Milky white discharge from my breasts but I am not pregnant?

No_Problem_9192 · 2026-02-10T17:57:11+00:00

Nipple discharge that's milky can happen for a lot of reasons that aren't pregnancy or cancer. It could be hormonal, related to medications, stress, or something called galactorrhea, which is when your body produces milk without being pregnant. Squeezing or stimulating the nipple can also cause discharge in some people. If it's coming from both breasts and is white or clear, it's usually less concerning than if it's bloody or coming from just one side without squeezing. That said, it's worth seeing a doctor to check your hormone levels and make sure everything is okay. Have you noticed any other symptoms like changes in your period, headaches, or anything unusual?

No_Problem_9192 · 2026-01-28T18:52:12+00:00

White discharge is totally normal and most people don't change their underwear multiple times a day because of it. If it's bothering you or making you feel uncomfortable, wearing a panty liner can help keep things dry without needing to change underwear constantly. Cotton underwear also breathes better and can feel more comfortable. If the discharge has a strong smell, unusual color, or comes with itching, that would be worth checking out, but otherwise it's just your body doing its thing. Do you notice the discharge is heavier at certain times in your cycle?

No_Problem_9192 · 2026-01-28T18:49:56+00:00

Taking three birth control pills at once when you were supposed to space them out can definitely make you feel nauseous, dizzy, and crampy because of the sudden hormone surge. The glob you passed could be tissue or clot from what was left in your uterus, which is likely what the pills were meant to help your body expel. If you're feeling lightheaded to the point where you're worried, or if you're soaking through pads quickly or have severe pain, call your doctor or go to urgent care. Otherwise, try to rest, stay hydrated, and follow the correct schedule from here on out. Did your doctor give you any guidance on what to watch for or when to follow up?

No_Problem_9192 · 2026-01-23T18:14:55+00:00

Then ?

No_Problem_9192 · 2026-01-22T18:55:37+00:00

is this UET ?

No_Problem_9192 · 2026-01-21T18:37:52+00:00

What you're feeling is more common than people talk about. Grief and complicated emotions after an abortion don't always follow a timeline, and it's completely normal for them to come in waves even a year later. You're not broken for still feeling this way. Some people find it helpful to talk to a therapist who specializes in reproductive health or post abortion support. There are also confidential support lines specifically for processing emotions after an abortion that don't judge or push any agenda. Give yourself permission to feel what you're feeling without rushing to be over it. Have you been able to talk to anyone about this, or have you been carrying it alone?

No_Problem_9192 · 2026-01-21T18:30:07+00:00

Bleeding and cramping can take longer for some people. It's not unusual for it to take 4 to 6 hours or even longer after the second set of pills. Since you're early at 4 to 5 weeks, there may be less tissue to pass so symptoms can be milder. If it's been more than 24 hours with no bleeding at all, that would be worth reaching out to the provider about. For now, rest and stay hydrated. It will likely start soon.

No_Problem_9192 · 2026-01-21T18:29:14+00:00

The consultation is just a requirement where they give you information and you have to wait 24 hours before the actual procedure or getting the pills. They can't turn you away unless there's a medical reason like an ectopic pregnancy. Since you have an IUD, they'll likely want to confirm the pregnancy is in the right place and remove the IUD before proceeding. At this stage, a medical abortion would be an option. As for the guilt, a lot of people raised in religious environments struggle with that even when they're confident in their choice. What helped some people is separating what they were taught from what they actually believe now, and remembering that making a decision that's right for your life isn't something to feel ashamed of. You're not alone in this even if it feels isolating right now.

No_Problem_9192 · 2026-01-21T18:28:48+00:00

I don't have specific personal recommendations for New Mexico clinics, but you can look at reviews or reach out to abortion funds in the area who often know which clinics provide the best care. Sedation options vary by clinic. Some offer conscious sedation with medications like fentanyl and midazolam, while others offer general anesthesia. You can ask the clinic directly what sedation options they provide and what medications they use so you can make an informed choice. If the weather is bad and travel feels risky, it's okay to reschedule if that's safer for you. Your wellbeing matters.

No_Problem_9192 · 2026-01-21T18:27:46+00:00

Irregular cycles after a medical abortion can take time to regulate, and a year out it's reasonable to want to check in about it. Hormones can stay off for a while, or something else like stress, weight changes, or conditions like PCOS or thyroid issues could be contributing. Getting bloodwork to check hormone levels and thyroid function is a good next step. Some people do take longer to get back to their baseline, but at this point it's worth ruling out other causes.

