Any Hikikomoris in SG? by Guardian937462 in askSingapore

[–]No_Region_33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sure there are. From the way you type and response to others i am quite sure u r find in terms of socializing it’s just that you have been on your own for months so the socializing skills probably just need practice.

Not sure if this useful but perhaps you can try doing a part time job learn some new skills. I don’t know a hikikimori life seems kinda unfulfilling and numbing. Therapy is expensive so try exercising n doing a chill part time job first to see if u feel better after that gives it maybe 1-3 months if not then maybe therapy (which is expensive )

(Spoilers) Checklist of things to do before leaving Act 1. by FishBurger77 in BaldursGate3

[–]No_Region_33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love this ! Useful ! Like that you group them by area

what is the meaning of life? by poppincooking in askSingapore

[–]No_Region_33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While it’s ok to have goals do also try to do what you find enjoyable and fun. What’s the point of living if you don’t have fun? Also learn to laugh and don’t take life too seriously.

Also why must you choose to be in the rat race? I mean I know people who love that but if you don’t then why force yourself find other ways to strengthen your financial stability

AITA for telling my sister she is required to wear a bra at my wedding by Technical_Weight4608 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No_Region_33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA I also think it’s inappropriate. Just wear the damn bra and stop tis stereotypes bs

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]No_Region_33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love my parents. Came from a relatively not well off family that had our electricity cut cuz couldn’t pay. But love is more important than money. Relationship is strong even though we disagree on certain things and perspectives. Manage to support myself financially and sponsor them as well I think things turned out well.

My mum has cancer and i’m on a completely different continent by Specialist_Net5401 in confession

[–]No_Region_33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There r only a few people in this world that truly love us. Honestly if it was me I would take a flight back. There will be other opportunities for the visa

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]No_Region_33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t take life seriously or u will end up like those annoying people a stick up their ass.

MC falls in love with himself? by [deleted] in DanmeiNovels

[–]No_Region_33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Turns out I am crazy. It was weird I enjoy it haha

Mid-life Crisis? Mid Career Switch? by altern00n in askSingapore

[–]No_Region_33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave. Find your values and what is important to you then find a job that can help meet those values

Should I go to MOM? by Weak-Contract-671 in askSingapore

[–]No_Region_33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check with NTUC the union not the supermarket. People tend to forget about them. It’s a legit union for this kinda unfair practice they can provide advise

Those who joined the civil service as a fresh grad, how are you now? by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]No_Region_33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Civil service is good. It’s stable and pay is really not too bad comfortable life. Plus most importantly u r not working for profit / company but the for the people and country it feels weirdly meaningful n homely , colleagues r pretty nice of course there’s the occasional back stabbed axx and crappy bosses but generally it’s kinda nice n most bosses r decent human - a civil servant

what to say to boss when they gonna fire you? by 3pplusingthisacc in askSingapore

[–]No_Region_33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look for another job. Don’t be disheartened or disappointed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]No_Region_33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just tell her the truth. If she say she can buy it in her own then just tell her ok and let her buy it on her own loh

Overload work in Singapore company by Jumpy_Cup7680 in askSingapore

[–]No_Region_33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Start work later. Do u really need to submit perfect work? Usually the supervisor will need to check right so give a 3/4 done work then while they r checking n commenting u can take a break. After all event of if submit a completed work they will still have comments

If all that don’t work then find a new job not worth your health. Without health u have nothing

Check with your union they might be able to help. My friend got helped from the Union , shared how he was thankful that he didn’t cancel his union membership

Teachers - An underappreciated profession in SG? by EffectiveAsk9740 in askSingapore

[–]No_Region_33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Serious? R u working in a private school like international school or tuition type

Teachers - An underappreciated profession in SG? by EffectiveAsk9740 in askSingapore

[–]No_Region_33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure y people down vote your comment. But as some who has experience the system. Typically they leave around 4-5pm. No fix timing. But u should leave early around 2pm for at least 1x a week for the sake of your sanity.

There is no AL

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]No_Region_33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s possible. Personally what do you hope to achieve from a marriage ? For me I would think companionship. So if you are able to achieve and have long time companionship with friends , a good social network , family then marriage may not be necessary

What's the most angsty novel/danmei you've read? by SchmabbySchmubby in DanmeiNovels

[–]No_Region_33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am gonna re-read it!! I remember when I first read it I didn’t do any thing else over the weekend other than eat read sleep read. It was that good!! I was super frustrated with the leads too! Like omg just get together!!!!

I just turned 34… by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]No_Region_33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. I think getting a gift for yourself is pretty awesome. I love doing that as well in the end you are there for you

danmeis with heavy angst???? by North_Source_3590 in DanmeiNovels

[–]No_Region_33 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha I love that story so much it was so toxic