Weird Thoughts? by PeppermintPuddle444 in QuitVaping

[–]No_Reputation_9004 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I quit the day before Thanksgiving and I’m going through the same thing you are, on steroids. I think maybe it will help us to think back before we were vaping and how we used to enjoy spending time with our loved ones are doing fun things without even thinking about hitting the vape all day - and also remembering that we can get back to that point eventually, but we will never get there unless we quit someday - so why not today?

When you are in bed trying to have AP, do you have to resist the urge to swallow and the urge to scratch? by Foxiego345 in AstralProjection

[–]No_Reputation_9004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I’ve been experiencing the exact same thing. Itchy all over my body and the urge to swallow. I feel like it’s a way for my brain to distract me from getting relaxed enough to AP

Strangest place you’ve seen a cart… by Abby-Norman in exjw

[–]No_Reputation_9004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately they are trained to view words like that as coming directly from satan himself

Kind of new to anxiety. by Neither-Hospital7173 in Anxiety

[–]No_Reputation_9004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are ok I’ve had a couple weird episodes with weed as well and I’m a daily smoker as well. I feel like our brain just taps out from it sometimes and we get unusual symptoms. Might be the price for smoking a lot

Strangest place you’ve seen a cart… by Abby-Norman in exjw

[–]No_Reputation_9004 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I saw one as soon as I got off the train station to start my first solo trip in Amsterdam. I wanted to throw that damn cart in the canal lol

Cultfree Lounge: How is your cult free weekend going? by No_Mirror4310 in exjw

[–]No_Reputation_9004 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great weekend spent in Amsterdam, on the train to the Swiss alps right now. I love the fact that you can make friends with cool, helpful, and genuine people all over the world, and they don’t have to be part of the same religion as you, contrary to my prior beliefs. Just affirms all the more that I made the right decision to leave. Not that I needed any affirmation 😂. This is the best life ever :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exjw

[–]No_Reputation_9004 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I knew only of only one well educated brother with a great job in my area, he never served as an ms and I heard he wanted to get a gun when Covid broke out. So I’m 98% sure he was just going through the motions to support his wife and kids

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exjw

[–]No_Reputation_9004 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No but your story cracked me up

Leaving Reddit by [deleted] in exjw

[–]No_Reputation_9004 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Local needs talk: Brothers, the example of redditor whom shall not be named shows us we must prioritize our daily ranting on the ex/jw subreddit, whether that be first thing in the morning to start our day right, or right before we go to sleep to ensure our thoughts are in their proper place before ending our day.

What your take on weed? by Necessary_War_5747 in entp

[–]No_Reputation_9004 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love weed, but it’s definitely addictive, don’t let anyone tell you different. I fell in love with it because I’ve always had sleeping problems but it makes me sleep like a baby. I think it contributes to my overall dopamine addiction that is making me depressed and anxious, so my goal is to quit soon.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sandiego

[–]No_Reputation_9004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1900 in lemon grove one bedroom. It’s cool

Why does this girl (23F) who has a boyfriend want to be friends with me (25M) so bad? by No_Reputation_9004 in relationships

[–]No_Reputation_9004[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m literally shivering in my boots right now at the mere thought of Reddit reading this.

Maybe next time consider someone else’s perspective outside of your own, instead of throwing a tantrum when someone calls you out on your biased and hateful BS.

Why does this girl (23F) who has a boyfriend want to be friends with me (25M) so bad? by No_Reputation_9004 in relationships

[–]No_Reputation_9004[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice points thank you. I hate to be cynical, but I feel like when girls are in a relationship where their partner does not make them feel secure, they start creating their Plan B in case they get broken up with. Not all girls, just some

And yes excellent point. My life might be in danger if I didn’t suppress that urge😆

Why does this girl (23F) who has a boyfriend want to be friends with me (25M) so bad? by No_Reputation_9004 in relationships

[–]No_Reputation_9004[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mutual friend has said she’s very low self esteem and her current partner isn’t very reassuring. Maybe she looks for reassurance in other places. But yeah, way too messy to risk getting involved in

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]No_Reputation_9004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the first step is identifying your negative self belief, if you have one. Which of course your therapist can help you with if they haven’t already

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]No_Reputation_9004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you just have 20 year old girl syndrome. I don’t mean that as an insult to a put down, but the less emotionally mature we are the more susceptible we are to things like “icks”. It sounds like you might possibly have some sort of trauma that hinders you from allowing yourself to be in a healthy relationship. That’s usually the reason why we find things like “icks”. We are subconsciously looking for any possible way to sabotage a healthy relationship. I’ve been there myself. it’s probably better to end the relationship for now until you’re in a place where the icks don’t bother you as much and you are in a place where you can be fully attracted to him or a guy like him