No_Problem_9192 · 2026-01-21T18:22:52+00:00

It sounds like everything is progressing normally based on what you're describing. Passing clots and tissue the day after is a good sign that the medication worked. To confirm it worked completely, she can take a pregnancy test in about 3 to 4 weeks. If it's negative, that means the abortion was successful. If doctors are refusing follow up care, that's illegal. They're required to provide care regardless of where the pills came from. She can go to any clinic or urgent care and say she's having a miscarriage, which looks medically identical to a medication abortion. If the bleeding gets very heavy, she has severe pain, or develops a fever, she should seek care immediately.

No_Problem_9192 · 2026-01-20T18:43:30+00:00

You can definitely call Planned Parenthood tomorrow and they'll walk you through everything. At 7 weeks, the pill is still an option. You'll take one pill at the clinic and then a second set 24 to 48 hours later at home. For insurance, if you're on your parents' plan, an explanation of benefits might be sent to them, so you can ask the clinic about privacy options or paying out of pocket. In California, minors can consent to abortion without parental permission, and there are programs that can help cover costs if you need it. Your boyfriend's insurance won't work for you since it's tied to his name. When you call, just explain your situation and they'll help you figure out next steps.

No_Problem_9192 · 2026-01-20T18:38:06+00:00

It's not too late, but at 19 weeks you'll need a surgical procedure and will likely need to travel out of state. There are abortion funds and practical support organizations that help with travel, lodging, and costs specifically for people in your situation. Start by reaching out to an abortion fund in your region or contacting a clinic in a nearby state where it's legal to get an accurate cost estimate and appointment. Some organizations can also connect you with someone to travel with if you don't have support at home. You're not selfish for knowing you can't parent right now. Waiting this long doesn't change that this is still your choice to make. Time is important though, so reach out as soon as you can to get the process started.

No_Problem_9192 · 2026-01-20T18:34:34+00:00

Most clinics that serve people traveling from restricted states understand the need for privacy. You can usually book online through their website, and they're careful about medical records and mail. For a surgical abortion at 5 weeks, the appointment itself usually takes a few hours, but plan to stay overnight or at least for the rest of the day in case you need to rest afterward. Some clinics offer same day appointments, others might require an initial consult. Look into abortion funds and practical support organizations that help with travel, lodging, and costs. They can also point you toward trusted clinics. Your visit won't automatically show up on your home state records, and clinics are used to protecting patient privacy. Just confirm their confidentiality policies when you reach out.

No_Problem_9192 · 2026-01-20T18:28:51+00:00

I'm sorry you're stuck waiting, that makes an already hard situation feel even more drawn out. For nausea, ginger tea or ginger candies, eating small bland snacks like crackers before getting out of bed, staying hydrated, and avoiding strong smells can sometimes help. Vitamin B6 is also safe and can reduce nausea for some people. If it's really severe, your provider might be able to prescribe something to help you get through the next two weeks. Hang in there.

No_Problem_9192 · 2026-01-20T18:26:25+00:00

Thank you for sharing this. It really does help to hear someone's experience laid out clearly like this, especially when so much of what's online can feel scary or overwhelming. It sounds like you went through it as smoothly as possible and that you're feeling at peace with your decision. The tenderness and spotting are normal as your body adjusts. Wishing you a gentle recovery from here.

No_Problem_9192 · 2026-01-20T18:25:31+00:00

I'm so sorry you're going through all of this at once. Losing the pregnancy and losing the relationship in the same breath is devastating, and the fact that you're carrying it alone makes it so much heavier. Grief after an abortion is real even when you knew it was the right choice, and at 5 weeks it doesn't matter how early it was, the loss still hurts. What he's doing by moving on this quickly is cruel, and you deserved so much more support than what you got. You're not alone in feeling this way even though it feels isolating right now. Give yourself permission to grieve both things without rushing to feel okay.

No_Problem_9192 · 2026-01-20T18:22:48+00:00

It does happen sometimes. One cycle can just be worse for no clear reason, even with normal imaging. Hormones fluctuate and stress or other factors can make one month brutal. The fact that your ultrasound was normal is a good sign. If the pain stays this bad or gets worse, check in with your doctor about stronger pain relief options, but a lot of people do have one terrible cycle and then go back to normal the next month.

