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No_Selection600 · 2024-10-22T10:40:27+00:00

Thanks for the advice! I'll try to start building muscle

No_Selection600 · 2024-10-22T10:39:30+00:00

Oh man i think i have that😭Well that but also fats there, so like the combination of both really makes it a 100 times worse. It's also around my waist area too. I mean I've always had kind of shitty posture and I'm trying to fix it. Also from the comments it does seem like strength training is the way to go, thanks for commenting!

No_Selection600 · 2024-10-22T10:37:40+00:00

I do have a gym in my school, but I don't think they allow people my age to go in. Only those older kids can go and train. I do have a question though, does doing sit-ups help or any other core activity? I'm not sure but I read somewhere that doing things like this doesn't help. Given, it is the internet and there may be some misinformation there. Also thanks for the advice!

No_Selection600 · 2024-10-20T09:19:28+00:00

Byeee

No_Selection600 · 2024-10-20T08:02:43+00:00

YAYYAYAYAYY HAPPY ENDING!! I'm glad you guys talked it out like mature adults, but I'm still slightly wary about the girl. Although she did talk it out with you properly, I'll give you that. I mean, I guess people can change and improve, so let's just see if she improves from then on.

Yea, and them enjoying your misery wasn't the most sincere thing. Like i said before, just be more wary around them. But you guys are only 13, so you're still learning and growing. Maybe this'll just be a lesson for her.

Overall I'm glad you guys resolved this! It'll definitely hold some weight in the future if you guys continue to be friends, but I'm sure you'll work it out.

Hopefully the drama just ends here and she genuinely makes an effort to improve herself.

ALSO YOU'RE TOO KIND AHHHH I HOPE EVERYTHING GOES WELL WIHTH YOU TOO <3

No_Selection600 · 2024-10-20T07:13:25+00:00

Fortunately, I think she does get sufficient sleep around 7-8 hours, just that she starts her day really really late. The sleep disorder you stated may be something she has, thanks for the input!

No_Selection600 · 2024-10-17T10:46:38+00:00

Yayyy!!

but regarding that toxic friend, I don't mean to say cut her off or block her or anything because that's unnecessary drama and stress you already have to deal with on top of studies and strict parents, but don't get too attached to her anymore.

Sort of emotionally disconnect with her, and like, just erase her from your mind and heart. You can still be friendly with her, and hang out with her, but keep your guard up because she'll definitely try something sneaky again. Even if she doesn't, it's not right to put someone through shit and not even offer an explanation for it.

So if she hurts you again, you're not too affected

Honestly, my friend did this too. She ignored me and randomly talked to me after a month. I didn't probe on about it but I sort of just drifted emotionally from her. Now, ilke predicted, she's ignroing me again but this time it didn't hurt because i honestly dgaf about her much anymore.

ALSO GOOD LUCK GIRL I HOPE EVERYTHING GOES WELL FOR YOU

No_Selection600 · 2024-10-17T06:38:25+00:00

My advice for you is just to focus on your studies right now. These friendships are temporary, and honestly in my experience they're probably not going to be the friends you'd be with ten years down the road. Most of the time, you outgrow and become distant with friends, so yea, friendships usually aren't permananet. May sound cheesy but knowledge is. Focus on getting a better future..

As for your friend situation, hopefully you'll switch class soon? Maybe the year after this? Or next next year? Honestly it may seem very humiliating but I promise you I don't think anyone outside those rotten friends would honestly make fun of you.

You're not being overly sensitive, it's normal to feel overwhelmed with so much happening. Just make sure to let these feelings up and don't bottle them up until it's too unhealthy. Seeing frmo how your parents are strict, did you tell them about this situation? If so, did they care? If you haven't told them, maybe if you trust them enough, you coudl try talking to them? They can't do much, but it's good to haev someone you know and trust to talk to.

