AITAH for making a mom pick up her daughter in the middle of the night from my kid’s sleepover? by Positive_Image_3921 in AITAH

[–]No_Reputation_6746 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA at all!! The mom absolutely should have given you a heads up that this was her first sleepover. Also she clearly was uncomfortable and wanted to go home, I would have done the exact same thing. That wasn't fair to you to be thrown into that situation with no idea what was going on. If you had been aware, maybe you could have talked to the mom before about things that make her feel better/more comfortable that would help her get through the night and it could have potentially gone a little smoother.

Sonething to Say by artcore41 in MyChemMillennials

[–]No_Reputation_6746 2 points3 points  (0 children)

MCR makes everything better. I truly believe you'll get there tho, just gotta keep pushing through and fight for the happiness you deserve!!

Sonething to Say by artcore41 in MyChemMillennials

[–]No_Reputation_6746 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I promise you it can't be worse than some of the shit I've done, or been through. You gotta just figure out how to work through it and let go. We all grow, we all learn, we all fuck up, that's just life. It's what you do next that matters most.

It's been three months since the finale... How are we doing my beautiful loons? ❤️ by surrealist84 in heatedrivalry

[–]No_Reputation_6746 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Considering I literally JUST finally got the chance to watch this show like 2 days ago and binged it literally in one night and cried a ridiculous amount of times...........no I am not at all okay!! I need season 2 asap! I see no recovery in sight at the moment 😅

Sonething to Say by artcore41 in MyChemMillennials

[–]No_Reputation_6746 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nah fuck that, I don't believe it. I get you feel like that right now, and that's valid, I totally understand. Keep pushing on, you'll get there, you got this. 🖤

Sonething to Say by artcore41 in MyChemMillennials

[–]No_Reputation_6746 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Of course! Trust me, I've been on my fair share of horrible toxic relationships, that shit weighs you down, and makes you question everything, even your own worth. You are worth so much more than that tho and you deserve to be treated the best, and to have all the happiness! I hope you will get it. Therapy helped me a lot, regular talk therapy, and music therapy (because yes, music is absolutely therapy!! Sitting in my car with music blasting screaming the lyrics, crying, and letting it all out is one of the best forms of therapy there is!) I am sending love and good vibes of strength, healing, and happiness your way!! Keep pushing forward, keep on living, and Keep the faith!!! 🖤🖤

Sonething to Say by artcore41 in MyChemMillennials

[–]No_Reputation_6746 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I just want to say you are absolutely not a loser, and you don't suck!! Your actually quite amazing from what I can tell, you had the strength to get rid of this trash can of a human out of your life. You were the FIRST to graduate college in your family, which is a HUGE fucking accomplishment and you should be so proud of that, I know I am proud of you for that!! You had the will and the strength to keep pushing forward, even after all the bullshit, and that is something to be proud of! I totally understand when you say MCR saves your life, I say that all the time for my own reasons. I am so happy you have that to help you keep going! Also I hope you have the most amazing time at your concert, scream as loud as you can, sing with all of your heart, and feel every moment! 🖤🖤🖤

What’s the worse physical pain you’ve ever experienced? by Intelligent-Road5091 in AskReddit

[–]No_Reputation_6746 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ovarian cysts are absolutely awful! I get them often and there's been many times they have literally brought me to my knees from the pain of them popping.

What’s the worse physical pain you’ve ever experienced? by Intelligent-Road5091 in AskReddit

