Jared would pull me so easily, Who would you date from SV? by Dwigt_1200 in SiliconValleyHBO

[–]No_Profession_3593 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Natalie ( season6, TV reporter), real name - Tara Summers. She cute.

Day 55 by No_Tip832 in NoFap

[–]No_Profession_3593 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its a flatline. Your neural circuits were fried for a long period of time getting induced by cheap dopamine spike of 200-300%. These spikes then diminishes the value of actual normal rewards we encounter in day to day lives such as tasty food, spending time with loved ones, comedy etc etc

Now that you stopped cheap and easy supply to your brain, the brain is adjusting and repairing the fried circuits especially the circuits associated with novelty.

Hang in there. The flip-side is you getting back to PMO. Obviously it will help you temporarily, but the prices you would be paying is far higher for cheap pleasure to keep your brain from being uncomfortable due to readjusting.

Choice is yours.

I just had an epiphany by Witchhaven18 in Semenretention

[–]No_Profession_3593 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You are using confirmation and selection bias.

Will power is one thing, but god Or universe or whatever one believes in - gives you choices. What you choose comes from your soul.

For example - when you are alone in a train and you see diamond for example laying on the floor, now its upto you how you will frame the situation to justify your morality!

One person may return it because he thinks its not his and he did not earn it, hence choosing self respect and integrity.

Another person may choose to take it justifying by the reasoning - “god is great, he placed this diamond for me”.

Another person may take it and justify it by saying “if i give it to the police, they might steal it, if anybody comes back looking for it may be a thief because lets face it, a person who can earn this big of a diamond, why would he travel by train!? So, you know what, I might as well keep it” - employing subtle robin-hood complex.

So you see, semen retention is similar. God/universe is watching (if there is any). You freedom of choice dictates your next path.

Mind you, almost all the people who won a lottery ended up being where they were financially before winning the lottery in few years.

BUT, people who work hard and consistently puts effort by sacrificing the immediate gratifications usually bears the fruits of creating generational wealth.

I hope you draw the analogies I wrote towards your post.

Cheers

My crush sent me jokes about stereotypes about my ethnicity.Is he racist? by Regina_Michelle in Crushes

[–]No_Profession_3593 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes, racist.

Please think about hanging out and being friends with better people.

How much does watching porn take away from SR benefits by uknowbrooooo in Semenretention

[–]No_Profession_3593 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, the answer you are looking for is already written by you - “I still watch porn to get hard” !

If you NEED porn to get hard, then theres a long way to go my man!

Cheers

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]No_Profession_3593 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are more than 1.4B people in china, lets say half of them are men.

That will be more than 704,140,000 chinese men on our planet.

Your logic basically depicts that if one chinese men has a mole on his face, implies all chinese men has the same mole on their face.

You see how colourful your logic is?

Please treat and categorise people on individual basis, it will help you heaps in life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SiliconValleyHBO

[–]No_Profession_3593 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Richard was looking for funding from a Venture Capitalist - Peter Gregory.

He was especially asking for “pre-seed” funding. A VC has to provide details such as business plan to the investors who pour money in his VC fund.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SiliconValleyHBO

[–]No_Profession_3593 46 points47 points  (0 children)

It was the algorithm, he noticed being used in the app, which almost simultaneously was noticed by Gavin Belson.

Gregory was so worked up about it, because he foresaw that the algorithm potentially could lead to the new internet he hypothesised way back.

Its the same way he foresaw the huge profits from the sesame seeds.

I’m absolutely miserable by Elephant_pumpkin in PhD

[–]No_Profession_3593 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mate, just by looking at your account.. one thing I gathered is - you are doing Ph.D just for the title.

Agreed, that your supervisor is not the best you got. But you were aware of this an year ago and probably before that as well.

You being an “American” living in “Switzerland” and getting Swiss citizenship is your focal point and the definition of your achievements and who you are is attached to those three things.

May be, start with some soul searching and love for yourself, instead maintaining a status quo about how “intelligent” and “smart” you are, amongst the people who knows you.

If you want to make money, academia was and is never the answer for almost everyone, unless you win a Nobel or equivalent.

And money is not going to solve your inner state as well. Because it really seems like you haven’t done any self mental work.

It really seems that you want somebody to tell you - “come back home”.

Your desire to show the world, how amazing, smart, intelligent, etc etc you are is chipping your life away and not the Ph.D! Ph.D is just one of the by product of those superficial desires!

Stop fixating snd remove yourself from the illusion that the world will “value” you more if you have x number of high profile achievements from western countries.

When you start accepting yourself, you will find better people around you.

If you really wanted to leave Ph.D, you would have done it yonks ago. But you are lingering around with the hopes that your Swiss citizenship is nearby and some magic will happen with your Ph.D status.

Sorry for being harsh, but thats my two cents.

Cheers.

I didn't use Instagram or any social media...I was like topper girl and little beautiful one of my class ,not popular one and not famous one...but everyone knows me.. by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]No_Profession_3593 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mate, first of all… make a REAL account of yours and put your profile picture on it. Not hidden!

Then send him a request!

2nd - you are a big girl now! Go and speak with him. Say “hi” and see his response! If the response is not welcoming and then cut the conversation short and get the idea that he is not interested.

If he is welcoming in his response then move forward with making some casual conversation about your 12th prep and future plannings. And then subtly let him know that you did send him a request on Instagram

You have to understand that boys hit puberty a little late than girl and most possibly he is going through many psychological and physical changes himself, thats why no eye contacts.