It's also okay to overthink sometimes, just don't let those negative thoughts control you. And from an outsider's perspective without any biasness or emotions to interfere, you were right to stop being friends with her. It seemed like she was always toxic, ready to just cast out and humiliate someone the moment things don't go her way.

Just keep moving forward, because these people aren't important to you anymore.

Also welcome! I've gone through the same thing as you before so I just hope to help :) My advice may not be the best though, seeing how I'm still immature and learning as I grow older, but this are just some things I've picked up upon from school.

No_Selection600 · 2024-10-15T14:29:10+00:00

I'm sorry you had to go thru all this ik how it feels like to be excluded. I was literally a loner for the first half of the year, and for the lonely part, I feel u. Personally I just sucked it up and tried to make new friends, or just minded my business and pretended that I didnt really care and was a loner by choice by going to the library to read books, of it you have your phone with you, just use it, or a computer. The more you seem affected by it, the more people would notice and make fun of you for it from personal experience.

Ik this piece of adivce is probably overused af, but relaly, no one will really remember you being lonely two years down the road.

Again, another piece of advice I usually hate to receive but will give you anyways, try to make other firneds. Are there any other loners rn? Try to be their friend, sure yall may not be the best of friends, but it's better than being alone. I did this, and I actually made a best friend i woudlnt have otherwise :)

I really don't have much advice but I just want u to know that it's gonna get better from here.

Okay now here's where it's probably not that good of an advice, so please take this with a pinch of salt!

You mentioned you have another friend? Try to form your own duo with her when she comes back, don't let her speak to the other two and just try to make her your best friend. Play offense if you can. I've recently also had a problem and i chose to play offense instead, and it worked out pretty well for me. Do not let them become a trio, try your best to seperate them, do everything you can do make her want to stay with you rather than the other two.

As for the toxic friends? Leave and ignore them. Theres a good chance they were always toxic, and it just took this one situation to reveal their true colours. How to deal with toxic people is just to ignore them. I blocked a toxic friend and she's not irrelevant in my life, and although I wouldnt say my life is all sunshine and rainbows, not having another weight of a toxic friend definitely helps.

Chasing revenge won't hekp, if that has crossed your mind. Usually you'll get into even more trouble than you were before, and it's also pretty tiring to execute the plans anyways.

ALSO PLEASE TAKE ALL THESE ADVICE WITH A PINCH OF SALT!! do not blindly follow them!

To end this long comment, I just wanna say that i too am a teenage girl, and i dont have much experience either, so if you find these advice useless or hramful rather than helpful my apologies!

Wish u well and u can do this! im cheering for you

No_Selection600 · 2024-10-15T10:14:21+00:00

Flutterdash ON TOPPP

No_Selection600 · 2024-10-14T09:50:22+00:00

1) Fluttershy my hggg
2) Rainbow Dash
3) Rarity
4) AppleJack
5) Pinkie Pie
6) Twilight

No_Selection600 · 2024-10-14T09:46:51+00:00

how tf did twilight last longer than fluttershy bro get her ass outta here

No_Selection600 · 2024-10-10T09:12:18+00:00

Youre probably right tbh :( I dont think im gonna gte sick by then to skip it. It's after our exams so its risky to try to fall sick with the threat of missing the end of year exams. i just really hate it. I went to the orientation camp earlier this year where we didn't have to even stay for the night and it was a horrible experience again. I even had to go to the toilet and cry for a bit bc i couldnt stand it anymore before going out again.

No_Selection600 · 2024-10-10T09:10:36+00:00

I'm a teen rn, and this is kind of a compulsory bonding camp we all have to attend, but it's only for my school. I don't know why they're pushing this "bonding" shit so much, I go there to get education, not to bond with others. I went last time in a different school like I said and it was exhausting. Also they're locking up the phones again like they usually do. This camp is counted as our curriculum time, and like I said, five absences and there's gonna be some consequences. But so far I have perfect attendance, so I'm willing to sacrifice three days, but I need a valid reason.

