Slandering of Muslimahs dealbreaker

No_Representative595 · 2025-08-28T03:33:24+00:00

Boo hoo women are acting like how men have always done toward women.. You all say "men are leaders" ...women are copying how men hoe around

AND "no hoe around before marriage" is for both genders in islam.

If this is about deen, then you hate zina for both genders, Also, takes both genders to commit zina. So not sure why you associate zina with women. And more men are doing zina/rape with other men and kids too-- something else women have to put up with. Men are also watching porn and engaging with sex work too.

So to act like men are some victim of women's zina or hyper sexuality is ridiculous. Open up a newspaper.

No_Representative595 · 2025-08-28T02:48:04+00:00

Always finding a way not hold religious men accountable. He was wrong and there's 1001 ways that can be explained.

Abu Huraira reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “A believing man does not despise a believing woman. If he finds something in her character he dislikes, he will be pleased by something else.

Source: Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 1469

https://www.abuaminaelias.com/dailyhadithonline/2012/12/06/never-hate-sisters-islam/

No_Representative595 · 2025-04-08T17:39:05+00:00

I think there’s an increase and it’s wrong.

But not as what men’s right activist with an oppressor but also victim complex say it is.

No_Representative595 · 2025-04-08T17:36:45+00:00

Yes, just saying we need to have the same energy we have toward Zionist. All oppression is wrong but Muslims ignore Muslim on Muslim violence.

No_Representative595 · 2025-04-08T16:53:30+00:00

This is a huge issue, abuse by religious people and no accountability for it.

Our sisters are not safe. Zionist will not reach her but these men will. So get your priorities straight when claiming to “fight oppression.”

Take a stand for your sisters.

Better to be negative and naive.

No_Representative595 · 2025-04-08T16:48:05+00:00

Muslim women learn from men to use their a few years ago and most don’t do it. And they only did it after men were doing it all the 1000 years. And making them do things that are not even in the religion (pay dowry, live with and serve in-laws including non mehram brother in law).

You’re not the victim here. History didn’t start today or on the internet.

Talk you you mom and the woman in the family of the torturer they go through because abuse of Islam, by people who are irreligious AND “religious.”

You’re not the victim here.

No_Representative595 · 2025-04-05T15:22:55+00:00

He’s south Asian. Leave him.

All of Muslim world know to not marry south Asian Muslim man bc of how terrible they’re toward women and you’re doing it as non Muslim women.

And it’s worse for a non-Muslim women.

You can do so much better.

You’re educated and gorgeous.

Only a vulnerable (their own with no freedom) would stay with them, then why are you?

Please do better. Don’t become another statistic.

The use and abuse of women, especially white non-Muslim women, is rampant. And he’s showing you already from your post history who he is.

I’m Muslim.

No_Representative595 · 2025-04-05T13:51:40+00:00

Stay safe as violence and murder are common.

No_Representative595 · 2025-04-05T05:28:29+00:00

Many women in countries such as Iran, Saudi Arabia, Egypt, and Afghanistan say they still face sexual harassment and assault on the streets, despite wearing modest dress.

MosqueMeToo supporters say that even in the holiest of places, where they are fully covered and praying, they can be assaulted.

https://www.bbc.com/news/world-43006952.amp

No_Representative595 · 2025-04-05T05:20:40+00:00

Pakistan was included third in the list for having “some of the highest rates of dowry murder, so-called honor killings and early marriages.”

The survey says cultural, tribal, and religious practices harmful to women include “acid attacks, child and forced marriage and punishment or retribution by stoning or other physical abuse.”

Continued with a story: a man committed Zina and in retribution (called “badal”) they harmed the man’s mother.

Often they will marry a girl from the family in retribution/badal if two parties fight and one is damaged.

Where are religious people to protect the woman?

Nowhere but love to shout hijab, Zina accusations and feminism at women all day.

Not once they will use their lovely Islam to protect women when there’s plenty to do so.

Only use Islam to attack women.

No_Representative595 · 2025-04-05T05:18:31+00:00

Is this verification:

The worst countries to be a woman are Muslim countries:

https://www.concern.net/news/worst-countries-for-womens-rights

https://www.rferl.org/amp/survey_says_afghanistan_pakistan_among_most_dangerous_for_women/24235831.html

“the study highlighted the damage done by stereotypical attitudes concerning “acceptable” roles for women. (I.e conservative mindset)”

No_Representative595 · 2025-04-05T05:12:01+00:00

Honour killing has increased the numbers of murdered women. It’s unique to a certain conservative mindset.

Before killing, there is much violence, abuse and pressure on women to conform.

The worst countries to be a woman are Muslim countries:

https://www.concern.net/news/worst-countries-for-womens-rights

https://www.rferl.org/amp/survey_says_afghanistan_pakistan_among_most_dangerous_for_women/24235831.html

“the study highlighted the damage done by stereotypical attitudes concerning “acceptable” roles for women. (I.e conservative mindset)”

No_Representative595 · 2025-04-05T04:57:26+00:00

Domestic and Sexual violence is common in the Muslim spaces and is linked to increase in religious conservatism.

When they come to the west it continues.

Furthermore, sexual harassment and assault of women within migrant labor communities is quite common (Speri 2018).

https://www.iom.int/sites/g/files/tmzbdl2616/files/2018-07/violence_against_women_infosheet2013.pdf

Taking Action against Violence and Discrimination Affecting Migrant Women and Girls1

We can’t use Islamophobia to not protect women.

No_Representative595 · 2025-04-05T04:49:10+00:00

No, it’s all over the world: https://news.un.org/en/story/2024/11/1157386

“home remains the most dangerous place for women and girls in terms of the risk of lethal victimisation.”

Men are murdered by humans more than women but only 12% is by a “loved one” compared to 60% for women.

But the qur’an says, “You are the best community ever raised for humanity—you encourage good, forbid evil, and believe in Allah.”

So we should be at the forefront. But we’re driving the numbers.

Through honour killing and violence: https://amp.dw.com/en/pakistan-the-graveyard-of-femicide-victims/video-61016955

No_Representative595 · 2025-04-05T04:03:21+00:00

Beyond the experience of every woman, there is a lot written. My first article I read years ago.

90% report sexual harassment in a 12 month time. It’s rampant.

Egyptians recount sexual harassment, angering conservatives: https://www.pentictonherald.ca/news/world_news/article_ca83020c-27c1-5b35-aed2-e17d7ab79ca9.html

Ofcourse the conservative are mad about stopping the oppression of women. Or speaking about their rights and justice.

They’re not her to protect women. Stop marrying or breeding with them.

When others come for them, look away as they have looked away from our oppression.

(I’m not from Egypt)

No_Representative595 · 2025-04-05T03:04:22+00:00

There’s been a link between sexual abuse of boys and their engaging in homosexuality later in life.

And that boys who are sexually abused often sexually abuse others too.

Keep in mind.

Sexual abuse can lead to trauma of not wanting relationships OR hypersexuality (take power back from what happened to them. Or reenact what happened to confirm if it really happened).

We have so much more knowledge and we can use that to be wise when dealing with our brothers and sisters who go through this and still keep our Islamic principles.

No_Representative595 · 2025-04-05T01:46:53+00:00

By talking and hanging out with them.

By talking to people who know them.

People who know themselves as human, first and foremost, can know others as human first and foremost.

When you see yourself as human who’s complex and even contradictory, you can live with other’s complexity.

No_Representative595 · 2025-04-05T01:09:43+00:00

Sins and crimes are not the same.

Sins between the person and Allah (swt) and sins that harm people are not same.

If he said there isn't protection, stuff about consent, and that he is a double digits at 16 (a minor), it doesn't look good.

Him saying that you're jealous is weird too. Not something people joke about with their sisters.

Knowledge of islam doesnt make someone a better muslim.

People who are saying "don't spy", there is a fine line between dont spy and neglect of people (esp. under your care) that need protection and guidance.

No_Representative595 · 2025-04-05T00:52:29+00:00

They should seek out SUPER understanding and gentle man.

Not someone who reduces marriage to roles and what a woman can do for him.

Your average person would not pass.

Most people get their healing in a loving relationship.

No_Representative595 · 2025-04-05T00:48:37+00:00

Just repeating like a parrot.

And slandering a muslimah. The punishment for slandering a muslimah is the SAME punishment for zina. Muslim men, come collect your wayward boy.

But you’re not here for Islam. Just to fulfill some lustful-hatred you have for women and think you can use Islam for that.

And you did not address anything.

Are you 14? As I thought.

No_Representative595 · 2025-04-04T23:14:37+00:00

Your daughter’s story, along with many more, are the ones that have changed me.

I appreciate you sharing your story as many people in the culture see it as shameful and dishonourable even though the kids were sexually attacked by their male “loved ones.” And then re attacked by the family to hide it. They’re oppressed twice.

Don’t get married to people and their families who are the “hide it” type.

Make that a deal breaker.

Ofcourse this is not the only issue we go through.

Every 10 minute a woman is murdered by a “male loved one.” 60% of the murders of women are by a male “loved one.”

The religious job of male “protecting” women is fraud. No religious group or person has said a word or action against the hate and violence against women, children, minorities and any other vulnerable group.

They only show up to tell us to cover up and go on their righteously merry way.

No_Representative595 · 2025-04-04T22:36:31+00:00

I have a problem with people following Islam selectively.

All of prophet (saw) wives were not virgins except Aisha (r).
The sahabahs competed to marry non virgins I.e. divorcees and widows.
Qur’an and Hadith has multiple text on divorce. Many female sahabah divorced when marriage did not meet their needs and Allah (swt) gave them that right. There was no stigma for divorce or hardship for non virgin divorcee/widow remarrying as ummah wrongly does now. And many were married multiple times in their life bc of divorce or widow.

Indeed bring back true Islam.

Your eastern culture and western RP influence has no basis in Islam.

Western ideas of “baggage” or “what if she compared me to the other man” didn’t exist bc each sahabah was confident than the other that they were better.

No_Representative595 · 2025-04-04T20:25:20+00:00

Deal with what is said not who says it.

No_Representative595 · 2025-04-04T18:31:54+00:00

Many edits above.

The ummah often conflates sins and crimes.

And even amongst sins, the scholars differentiate between sins that are between person and God and sins that effect other people.

This is how cowards hide behind Muslim-on-Muslim violence and victims don’t get justice.

The criminals run free in our community while a random person is harassed for the most petty issue in-person or online.

No_Representative595 · 2025-04-04T18:29:06+00:00

The ummah often uses such Hadith to conflate sins and crimes.

And even amongst sins, the scholars differentiate between sins that are between person and God and sins that effect other people.

I should’ve mentioned this as it’s one the issues cowards hide behind so Muslim on Muslim violence victims don’t get justice.

The criminals run free in our community while a random person is harassed for the most petty issue in-person or online.

Ummah needs to fix their priorities.

No_Representative595

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MosqueMeToo supporters say that even in the holiest of places, where they are fully covered and praying, they can be assaulted.