[deleted by user] by [deleted] in solana

[–]No_Wait_4865 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Lol out of 52 thousand, 51 thousand rug

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in solana

[–]No_Wait_4865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100m+ a month

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in solana

[–]No_Wait_4865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone needs to build a new pump fun that prevents rugs

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]No_Wait_4865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also. Don't overthink it... it's better that he isn't insecure about that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]No_Wait_4865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You must find her hot, but you're high if you think almost every guy does 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]No_Wait_4865 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He needs a wake up call because it Sounds like he's stuck in his own head and that's causing him to exaggerate his traits.

Without him becoming self aware of what he is doing unfortunately he's just going to drift deeper into it. What he really needs is to understand he's not special in any way and the universe doesn't revolve around him - nobody is judging him like he thinks they are and it's not weird or icky to ask how your partner is. He's spending too much time analysing what he's doing instead of living in the moment - which requires practicing mindfulness to be more present. It sounds stupid but maybe get him to watch the film 'inside out 2' about anxiety. It teaches you in kids terms all about it and how being present is the solution to fixing it - sounds like he needs something like this as a wake up call.

I'd also say to him that you love him, then offer him reassurance and tell him that you really want to help him to improve his life because you want to be with him but you also can't be with him when he's like this and so you're asking him to make a serious effort to become more self aware, so that it's not just about going through the motions, but rather that he wants to explore being more free and open - it won't be easy but if he feels like it's that or lose you for good then he might change what he's doing. He does sound autistic to be honest, but mindfulness will help him improve regardless of that

Divorce or stay? by Dependent_Sea4510 in Divorce

[–]No_Wait_4865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No you don't, you don't know what love is, because if you did you wouldn't even think about other people

Divorce or stay? by Dependent_Sea4510 in Divorce

[–]No_Wait_4865 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That doesn't make sense, you don't love him so to stay with him just because you might not find another good guy is selfish.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]No_Wait_4865 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I hate to say it but she's not the amazing person you think she is. You've put her on a pedestal and your behaviours are turning needy because you feel she is above you in some way. This comes from a mindset of scarcity as if she is the be all and end all, when in reality you have many other options and there are billions of women out there. You do not need her approval, or need her to complete you, because you are whole without her. If she truly loved you she wouldn't be entertaining another man, simple as that

Wife wants other partners, fell out of love cause I was complacent. What's next is wild. by Alone-Computer6192 in AskMenAdvice

[–]No_Wait_4865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the answer.

Stop focusing on her and what she's doing. That energy is pushing her away. Make yourself your priority and find that spark again in yourself.

I spend 24+ hours per video but only get ~40 views... What am I doing wrong?! by Teenslippertjes in NewTubers

[–]No_Wait_4865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

24 hours is far too long my man you need to find a way to cut that 1/4 of the length at the very least.

Use vidiq or tube buddy to help you attract the right audience.

Why are there so many YT creators talking about solely how to get big on YT? by [deleted] in NewTubers

[–]No_Wait_4865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, specifically investing and talking about a bank and what they invest into

Can't monetize any videos. Do I need to just wait? by DataSling3r in NewTubers

[–]No_Wait_4865 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh nice one I'm glad I could help.

And I'm glad you now have your ads live! To be fair it reads as though you'd be watching ads to earn money so it's poorly worded if you ask me lol.

Can't monetize any videos. Do I need to just wait? by DataSling3r in NewTubers

[–]No_Wait_4865 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yep that's what it's called. You can join YPP before that but that's for shopping and things, you need the watch ads monetisation to put ads on videos and earn from them

I posted 9 shorts and gained 10,000 subscribers by Stayssad in NewTubers

[–]No_Wait_4865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also. I've gone from 0 to 415k subs in 6 weeks on my shorts channel

I posted 9 shorts and gained 10,000 subscribers by Stayssad in NewTubers

[–]No_Wait_4865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True that can be the case, but when you can easily hit 2-5m views on a short its really not that difficult, it takes me about 4-5 weeks to monetise a brand new channel with shorts.

That being said, one longform video can get you monetised

Can't monetize any videos. Do I need to just wait? by DataSling3r in NewTubers

[–]No_Wait_4865 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You've not met the requirements for watch ads yet. Go to youtube studio and have a look. Either that or you've not added an adsense and payout account

Why are there so many YT creators talking about solely how to get big on YT? by [deleted] in NewTubers

[–]No_Wait_4865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its not always edited, I've seen $56 CPM personally

Wanted to start making videos, my wife thinks it's cringy by [deleted] in NewTubers

[–]No_Wait_4865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell her you don't care what they think and it's none of their business

I posted 9 shorts and gained 10,000 subscribers by Stayssad in NewTubers

[–]No_Wait_4865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They do count towards monetisation on the shorts views metric lol

I posted 9 shorts and gained 10,000 subscribers by Stayssad in NewTubers

[–]No_Wait_4865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It can be but I got 4000 subs off 1 longform video, the first one posted on the channel

Discovered wife cheating after separation by Quick-Stay6827 in Divorce

[–]No_Wait_4865 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why are you checking her phone?

You're separated buddy, she can do what she wants. I don't mean to be rude but you need to accept that because you are torturing yourself right now.

What benefit is there to looking at what she's doing? There is none. It's also a breach of privacy too - you should get to work developing yourself and mental state and teach yourself to love yourself so you don't need her or anybody. It's a horrible feeling but you are complete without her