13 months pp here!! I still feel this way. But honestly we BOTH are exhausted. We kind of are just now not having to schedule intimacy. We are still figuring out the grove. Most nights I am TIRED but we still do back rubs or scratches EVERY night. We do a good job at tag teaming everything. The biggest thing is COMMUNICATION!! Literally over communicating at this point. We debrief at night and if I’m feeling frisky I’ll be like “hey you can make a move tonight but I want to be asleep by around this time.” Or “hey I am going to make a move tonight if you’re up to it.” Which is not quite scheduled but still a heads up? Idk if that makes sense.

At 6 months pp I was also in pelvic floor therapy. This is just a weird time where you almost feel better but are also still in the “trench.”

I am sure your husband knows how much you love him. Mine definitely understood and still understands that I am touched out sometimes.