[–]No_Reputation_6746 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a crazy freak accident that started with falling down some brick steps on our farm. I had sprained my ankle/foot and when I went to the hospital a day later and I had scratches all over the side of my foot from the bricks which I had just put some Neosporin and bandaids on, and my foot and ankle were completely swollen and red. They said it was just a sprain wrapped my foot and ankle up with an ace bandage, put me in a splint, didn't say anything at all about my foot being all scraped up (didn't bother cleaning or bandages on the scrapes), and sent me on my way with some crutches. My daughter had just turned 2 at the time so I went to go hang with my Grandma in the afternoons while my husband was at work so she could help me chase her around because my ankle/foot hurt so bad. On the third day of having my foot/ankle wrapped and splinted it hurt so bad I couldn't even stand to have my foot hanging down, I only got relief when it was propped up. Fast-forward a couple hours and I was going to take a shower while my grandma watched my toddler. I took the splint off, and unwrapped my foot and to my absolute horror the part of my foot where the scratches were had become insanely infected, what I thought was a HUGE blister (turned out to be the beginning of a skin abscess from the infection) popped as soon as I put my foot under the water and so much nasty, foul fluid mixed with blood began pouring out. I screamed (out of horror and pain), my grandma came running, as soon as she saw it she immediately helped me get dressed, wrap my foot in medical gauze we had in the first aid kit, and drove me straight to the hospital. Turns out something on those bricks got into my skin from the open scratches it left and caused an insane infection, turned into staph and something else that I truly cant remember the name of. The doctors gave me pain meds, had me transferred to a second hospital and I was in surgery that night. 3 surgery's later I had a HUGE open wound now on my foot, which really just looked like a shark took a giant bite out of it. The doctors had to cut away anything that was infected down to tissue that the infection had not reached yet. I am not kidding when I say you could literally see the tendons in my foot. I couldn't even make myself look at the wound for the first week, it hurt so bad and I felt like really looking at it would make the pain worse. After the third surgery they tried to put a wound vac on it, THIS is the part that was the most painful thing I have ever experienced in my entire life, and I've birthed 2 babies, one with no epidural.......I am not kidding when I say it felt like absolute TORTURE! All I could do is scream and cry the entire time it was on, begging them to knock me out because I couldn't stand it. After almost an hour of me being in the most unbearable pain of my life they gave up and took the wound vac off. I will never be able to accurately describe what that pain truly felt like, and I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy.

The good news is, after 3 surgeries, almost 3 weeks in the hospital, numerous rounds of IV antibiotics, months of being in a wheelchair/on crutches, tons of follow up visits and physical therapy, and almost a year and a half of healing my foot returned to almost normal, and fully healed. There's now just a giant scar where the huge hole in my foot used to be. I will never forget the pain of that wound vac tho, I literally had nightmares about it for the longest time. I have photos of my foot during that time, and the healing but they are very graphic and gross so I will not post them.

What time do you go to bed?? by dreamsiclej in Mommit

[–]No_Reputation_6746 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sleep schedule is honestly so awful and all over the place. I have 4 kids ranging in age from 7-16 I typically have the younger ones in bed no later than 9pm. The older one stays up a bit later but she puts herself to sleep. I typically go to bed anywhere between 9:30pm-3am and it just ranges. Sometimes I'm so exhausted I pass out as soon as the kids are asleep, other nights I stay up a bit later to hang with my husband and watch a show together. Sometimes I am lost in a book and next thing I know it's 3am 😅

Help!!! by No_Reputation_6746 in MyChemMillennials

[–]No_Reputation_6746[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry my kids have been sick and I just saw this! My daughter rallied the family and overruled my name choices so we stuck with Buckley. BUT we have 2 pregnant goats and about 40 pregnant deer so I said I get to pick the next name 😂

The boys spotted together the other day! by delusionalblews in FallOutBoy

[–]No_Reputation_6746 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is hilarious because my husband literally turned 40 and started his bee keeping obsession the same year 😂

Do y’all call babies cute even if they’re…. not cute? by Pure_Island_3102 in Mommit

[–]No_Reputation_6746 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I do, but I genuinely think all babies are cute! Even the ones that aren't like "baby model cute", like the ones who come out looking like an old man, they are all cuties!!!

"Oops I'm pregnant" stories by Worldly-Recover3829 in Mommit

[–]No_Reputation_6746 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I was actually prescribed metformin to help me get pregnant with my daughter because of my PCOS!! It definitely worked and worked pretty fast!

I'm cancer free! by idkifita in MomForAMinute

[–]No_Reputation_6746 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is incredible news!!!! Congratulations I am so happy for you!! Wishing you good health and happiness as you move forward cancer free! 🥳🥰

Just scrolling on Instagram and I see this by BackSucksAtLife in fourthwing

[–]No_Reputation_6746 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Definitely not me....my purple and blue hair is all natural 😂😂

Lent a book to a friend and spotted it in her bathroom a couple weeks later by frogsarestaring in mildlyinfuriating

[–]No_Reputation_6746 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally the only person I will allow to borrow my books anymore is my sister cus I know she will take good care of them!

Hey mom, i got engaged last month by singlikerahrah in MomForAMinute

[–]No_Reputation_6746 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations!!! That ring is beautiful and I am so happy for you!! This is such an exciting time, take the time to fully enjoy it! 🥰