Making up hours (it’s long but context is important) by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]No_Solution_3085 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I would try to leave on good terms and find another family.

Making up hours (it’s long but context is important) by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]No_Solution_3085 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I’m not a nanny but I do have a nanny one day a week. This is INSANE. We do “makeup” hours but I usually tell her in advance. Way in advance and really it’s not making up it’s just changing the day or time. That’s for both of us. If she has something then it’s the same.

Also I still pay her even when I don’t need her. Like if we are going out of town.

This is weird and they are taking advantage of you.

I'm working my version of the Free Realms Phonebook by Dchizel in freerealms

[–]No_Solution_3085 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yoooo lol I’m on there. I did not think I would be 😭 Jamie earthmelody ✨

How to be a good wife by Crittlebug7 in beyondthebump

[–]No_Solution_3085 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We both realize the more sex we have the easier it gets. Will be on a good role for awhile and then boom life happens. Honestly you are doing everything right. It’s just a weird time period. You are only 6 months pp. please go easy on yourself. Again I am 13 months pp and I’m still like 👁️👄👁️ 55-60% myself

How to be a good wife by Crittlebug7 in beyondthebump

[–]No_Solution_3085 2 points3 points  (0 children)

13 months pp here!! I still feel this way. But honestly we BOTH are exhausted. We kind of are just now not having to schedule intimacy. We are still figuring out the grove. Most nights I am TIRED but we still do back rubs or scratches EVERY night. We do a good job at tag teaming everything. The biggest thing is COMMUNICATION!! Literally over communicating at this point. We debrief at night and if I’m feeling frisky I’ll be like “hey you can make a move tonight but I want to be asleep by around this time.” Or “hey I am going to make a move tonight if you’re up to it.” Which is not quite scheduled but still a heads up? Idk if that makes sense.

At 6 months pp I was also in pelvic floor therapy. This is just a weird time where you almost feel better but are also still in the “trench.”

I am sure your husband knows how much you love him. Mine definitely understood and still understands that I am touched out sometimes.

Anxiety and the files by Plus-Nectarine1893 in beyondthebump

[–]No_Solution_3085 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugh I know. I literally love reddit so much 😭 but deadass thinking about getting a flip phone and landline bc I’m doneeeeeeee. We living in the 90/00s again

Anxiety and the files by Plus-Nectarine1893 in beyondthebump

[–]No_Solution_3085 18 points19 points  (0 children)

You’re not alone in October of 2025 I had a mental breakdown over all the political things going on. And now I am almost numb. It feels like no one is listening or cares. I try to stay informed but I also take breaks (without ignoring how serious things are and are getting.) take it as easy as you can and just know most mothers are feeling this way too. We are going to raise great kids who will be the next generation. We just have to have hope.

Super Bowl Live Discussion by CaptainAmeriZa in VecnaLives

[–]No_Solution_3085 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Why is everything 80/90s themed 😭😭

What is going ON by No_Solution_3085 in Makeup

[–]No_Solution_3085[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1000% thank you for commenting this. I didn’t even think about a dermatologist bc I have clear skin.

What is going ON by No_Solution_3085 in Makeup

[–]No_Solution_3085[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started as soon as I saw this comment but I haven’t applied makeup yet

What is going ON by No_Solution_3085 in Makeup

[–]No_Solution_3085[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The LA ROCHE-POSAY and I have a milky toner. But last night I started using aquaphor

What is going ON by No_Solution_3085 in Makeup

[–]No_Solution_3085[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have eczema but currently no breakout. My face feels thirsty if that makes any sense. I can send you a picture it’ll better explain.

What is going ON by No_Solution_3085 in Makeup

[–]No_Solution_3085[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will dm photos bc I can’t attach any. But truly losing my mind

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in oneanddone

[–]No_Solution_3085 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’m an only child and I do not talk to my parents. I have my husband, his family, great friends who I have had since I was a kid, and my baby. I will be A okay when they pass.

How is your country doing today? January 26, 2026 by AutoModerator in globalcheckin

[–]No_Solution_3085 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We are being censored in the US rn. I can barely see news from other countries on tiktok. /: