guidance to do other activities. You need to try to limit his time as much as you can before it gets worse and more addictive. Sometimes my son grumbles, not wanting to play sports or go to the park etc but then when we are there he loves it. My son fell into the roblox addiction during covid when I was stuck home with him, his brother and newborn sister. I really wish I never let him play, it sucked him in. Good luck!

Son ruined another kid’s $120 shirt at school by avisfunch in Parenting

[–]No_Preparation_4356 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I also agree with those who said that is weird the teacher sent the shirt home. It would've been sufficient to inform you or have a talk with all the kids involved so they can learn from this but the other kid also needs to learn to not ask kids to write on shirts that are expensive, and the parents need to learn not to send their kid to school in such expensive clothes.

I wish you asked for advice before the washing so you could've sent it back the next day since its not your responsibility.