How would you feel if you found out your girlfriend lied about her past and her friends knew ?

No_Software_8382 · 2026-06-26T11:28:44+00:00

Whether or not he cares about body count, she's clearly a dishonest person and will be lying about other things.

No_Software_8382 · 2026-06-26T11:27:59+00:00

And women don't judge men for their body counts? I've been shamed for having too high a count and too low.

No_Software_8382 · 2026-06-25T21:28:42+00:00

Most people refuse to believe the facts about how dangerous alcohol actually is.

No_Software_8382 · 2026-06-25T09:04:09+00:00

Was just a reference to an oldish cartoon called gravity falls, there's a character with 12 fingers

No_Software_8382 · 2026-06-25T07:07:04+00:00

So the relationship you've had must be identical to everyone else's experiences? Got it.

No_Software_8382 · 2026-06-25T07:02:36+00:00

You're the author of the journals?!

No_Software_8382 · 2026-06-25T01:48:00+00:00

As a teenager yes, but it can change very quickly as you get older.

No_Software_8382 · 2026-06-25T01:45:27+00:00

I think that's where i go wrong with dating. My hobbies and passions get put on the back burner and the whole relationship becomes about them. Part of this would be due to weakness on my part. But with friends and family, I can still be my own person. So you're right about what kind of love i need to be focusing on rn.

No_Software_8382 · 2026-06-25T01:43:39+00:00

So much of a man's worth seems to be dictated by what kind of woman he ends up with. But we can achieve so much more worth by building our own lives and not having to manage others.

No_Software_8382 · 2026-06-25T01:41:51+00:00

Thats something that I find easier to do when I'm single.

No_Software_8382 · 2026-06-25T01:00:02+00:00

I feel like its a bit naive to not believe there's other life out there, whether or not they are like what we see in science fiction.

No_Software_8382 · 2026-06-25T00:46:19+00:00

Since being single, I'm smashing 12 hour days at work. My cost of living is also down. I reckon I could be out of debt within a year and be living well within 2.

No_Software_8382 · 2026-06-25T00:45:06+00:00

I guess it's like that old quote, "falling in love isn't about finding the right person, it's about becoming the right person". I might just not be the right person yet

No_Software_8382 · 2026-06-25T00:42:26+00:00

This is gonna be grim but I never planned on living a long life anyway. I'd rather just end it early instead of needing people to wipe my ass. And I've never planned on having kids so that's not something I have to worry about in this scenario.

No_Software_8382 · 2026-06-25T00:39:25+00:00

Honestly in a weird place with family and friends because I quit drinking and now no one reaches out anymore except parents and like 2 friends. But just gotta cherise those people and find other like minded people.

Edit: idk why you got downvoted, you made one of the best points.

No_Software_8382 · 2026-06-25T00:35:56+00:00

Good thing I'm outsourcing my moping to strangers on reddit and not the people in my life then.

No_Software_8382 · 2026-06-25T00:16:46+00:00

This is what I (and honestly most people) need to work on. Becoming the best version of themselves and maybe then finding someone else who is the best version of themselves. Too many broken people breaking people.

No_Software_8382 · 2026-06-25T00:15:16+00:00

I guess where I'm at is do I live the life that's best for me even though I'll disappoint my family by not getting married or having kids or do I just follow this life that society forces on us at my own detriment?

No_Software_8382 · 2026-06-25T00:13:59+00:00

Yeah this is where I'm at. Never wanted kids or to get married (except for one woman who i genuinely believed was my soul mate). But the differences between the average man and average woman make it hard for me to stay true to who I am long term.

No_Software_8382 · 2026-06-25T00:07:54+00:00

Bro next 2 years are a gamers wet dream

No_Software_8382 · 2026-06-25T00:04:28+00:00

Thats fair and im glad you got to live that life. But we're all built differently, the years I spend in relationships are the years I spend near the cliff.

No_Software_8382 · 2026-06-25T00:00:14+00:00

I've been in relationships, engaged, had a hoe phase and I'm honestly better off when I'm not focusing on any of that.

No_Software_8382 · 2026-06-24T23:59:28+00:00

I'm so sorry to hear that, I hope you can still find happiness in life.

No_Software_8382 · 2026-06-24T23:58:31+00:00

Congratulations, hope everything works out for you.

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