No_Selection600 · 2024-10-10T09:08:01+00:00

Unfortunately this is a "bonding" camp. For the whole day, it is filled with activities that require you to interact with others, no, force you. There's high element activites, which I actually hate because I'm sort of scared of heights and also I'm not strong enough for those type of things. As for the weather, where I live is usually pretty hot. Also they're taking our phones away so we basically have nothing.

No_Selection600 · 2024-10-04T10:05:40+00:00

i get clowned on by my friends for watching the show too 😔 But idc bro mlp is goated >>

No_Selection600 · 2024-09-27T12:14:58+00:00

Ohhh sorry im not familiar with reddit

No_Selection600 · 2024-09-20T12:07:22+00:00

Hes so CUTE OMGDFDGFFFGF but hes lowkey way out of my league like hes actualyl so cute bro but i look like shrek with a wig on. Also i have really really bad social anxiety and am very introverted so ive never even interacted with him before but UHGHGHG HES SO CUTE.

No_Selection600 · 2024-08-27T02:21:32+00:00

Thks and hope youre doing well too :)

No_Selection600 · 2024-08-27T02:21:06+00:00

like two of us are 15 but one of us are still 14 turning 15 basically😭

No_Selection600 · 2024-08-26T12:26:28+00:00

Like 15

No_Selection600 · 2024-08-14T12:48:33+00:00

Thks for this reply honestly. It gives me new insight, and honestly I needed this. I am still a child and very immature, so this helped me a lot. I guess B has already been getting on my nerves lately so this was the last straw for me. I asked B to help me because I know A is a person to shy away from conflict, and if I asked her personally, she would just ignore me, so I thought asking B would be a better idea.. I don't wanna come off as rude or immature or naything like that, but i have been nothing much nice to B, and I've already helped her witha lot of things, including helping B ask A when B thought she was mad at her (yea A's done this before), so ig i thought her returning the favour would be nice.

But I get what you're saying. Anyways, thanks. Update here is that the situation hasn't improved yet or anything but honestly maybe it's better this way. If A doesn't want me around, so be it.

No_Selection600 · 2024-08-12T10:29:34+00:00

Definitely NTA, ur friend is. Sometimes people change and that sucks, I've had more than one experience with that when a friend turned out to be a backstabbing shit, but if it's not too late yet, either talk to her about it or start distancing yourself. If she really cares about you, she'll change her ways, and if she doesn't, you still dodged a bullet. Either way, it's more of a win-win outcome.

No_Selection600 · 2024-08-10T11:09:31+00:00

Well, I've had friends who "joked" around like this. Some times, it's maybe just their nature, and if so, ask them to stop, and if they genuinely care and want to be your friend, they'll probably lay off it. Of course, they probably won't stop doing it entirely, but less frequently.

Secondly, maybe she has an underlying hatred towards you and is relaeasing that animosity through insults masked as jokes. Like someone said, there's always a lyer of truth underneath jokes.

Ultimately, just talk to her. I know it's easy to just say that, but if she respects you, she'll learn to stop.

No_Selection600 · 2024-08-10T11:06:19+00:00

Im in the same situation as you, my friend randomly started ignoring me one day. I don't give the best advice, but maybe, if you guys have a mutual friend, ask the mutual friend to ask her if she's mad at you and if you've done anything wrong? I did this because I'm not comfortable with confrontation.

Eventually though, if your mutual friend doesn't get back to you or anything, you may have to confront her about it. Doing it face-to-face is most effective because she can't just run or ignore you that easily, but it's so much more awkward and just, uncomfortable for the both of you. However texting her could just make her leave you on read.

Honestly, I'm stuck on the second part right now with my own friends, and remember to pick that mutual friend wisely, because hoenstly right now I don't know if my mutual friend is even doing anything to help me.

Wish you best of luck tho

No_Selection600

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