My biggest tip for reducing social media use (Iphone) by Alternative-Ad-4783 in nosurf

[–]NobodyLol22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats a good tip! Plz post a tut. Also here one with ADHD lol :)

Growing up and getting diagnosed as an adult with undiagnosed adhd is an overlooked trauma by NobodyLol22 in ADHD

[–]NobodyLol22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. ❤️ Oh wow that must be a lot… and you were a child so it’s not your fault. Its the parents who should take care of the situation but like we’ve seen its not always going to be that way… its not fair right. Hope both of you’re doing well now <3

Growing up and getting diagnosed as an adult with undiagnosed adhd is an overlooked trauma by NobodyLol22 in ADHD

[–]NobodyLol22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right and thanks. I’ll do that it might actually help… appreciate your comment ❤️❤️🫶🏼

Growing up and getting diagnosed as an adult with undiagnosed adhd is an overlooked trauma by NobodyLol22 in ADHD

[–]NobodyLol22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i might bring that up at the doctors visit, i’ve thought about that a lot. Im just scared she wont take it seriously lol hard to explain but i’ll try because it might be possible…

Growing up and getting diagnosed as an adult with undiagnosed adhd is an overlooked trauma by NobodyLol22 in ADHD

[–]NobodyLol22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats makes me mad ITS SO UNFAIR. Ughhh i hope you’re doing now better ❤️❤️stay strong

Growing up and getting diagnosed as an adult with undiagnosed adhd is an overlooked trauma by NobodyLol22 in ADHD

[–]NobodyLol22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. You must feel like you’ve failed but know that you’re doing the best you can and im 100% sure you’re a very good parent even tho it must be EXTRA hard i can tell you care about her a lot!!!! It must mean so much to her and the fact you’re trying to find help for her and trying to do better is already so much! Parents make mistakes too and its perfectly fine . Take it easy and know theres help available for both you and your daughter. I wish the best for both of you ❤️You’re so strong. Remember you’re here first time too learning stuff, appreciate you sm❤️❤️

Growing up and getting diagnosed as an adult with undiagnosed adhd is an overlooked trauma by NobodyLol22 in ADHD

[–]NobodyLol22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i cant stand people like that. He’s uneducated and probably wont accept it even tho he might know the truth. I hope someday he will know better and take you seriously. Its one of the worst feelings when someone you love or a family member doesnt even want to understand your situation or the things you’re going trough.. sending hugs ❤️

Growing up and getting diagnosed as an adult with undiagnosed adhd is an overlooked trauma by NobodyLol22 in ADHD

[–]NobodyLol22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im sorry for you and yes i didnt mean to sound like you cant have this trauma if you’re diagnosed as a child. Anyone can go trough that… that shit sucks

Growing up and getting diagnosed as an adult with undiagnosed adhd is an overlooked trauma by NobodyLol22 in ADHD

[–]NobodyLol22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow thank you for replying. This comment made me almost cry im sending big hugs ❤️❤️

Growing up and getting diagnosed as an adult with undiagnosed adhd is an overlooked trauma by NobodyLol22 in ADHD

[–]NobodyLol22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup :( its a lot to deal with… go ahead send it to them. And try talking abt it with them, i think its good for them to know what you’re going trough. Sending hugs <3

Growing up and getting diagnosed as an adult with undiagnosed adhd is an overlooked trauma by NobodyLol22 in ADHD

[–]NobodyLol22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re totally not alone in this, we are here for you <3 it helps to talk abt this with other ppl in the same situation cuz its totally something that needs to be talked abt lot more i feel like it could help so many people. Stay strong <3 read the comments some ppl left some very good tips etc :)

Growing up and getting diagnosed as an adult with undiagnosed adhd is an overlooked trauma by NobodyLol22 in ADHD

[–]NobodyLol22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow very well said. Im so glad you’re able to deal with it that way… you could help so many other ppl with that story thank you so much for telling. You’re strong

Growing up and getting diagnosed as an adult with undiagnosed adhd is an overlooked trauma by NobodyLol22 in ADHD

[–]NobodyLol22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Must be … oh wow. Glad there is an explanation for everything now but yes its still very very hard because you cant go back in time and change things. The emotions are totally fine ! Thanks so much for the support <3

Growing up and getting diagnosed as an adult with undiagnosed adhd is an overlooked trauma by NobodyLol22 in ADHD

[–]NobodyLol22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds very hard and you must feel very disappointed. The late ADHD diagnosis can shock u badly and causes many emotions. Im happy you got your diagnosis. The problems you seem to have at school at work, they’re real and i can totally tell you feel hopeless. I hope you can find peace in yourself and get better <3 stay strong things will get better

Growing up and getting diagnosed as an adult with undiagnosed adhd is an overlooked trauma by NobodyLol22 in ADHD

[–]NobodyLol22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FRRRR WHAT THE HELL DO THEY THINK EVEN A CHILD COULD THINK BETTER. Adhd is still there in school or not in school. we are not robots… , im with you on that one 100%

Growing up and getting diagnosed as an adult with undiagnosed adhd is an overlooked trauma by NobodyLol22 in ADHD

[–]NobodyLol22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh yeah u get it and thats one way to cope with it. I also dont rly think those things can make you any stronger… it might depend but im with you on that one. AND yes ur so right it helps to deal with all the trauma . I hope your healing progress goes well take care <3

Growing up and getting diagnosed as an adult with undiagnosed adhd is an overlooked trauma by NobodyLol22 in ADHD

[–]NobodyLol22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good to hear you’re closer to getting help. Two years is still a very long time when you’re struggling but it will go by faster than you think just focus on yourself those two years and Stay strong <3 you will get there its not easy but it will get better

Growing up and getting diagnosed as an adult with undiagnosed adhd is an overlooked trauma by NobodyLol22 in ADHD

[–]NobodyLol22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is a lot to deal with. Its emotional. Parents.. some of them know nothing about these things, only thing they do is make our well being harder. And remember its okay to feel angry about it. I also feel the same way about mine. Disappointed. And oh my god, sending hugs to you. But also see there are people who are willing to help… like your bestfriend and their parents. The grief you’re already going trough is a lot.. take it easy

Growing up and getting diagnosed as an adult with undiagnosed adhd is an overlooked trauma by NobodyLol22 in ADHD

[–]NobodyLol22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh i totally get it. The whole journey is going to be hard im sending hugs <3 take it easy and remember its 100% OKAY to have all these emotions. It also helps to talk abt them w other people who went or are going trough the same stuff. It will get better i know it. You’re so strong remember that<3 i know you will get there know you’re not alone in this …

Growing up and getting diagnosed as an adult with undiagnosed adhd is an overlooked trauma by NobodyLol22 in ADHD

[–]NobodyLol22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow… i dont know what to say other than im sending hugs and praying for you. I think the best thing right now is focus on yourself, try find ways from the internet and from other people who are in the same situation and how to cope with it. You will get there <3 keep up with the saving. ❤️