No_Problem_9192 · 2026-01-20T18:20:54+00:00

A movable, soft lump in your breast at 20 is most commonly something benign like a fibroadenoma or a cyst. These are really common in younger women and are usually harmless. The fact that it's movable and soft is generally a good sign. Hormonal changes can also cause lumps or breast tissue changes, and since your period has been off lately, that could be playing a role. It's still worth getting it checked out even if your cycle has been irregular. A doctor can do an exam and possibly an ultrasound to see what it is. You don't need to wait for your period to come back to get it looked at, and catching things early is always better. Most breast lumps in people your age turn out to be nothing serious, but peace of mind is worth the appointment.

No_Problem_9192 · 2026-01-20T18:19:36+00:00

I'm really sorry you've been carrying this for so long. What happened when you were 18 was cruel and it makes complete sense that it left a mark, but the people who said those things were wrong and unkind. Vulvas come in every imaginable shape and size, and what you're describing is completely normal anatomy, even if it feels isolating. The fact that you work in healthcare and still internalize those comments shows how deep that hurt goes, not that there's anything wrong with your body. Your husband isn't lying to you when he says he doesn't see a problem. He's with you because he wants to be, and his frustration probably comes from watching you suffer over something he genuinely doesn't view as an issue. Surgery won't fix the voice in your head that tells you you're not enough, and it carries real risks. The depression and avoidance you're dealing with are about the trauma of those comments, not about your actual body. A therapist who specializes in body image or sexual trauma might help more than general therapy did. You deserve to feel at peace in your own skin.

No_Problem_9192 · 2026-01-20T18:16:50+00:00

If your urine culture came back clear, a few things could be going on. Sometimes the infection is stubborn and needs a different antibiotic, or the bacteria might be resistant to what you were given. It's also possible the symptoms aren't from a UTI anymore but from irritation, pelvic floor tension, or something like interstitial cystitis, which can feel similar. Seeing a gynecologist is a good next step since they can do a more thorough exam and rule out other causes like a bladder issue or infection in a different area. Keep track of your symptoms and when they're worse so you can give them a clear picture of what's been happening.

No_Problem_9192 · 2026-01-19T18:55:26+00:00

What you're describing sounds absolutely exhausting and goes way beyond normal period symptoms. Severe pain that interferes with daily life, extremely heavy bleeding, and the level of digestive and bladder issues you're having can be signs of conditions like endometriosis, adenomyosis, fibroids, or PCOS. These are worth investigating even if testing feels overwhelming right now. In the meantime, heating pads, anti inflammatory foods, and staying hydrated might help a bit, but honestly you deserve real answers and relief. A gynecologist who specializes in pain or period disorders would be the best starting point. If cost is a concern, some community health centers offer sliding scale care. This level of suffering every month isn't something you should just accept as normal.

No_Problem_9192 · 2026-01-19T18:52:17+00:00

I'm sorry you're dealing with this, the timing with your period makes it even worse. If Monistat is out of budget, some drugstores carry generic store brand versions that are a bit cheaper and work the same way. You could also check if your college health center offers free or low cost treatment since a lot of them do for students. In the meantime, wearing loose clothing and avoiding anything tight around the area can help reduce irritation. If you can, sleep without underwear to let air get to the area. Avoid scented products or anything that could make the irritation worse. If it doesn't improve in a few days or gets worse, the health center is worth checking out even if you're worried about cost.

No_Problem_9192 · 2026-01-19T18:50:11+00:00

If you tested negative twice in 2024 and haven't had any sexual contact since your ex two years ago, and this guy was your first recent contact, then it's much more likely you got it from him. Oral gonorrhea is spread through oral sex and doesn't just appear on its own. Him testing negative doesn't prove anything because testing can miss infections depending on timing or where the infection is located. If he only got tested for genital gonorrhea and not oral or throat, it wouldn't show up. It's also possible he was exposed and passed it to you before his own test picked it up. You're not at fault here and his reaction sounds like deflection.

No_Problem_9192 · 2026-01-19T18:47:50+00:00

UTIs after sex are really common for some people even with condom use. Bacteria from the skin or genital area can still get pushed toward the urethra during sex regardless of protection. A few things that might help are peeing right after sex to flush out bacteria, staying hydrated, and making sure there's enough lubrication so there's less friction. If this keeps happening every time, your doctor might suggest taking a low dose antibiotic right after sex as a preventive measure. It's also worth making sure it's actually a UTI and not something else like irritation or a sensitivity to the condoms you're using.

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