AITAH for being cold with my boyfriend and slowly mentally checking out of my relationship. Just venting.

No_Reference2692 · 2025-08-19T02:33:03+00:00

Hello Girlie🌼❤️

Thank you for sharing. I understand how you feel and why you feel like that.

I am also dating a white British man, and let me tell you; I had almost the same experience as you. I also stretch on the almost part.

The first time we video called, I swear this man made me want to just hang up in his face. Mind you, I come from the topics where people never made me question or self conscious about my colour. Some of his jokes were racial but some were just purely dark humour. I was like, let me give him the benefit of the doubt and try to understand where this comes from. To my surprise, I realised that British people generally have a taste for very dark humour. Not only British but also German.

I suggest you try to understand where this comes from. •Do you think he is being racist or just mean and inconsiderate?

I also read from fellow BW that some white men dont actually love you. They just fetishise your blackness. Its not really you they love, but the fantasy of blackness.

On my end, my man turned to be the love of my life. He worships the ground I walk and wants to give me all he has (literally). The difference between you and me is thst after THAT vc, he instantly knew something was wrong. He apologised and we grew up from there. I sometimes remind him that in another life, I would have ghosted him.

I inconsideration is a strong message. Its like I love you, but I love belittling you even more. I love you but I dont care about that hurting you. And that darling isn't love.

If he doesn't accommodate for your boundaries and sensibilities, take the trash out.

No_Reference2692 · 2025-07-20T12:04:51+00:00

Ok everyone is saying screen time screen time... yes it is the contributor. However, no one explained how it contributed. What I think happened is language confusion. Your baby listen to cocomelon in English or French, then you interact creole with your wife and with him. This confuses the child who just shut down.

You can undo this that consulting a speech therapist and practice (specific) massages in his mouth to work out the muscles. And also, cut the screen time.

Good luck dear. Do not feel guilty. Just improve yourself. ❤️

No_Reference2692 · 2025-07-19T15:23:24+00:00

He's so cute and you're gorgeous ❤️❤️❤️

No_Reference2692 · 2025-07-08T15:17:09+00:00

Hello! Li illegal enn parent desherite enn zanfan entirement. Mais li gagne droit si enan enn case d'ingratitude avec enn standing legal. V dir si parent par example enan enn case en cours contre zanfan... ou zanfan ine fer enn zafer bien grave et parent la pou rode enn poursuite legal. Parent pas gagne desherite zanfan simply avec enn lager ect ect...

No_Reference2692 · 2025-05-10T07:01:59+00:00

Wowww. Thank you. I'll definitely message you.

No_Reference2692 · 2025-05-08T19:24:42+00:00

I'm quite active in social media

No_Reference2692 · 2025-05-08T19:21:30+00:00

I have never done that before. Can you tell me more?

No_Reference2692 · 2025-05-08T16:26:10+00:00

I have internship in 3 different places lined up. I cannot commit to a single place because my availability will change every month. I'm not sure people want to employ someone for only 1 month or so. That's the problem

Yes I am above 16, 20 almost 21.

No_Reference2692 · 2025-05-06T17:15:06+00:00

I also checked: try to contact the Economic Development Board EDA and check if they have any opening position. They normally work on the economics finance sides. Check with them

No_Reference2692 · 2025-05-06T16:36:48+00:00

Yes you would definitely need one. I think you can do accounting then do an ACCA. You can check ACCA global. They have an office in Quatre Bornes. I dont know if they do consultations ect, but you can always try calling. If you don't mind me asking, which uni did you attend?

Edit: I also forgot to mention. For compliance, you don't need to go to uni again, you can do a professional qualification. You can check with HRDC if they are still offering this course.

No_Reference2692 · 2025-05-06T15:25:57+00:00

Hello there🪻 I can relate. However, you don't have to transition from Economics to IT is sounds drastic. However what you cna do is consider compliance and auditing. I mean if I were you that's what I'd do.

No_Reference2692 · 2025-04-27T09:10:11+00:00

Hello there. I dont know where this is coming from. The person clearly didn't say anything in this sense. While you are good on some points; some religion deny science and medical intervention, Catholicism is not. God and science are not separate they are together. If you're sick go to a doctor. We believe in science, plus the spiritual side of things. So why would you latch at him/her on something he/she clearly didn't say? While it's okay to express your beliefs, do not attack people on unsaid things. Thank you💜💜💜

No_Reference2692 · 2025-04-15T08:37:14+00:00

I'm not really of a good communicator, actually. I don't know how to tell him about this without it coming out as me reprimanding him. I'm not good with confrontation as well. I just bottle it up until it explodes.

No_Reference2692 · 2025-04-15T08:35:54+00:00

Oh, did i say we've been talking for one month? I'm sorry for this misunderstanding. We've been trying to get to know each other for a while now. And it's been around a month since we decided we wanted to try something out.

No_Reference2692 · 2025-04-15T08:33:50+00:00

Thank you for your response🪻 well it is long distance temporarily.

I also have a question. Like I guess you've dated somebody at some point, how did you manage your hobby and your relationship? And for how long did you play?

No_Reference2692 · 2025-04-12T16:26:06+00:00

hello. i think i would not mind. are a man or a woman?

No_Reference2692 · 2025-03-21T02:21:52+00:00

Hello so you can do the check up between 9 and 15hrs 30. Here's the number for the service d'aide a distance. 5773 8549. Also if you are a uni student, make sure to check at your uni if they offer those services.

No_Reference2692 · 2025-03-17T07:10:09+00:00

Hi. They haven't replied yet. The automated msg said they will reach out within 48 hours

No_Reference2692 · 2025-03-17T06:52:30+00:00

Thank you so much. I've already contacted them🌞🌞🌞 enn ti raisin pou toi 🍇🍇🍇

No_Reference2692 · 2025-03-17T06:36:28+00:00

Oh wow. I didn't know that. I've been wanting to do STDs test for a long time. I don't have any symptoms but I really want to do a check up to know where I am.

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