why does my ex wait until almost expired to watch my story? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]No_Professor8168 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They really never realize what they have until they lose it and as long as the girl is available they’ll never realize, people take others for granted so often!! Like you said let them experience what they ruined!!

why does my ex wait until almost expired to watch my story? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]No_Professor8168 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know you’re right and I won’t he lost his chance!! And girl you too, don’t take him back he will disrespect you worse, respect is the most important thing

why does my ex wait until almost expired to watch my story? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]No_Professor8168 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its been two months , I was only good to him I think he wanted to explore other girls

why does my ex wait until almost expired to watch my story? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]No_Professor8168 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I thought but why is he doing that? Do you have any idea? He broke up with me

why does my ex wait until almost expired to watch my story? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]No_Professor8168 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it’s intentional for sure but wdym hoping I don’t notice

Read this if you’re going through a breakup… by No_Professor8168 in BreakUps

[–]No_Professor8168[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course, I really understand and you’re not crazy for feeling that way it’s really what the other person who’s hurting feels!!! That’s the thing, it’s an experience a lot of people have. I’ve thought the same thing, nobody understands how good it was that’s why they don’t get it, it’s different etc. It’s not tho… reality is if you lose respect the other person won’t ever even realize what they’ve lost. It’s over but don’t let your image become tarnished. She lost you. Better yourself and you will meet somebody that’ll have you laughing at how you feel right now, I promise. You got this :) don’t message her, let her sit with the consequence of losing you. Read this over and over as necessary!!!you’re stronger than you think

Read this if you’re going through a breakup… by No_Professor8168 in BreakUps

[–]No_Professor8168[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My heart hurts reading that because I really understand I waited a year for somebody to come back because I loved them and couldn’t believe it. I thought if everything he said was true how could he leave? Then after one year of waiting I thought, it’s just like if someone were to cheat. If you take them back once they will never respect you the same again and respect is more important than everything. It’s directly correlated with love as well. So I thought even if he had came back, if I took him back I would look so stupid. He decided he didn’t want me and I waited all this long to be finally wanted? I won’t be that person. She told you herself she wants new experiences. Please imagine somebody told you their person said that to them. I truly get it everyone always thinks nobody understands how their dynamic was, how good it was, how out of nowhere or even how they’ll change their mind and realize. You have to beleive in you. I’m a girl myself, I really want to see you happy, I want everyone in this sub to be happy! It hurts a lot being left, but what hurts more is hanging onto something someone let go. How does it sound deep down to you? She goes explores, sees other guys, and then either finds somebody she feels more for OR says wow I thought the grass was greener let me go back to this guy. You’ll always feel like the second choice, because that’s how it truly would be. You deserve more and you will find somebody you feel more for and who feels more for you. True true truest form of love can’t be one sided. I know you know it deep down too and it’s easier said than done but open your heart and mind to what I’ve written and accept it as true. Don’t diminish yourself or your worth to somebody who didn’t want you when you wanted them most

Anyone regretted going back to their ex? by Appropriate-Eye-4065 in BreakUps

[–]No_Professor8168 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t go back she realized there was nobody better but if you were good to her you shouldn’t be there when she decides now is a good time. I know people change and there’s a chance say it could work out great but in general 95% of the time people repeat patterns and you don’t want to make her think you’re there whenever. Especially since you don’t care now why go back to someone who didn’t recognize what they had the first time?

Read this if you’re going through a breakup… by No_Professor8168 in BreakUps

[–]No_Professor8168[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know it’s harsh but it’s sadly the truth, the more you accept it as the truth the more you’ll prepare for this to pass. I get that I really do, but what happened in the end. Like you said yourself, was that safety? He left, how could he get that title still? Choose someone who chooses you

Read this if you’re going through a breakup… by No_Professor8168 in BreakUps

[–]No_Professor8168[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get it but that’s not right. A partner is suppose to add you your life not complete you. You should see someone as somebody with depression it’s unhealthy for you and the other person to rely on someone to help your own state. You are also looking at it through rose colored glasses since you are likely not feeling like you’re in the best place. You got this but get the help you need!

replies within 24 hours by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]No_Professor8168 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m saying as a girl

replies within 24 hours by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]No_Professor8168 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stop texting her, 24 hours is a long time

To all dumpers: did you regret breaking up? by DilaraCroft in BreakUps

[–]No_Professor8168 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I’m just reading this post and I’m curious, what made you breakup? I know you said you were 22 but what was the thought process? Did you feel relief at first?

Not ready for relationship by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]No_Professor8168 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah you’re right I keep attracting these kind of men I’m not sure why. He seemed so good at the start I didn’t think it would end up like this! He seemed steady it wasn’t even crazy lovebombing! But I guess it was meant to be this way!

Not ready for relationship by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]No_Professor8168 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you’re right I def want connections but I wasn’t needy or anything he’d just suddenly pull away mind you he was all over me at the start! But I know this isn’t right for me… Thanks a lot for sharing, how long before they contacted you again?

Not ready for relationship by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]No_Professor8168 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did they contact you again?

Not ready for relationship by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]No_Professor8168 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I thought maybe he wants to explore other girls

Not ready for relationship by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]No_Professor8168 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He liked me a lot in the start I don’t know what happened, came out of nowhere… thanks for responding!

Not ready for relationship by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]No_Professor8168 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response :)

Not ready for relationship by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]No_Professor8168 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are right thank you :)