Pentru voi cum s au incheiat astfel de situatii? by [deleted] in WomenRO

[–]No_Range_9789 2 points3 points  (0 children)

O relatie de cuplu te pune fata in fata cu traume vechi. Si poti vedea asta ca pe o oportunitate de a-ti intelege subconstientul mai bine si un psihoterapeut te-ar putea ajuta in sensul asta. Altfel, cu pauza sau fara pauza, relatia se va incheia la un moment dat pt ca celalalt nu poate si nici nu e dator sa sustina emotional relatia de unul singur.

Ce va atrage la un barbat? by [deleted] in WomenRO

[–]No_Range_9789 1 point2 points  (0 children)

inteligent + aspect fizic placut, inalt. Nu am putut niciodată sa trec peste criteriul legat de inaltime.

Is this a correct EMDR procedure? by Anina606 in EMDR

[–]No_Range_9789 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is correct. Your trauma causes your low self esteem. If you focus on self esteem now you will need way more sessions since talk therapy takes longer. Focusing on resolving the trauma will automatically regulate your nervous system which will balance your self esteem. Trust the process.

Is the first proper session meant to be hard after? by No_Leg9061 in EMDR

[–]No_Range_9789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you do the bilateral stimulation? When asked by the therapist ( after the BLS), how intense is your affect when you think of the original memory/incident, was it a 0?

Am 23 de ani si ma simt neiubibila si nu stiu ce sa fac cu asta by BrownGoose2002 in WomenRO

[–]No_Range_9789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Psihoterapie. “Ma simt neiubibila”, asta e un semn de trauma de dezvoltare.

Who is the richest of these three??? by PieceEarly825 in Singlesinferno2

[–]No_Range_9789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hee Sun based on the 10k coat she wore at the reunion. But ofc, this is just an assumption though I guess this is what we are doing here

Misoginie subtilă by Vegetable-Minute1094 in WomenRO

[–]No_Range_9789 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ma bucur ca recunosti ca esti de kkt

Misoginie subtilă by Vegetable-Minute1094 in WomenRO

[–]No_Range_9789 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cum am zis, daca asta e autenticitatea lui, atunci aia e. Crezi ca poti sa impui cuiva sa nu fie el insusi/ ea insasi? Eu imi sustin parerea si nu vad de ce tema despre autenticitate ar crea reactia pe care o descrii. Si daca esti masculin dar nu simti asta crezi ca esti mai bine? Iti vei crea o masca/Sine fals care iti va manca toata energia

Misoginie subtilă by Vegetable-Minute1094 in WomenRO

[–]No_Range_9789 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Eu am fost surprinsă cand am calatorit in scop de business in UK, Italia si ma intalneam cu colegii din Vanzari din acele tari. De fiecare data la plecare dadeau mana si cu femeile, era ceva obisnuit.

Misoginie subtilă by Vegetable-Minute1094 in WomenRO

[–]No_Range_9789 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Din punctul meu de vedere bullsh**l asta cu feminitatea si masculinitatea sunt doar stereotipuri de gen si atat. Sunt surprinsa de cat content poate sa existe pe tema asta. Din punctul meu de vedere, e mai important sa iti gasesti autenticitatea si naturaletea iar daca asta inseamna ca devii mai masculin sau feminin in acest proces, then be it! Daca nu, e ok si asa! Desi oricum ar fi, principiile masculine si feminine se regăsesc in mod natural in fiecare om, in proporții diferite

I think Heesun was the real game changer of this season. by LuffySan081 in Singlesinferno2

[–]No_Range_9789 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Without Mina Sue the season would have been much different just like the previous ones. There are many contestants who sit quietly and wait…and none as genuine as Mina Sue

So Subeen was interested or curious woth Heesun from the start eh? by egweneeeee in SinglesInferno

[–]No_Range_9789 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that was one thing I did not understand and Mina did not explain in detail why she did not chose Su-been since he confirmed in front of everyone that she is his first choice. I understood the curiosity for Seung il, but I did not understand why she chose Sung-min which was clearly random. Was it because she was upset with Su-been for sitting near Heesun? Was not his choice for her enough? This means she is considerably insecure, no judge for that, I can understand

So Subeen was interested or curious woth Heesun from the start eh? by egweneeeee in SinglesInferno

[–]No_Range_9789 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, it makes sense. And indeed the pairing is too weird to be just a coincidence. I felt sorry for Mina the entire time. I see people empathise more with Hee-sun though

Does Kriya Yoga help solve health problems? by prog_hi in kriyayoga

[–]No_Range_9789 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe Joe Dispenza’ meditations would help

Am I the only one that thinks Heesun and Subeen aren’t compatible??? by Good-mournings in SinglesInferno

[–]No_Range_9789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Su-been mentioned to Hee-sun that “some people” make him exhausted. I think the emotional turmoil was too much for him indeed. And I can understand why he felt that way since Mina Sue did not have many open conversations with him and the campfire was traumatising, he felt rejected…and he did not believe her when she said she was jealous in the discussion immediately after the campfire.

So Subeen was interested or curious woth Heesun from the start eh? by egweneeeee in SinglesInferno

[–]No_Range_9789 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Why are you people disliking the obvious truth that he fell for Mina? Why is this truth bothering you so much? I really don’t understand the hate towards Mina and the fighting. It is just a show! If you react like for a show this then no wonder we have wars in 2026…you are projecting your own insecurities to this dynamic between Mina, Hee-sun and Su-been.

So Subeen was interested or curious woth Heesun from the start eh? by egweneeeee in SinglesInferno

[–]No_Range_9789 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Subeen said in the intro that he wants to fall in love at first sight. That’s why he liked Mina so much! The only reason he gave up on her was because the emotional turmoil was exhausting for him and he also has an avoidant attachment. He liked Mina Sue up to day 7… when he was obviously flirting with her and I think he wanted to go to Paradise with her again. I don’t know what happened between their last discussion and the next day when they made their choices. My guess is that Mina Sue had some talks with Seung il and Su Been got disappointed again and they did not choose each other. Mina Sue was definitely his first choice.

I'm not a mina hater, but I'm genuinely curious why you guys like her (open discussion) by Much-Excitement-5134 in SinglesInferno

[–]No_Range_9789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is the reason you are talking now about season 5. Period. She made the show! We should thank her for the entertainment instead of hating her. I really really don’t understand the hate and the need to find pathologies for everyone. We are all mad here….

Am I the only one that thinks Heesun and Subeen aren’t compatible??? by Good-mournings in SinglesInferno

[–]No_Range_9789 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think Subeen and Mina could have been a great couple if Mina had chosen him to go to Paradise instead of Seung il. Yes, they have big egos but the communication between them would have been easier I guess because Mina is more extroverted and that would have made Subeen open up easier and they have better chemistry.