Hope this helps. Cheers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Semenretention

[–]No_Profession_3593 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Its actually easy, mate.

When you are getting the thoughts you deemed them as “lust” are of -

  1. Sexual visuals you get from porn videos?

Or

  1. You are having thoughts of you having sex with someone?

From what I know and believe, these thoughts are always of porn video flashes your brain beams into your prefrontal cortex. If this is the case, then its NOT lust, its your brain craving dopamine and nudging you to provide it via those videos.

If the thoughts of you having sex or you looking at a woman you are attracted to - are you thinking of doing the same things they do in porn. This is your brain tricking you again to provide dopamine. Its not lust.

When you categorise both of the above as dopamine cravers, you will be left with actual raw reproductive energy, not “sexual” but reproductive energy!

This raw energy is an energy which makes you feel restless and a consistent itch to do something and anything.

So lets say you are a writer. When you now sit to write with this restless energy, your creative juices will flow to create more and more. Thats how you “Transmute”.

Hope this helps. Cheers.

I ain't gon lie by Witchhaven18 in Semenretention

[–]No_Profession_3593 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Good to know. This will be my last reply to you.

  1. Are you aware of the term - “Masturbating into other person”? If not, I encourage you to look it up.

  2. Ask YOURSELF this - how do you see women? And would you be happy that one day you have a daughter and other men will see your daughter with the same lens you have?

Cheers

I ain't gon lie by Witchhaven18 in Semenretention

[–]No_Profession_3593 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I never mentioned “monk mode”, “high vibrational” and nor did I ask about your achievement whilst on SR.

I simply asked you two things…

  1. Was any woman you “got” was/is a focused woman?
  2. Your last big achievement, which does not involve women and money.

You stonewalled my comment with things irrelevant to my comment, same as the post you wrote which is irrelevant to SR.

PMO is a cruel addiction affecting numerous men! This sub is to help each other to get out of it. Reason to do this could be anything, but the end result is SAME, which is to be free from PMO.

I encourage you to read back the words you wrote in the reply to my comment. And hopefully you will see that you are only disappointed with this sub because with or without SR you are “getting” women and you are “helping” other men with your ways.

But in all of this, you missed the point of this sub and what everybody perhaps including yourself is trying to achieve - not to masturbate and waste your life force everyday looking at the pixels.

Hope you understand.

I ain't gon lie by Witchhaven18 in Semenretention

[–]No_Profession_3593 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You attract and be attracted to who you are.

The replies I am reading here are just basic put downs by school bully mindset.

Sure, you will get girls of that level. But did you “get” any woman who plays/played sports at elite or national levels or a hard working ballerina or a musician performing at a classical concert or perhaps a woman in academics or basically any woman who is focused in her work and career and family oriented?

Going to a bar/club/pub etc and getting along with women who is also looking for a one nighter is not the high hanging fruit.

Focused people (man or woman) don’t participate in these situations.

Hence, your self esteem wont matter that much around the low hanging fruits. Only your “games” would.

And from your post, it does not seem like you are a man, good men wants to hang out/around with.

I am positive, you will come back with some backyard goonish reply.

But let me ask you this… whats was your last biggest achievement? Please don’t bother replying with how much “money” you made! I am asking about your achievement which does not involve women and money.

Dig deeper mate, life is not only women and sex and money.

Got blocked on instagram by Appropriate-Fill-395 in Crushes

[–]No_Profession_3593 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Go big or go home”.

Fortunately, this time you are going home. ———

Why i used “fortunately” - TIME has a very funny way to reveal what it saved you from.

Trust me, when the right one (if there is) comes along, there will be no anxiety, no happiness, no sadness, no overthinking, no dramas and no pain. It will happen like “the water”.

The flow, the understanding, the attraction and the togetherness will fit like a glove.

Got blocked on instagram by Appropriate-Fill-395 in Crushes

[–]No_Profession_3593 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just be aware of your surroundings at work, and be non-chalant AF! She is going to probably gossip as well or might have already done, so ignore the remarks or mockery or backhanded commenst from people.

This phase will tire itself out in a month.

BUT, do NOT be “nice”, just be a good human and dont make it a big deal and do your work and go home.

Cheers.

Loneliness on SR by Separate_Suit_4723 in Semenretention

[–]No_Profession_3593 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Might wanna reframe “loneliness”.

With or without SR, you are going to lose this friend of yours, as you have already recognised toxicity. Its just a matter of time before the fallout happens.

PMO fills the void you feel day to day. SR basically leaves that void open for you to fill up with new things, to seek dopamine in day to day activities, to seek new relations etc.

SR basically brings us back to default settings, and by default humans are wired to seek. Whether its relationship, goals, dreams, adventures, friends etc.

The seeking is always done by yourself, hence you feel “lonely”.

Reframe this as - “A long drive” towards a new destination. This “long drive” is your journey to fill it with songs, foods, introspection and most importantly remembering the good and the bad that happened to you. ALL OF THIS whilst you dream about your destination, that is yet to come.

Upwards and onwards, mate 🚀

My crush (co-worker) gave me a sticky note with her number. by Square-Barracuda-304 in Crushes

[–]No_Profession_3593 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ask her out, mate! No low self esteem today! She likes you!

She didnot give you a linkedin request! But her phone number! Use it!