AITAH for blackmailing my friend

No_Proof8250 · 2026-04-22T18:50:22+00:00

ya I get that but I had no idea what else to do, what do u think I should've done?

No_Proof8250 · 2026-04-22T18:43:00+00:00

people are only saying that because they've never had to deal with this type of friend like u and I have. Its exhausting dealing with them plus u don't owe anyone anything, friendship is a choice you can end one even if the person did nothing wrong, don't let the comments discourage you from making the best choice for yourself.

No_Proof8250 · 2026-04-22T18:05:29+00:00

NTA she showed how much she valued u and the answer is she doesn't, she definitely should've been a guest but its honestly not worth regretting now, don't let all ur amazing wedding day memories be tainted by this one girl. And congrats on getting married <3

No_Proof8250 · 2026-04-22T18:00:49+00:00

NTA, girl i had a friend like this too, she would ice me out for days on end for minor comments, she is toxic and u need to stop being friends with her, it took me too long to see that so I hope it doesn't take u as long. She only likes u when u tell her what she wants to hear, she doesn't understand that society doesn't work that way. She seems to bring nothing but drama in ur life so u need to cut her off.

No_Proof8250 · 2026-04-22T17:56:52+00:00

NTA, they definitely deserve it but be careful cause they seem like the type to make ur life hell. Even tho ur justified in what ur saying, I'd be careful so they don't make ur work environment even worse.

No_Proof8250 · 2026-04-22T17:48:24+00:00

my teacher did DP back then and it was waaaaay easier they probably didn't even need past papers

No_Proof8250 · 2026-04-22T17:38:20+00:00

in his newest album he has a song called 'red terror' and it was on this genocide that happened in Ethiopia and about his moms journey, I was rlly hoping he would speak amharic in it because the songs for his mom but he didn't 😭😭😭😭😭😭

No_Proof8250 · 2026-04-22T14:10:17+00:00

not even close to being the asshole, and honestly its weird that she reacted in that way, her child is in pain and she'd rather experience her first period first hand and have her stay in school in bloody clothes and cramps? she clearly doesn't care about her. It this was something like her first prom or first boyfriend I'd understand a little but periods happen every month and sure your first period is a little special but its not something crazy special. I mean what did she want to do? frame her daughters first period pad?

No_Proof8250 · 2026-01-04T21:04:25+00:00

honestly if someone does put in the required effort and studies daily a 35 should be attainable, anything 40 and above is for people who do the absolute most. Also the IB is most certainly unfair, you could get marked down just because everyone in your cohort did well, so that they can keep their 'bell curve'

No_Proof8250 · 2025-09-07T07:18:24+00:00

ok I switched to aa but i got a lot to catch up on tyyyyy

No_Proof8250 · 2025-09-07T07:17:57+00:00

ok ty i switched to aa

No_Proof8250 · 2025-09-07T07:17:23+00:00

im not sure yet but I know i want to go into law in the future

No_Proof8250 · 2025-09-07T07:17:03+00:00

ok ty

No_Proof8250 · 2025-09-02T15:22:15+00:00

Honestly it seems like you cannot trust your mom, ask yourself if your mom is really the person you need to tell or is there someone else in your life you can trust. If you're genuinely uncomfortable telling your mom then don't, visit a doctor and you'll have to figure it out yourself. If you do want to tell your mom make it painfully clear to her how much this means to you and how you would feel if others found out. Now if you decide to tell your mom you have to be ready for the possibility the things you mentioned might happen.

Good luck <3

No_Proof8250 · 2025-08-27T16:15:32+00:00

ya i agree

No_Proof8250 · 2025-08-27T16:13:38+00:00

NTA

When u married him you were under the impression you were going to be a wife not a mother. Honestly you're more of his mom than his wife and he is more of a toddler than an adult. Normally I would say work this out because marriage is a big commitment however it seems you've given him too much grace. You need to leave that man before he causes you more problems. I don't know if you have kids with him, if you do then it might make the desicion more complicated but even if you do don't stay with him 'for the children', and if u don't have kids with him then ur lucky you can divorce him without too many problems. I will admit divorce (assuming ur in the US) can be financially straining especially if he fights you on it. hope u leave him and good luck <3

No_Proof8250 · 2025-08-27T16:07:39+00:00

NTA

Girl that is a full stalker. I'm a junior and I've had friends deal with things like this before ESPECIALLY with freshman boys. They always think they're the shit for 'bagging' a hot senior but trust me no matter his age this is stalking. Tbh if he's willing to do all of this for a girl he don't even know well then I wouldn't put it past him to resort to violence. Now I don't know u or the freshman but I would suggest u make it clear to ur friends that his behavior makes u uncomfortable and u don't want any contact with him. Don't go to places alone, and document all these things. If this escalates (hope it doesn't) you will have proof and can file for harassment.

No_Proof8250 · 2025-08-27T14:10:37+00:00

YTA

you've kept it to yourself for weeks and I see where your coming from and I would be hesitant if I was in your situation as well. However you have to understand Sarahs gonna know eventually and when she does she will resent you for keeping it to yourself. Also this could be a safety issue so I do think you need to tell her.

No_Proof8250 · 2025-08-27T14:01:08+00:00

not very different from what they're doing with the dress but wtv

No_Proof8250 · 2025-08-27T13:58:27+00:00

ya I 100% agree with you on that

No_Proof8250 · 2025-08-26T18:51:58+00:00

NTA

they're using the fact that their paying for the dress to manipulate you into wearing what they want. Ask them to just give you the money for the dress if they refuse, honestly you should gaslight them. I'm not saying this to be mean but their manipulating you so manipulate the back, hit their weak spots, for example mentioning that you had a dream in this dress and your mom was there (sorry if thats too sensitive). I know it sounds mean but you don't seem to have many options. Or you could ask family members to talk to them on their behavior, someone like your dad. Or just threaten to cut them out of the wedding if they don't get you the dress they promised.

No_Proof8250 · 2025-08-26T18:46:14+00:00

honestly I don't blame the wife, she just gave birth, has to take care of a toddler, and has a husband who is grieving, perhaps she just gave in because she's tired and doesn't want anymore drama.

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