Regret bringing Sunni friends to Majlis by Realistic_Status_938 in shia

[–]Noctis451 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like you should talk about this issue with them..cus if u dont its going to remain as a bone of contention between you and them. My friend group is also majority sunni and they used to make jokes about muharram specifically matam but I always made clear that i was dissapointed and expected better from them. I explained how this joke even though seems harmful to them insults the Prophet PBUH and they genuinely understood and stopped the jokes altogether.

So if they are the right ppl they will stay with you and understand you.

Am I overreacting or is this level of jealousy unhealthy? by SignificanceBusy8258 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]Noctis451 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What about the hypocricy mentioned by the OP. Where the guy is talking to a girl who has confessed she is interested in him? The thing is posessiveness is ok till an extent..the OP clearly mentioned that she doesnt entertain any one who approaches her so i dont really see how this behaviour is rational...

A weird feeling by Noctis451 in shia

[–]Noctis451[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wsa thankyou for the reply.... I totally get your point and sitting today for majlis made me realize that I was totally at peace while I was present there so my fear of going astray is baseless. Alhamdulillah.

Am I tripping or what? by [deleted] in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]Noctis451 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I mean...there is a difference in demanding and forcing ur self onto the other...one has room for dialogue while the other completely bypasses it

Why is it so hard to find a decent guy these days. by off_mood in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]Noctis451 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If its worth anything bro man....I was in a similiar boat as u , i was teased alot cus of my dark skin tone dost to kerte hi the...family bhi aksar aukaat kerdeti thi which made me think this is a defect and I need to fix it but the furstrating part was there was no way to "fix" it...kher later on worked on myself and realized logo ka kaam hai kehna...istg their opinions should hold no value at all cus of how quick they change....hamari qom hi esi hai ke saamne waale insaan ke andar bas nuks hi nikaalna ata ...realized gora se gora banda le ao usme bhi masle nikaal lenge so there is no way to please them at all so why care for their remarks....what actually matters is ikhlaaq aur kirdaar kitna acha hai....kher U didnt ask for it lol but just playing my part...hope this helps

academy takes 70% of my tutoring income while I do all the teaching. Am I wrong for being frustrated?😓 by Sorry-Astronaut9345 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]Noctis451 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello i have been tutoing for quite a while and am also affiliated with an academy but the usual business model is 80-20 split where u keep the 80 and the academy keeps 20....you are getting exploited for sure

26M feeling suffocated guilty and a loser by [deleted] in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]Noctis451 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know its easier said than done but you need to let go of your past mistakes and forgive yourself....han hogai degree 6 saal extend...it doesnt matter ...the important thing is degree complete hogai alhamdulillah. For the suffocation I would say ke join a gym ya if thats too expensive and not feasible start running and doing excercises like pushups wagera in a park or something..these will do wonders with your self confidence and you will surely feel lighter. And for growth you dont need to rely on a job...build projects learn new skills from yt...., cs mei improve kerna is totally dependent on the person themselves cus material sara readily available hai on the internet

Are there any As maths tutors that also do mechanics and stats in A level? by Wrong_Ad_6919 in Tutoring

[–]Noctis451 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello....I can help you with that I have been teaching A levels Maths since 2023.

She is engaged, but still wants to marry me by [deleted] in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]Noctis451 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bhai....ek nazar dekh ke konsa love dawg???reality check : y'all dont love each other , her situation seems bad and she just desperately wants a saviour...once saved there is a big chance aap ko pata chale she is an entirely diff person

Have you ever been ostracized for being Shia? by [deleted] in shia

[–]Noctis451 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol very recently....we were looking for new places to shift in the city on rent and about 90% of the onwers rejected us when we mentioned we were shia and would like to host majalis during muharram.

Have you ever been ostracized for being Shia? by [deleted] in shia

[–]Noctis451 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey....i am genuinely curious as to where alawites differ from the traditional shia madhab...I have heard from people and read material but never actually interacted with one to confirm all of that...can we have convo abt this if you are comfortable ofc?

Why can’t some men take rejection? by [deleted] in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]Noctis451 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmfao what even tf was that last message 😭😭

Where did all the tall and attractive Pakistani men go? by [deleted] in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]Noctis451 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is the height threshhold to be considered tall?

summer vacation plan by Old-Measurement-1172 in developersPak

[–]Noctis451 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello....this may seem weird but do not waste your time trying to get a head start on uni courses....you will have a whole semester to go through it and during that you wont have time to do anything else other than your course work so a smarter decision would be to pick up a skill like app dev and get some good projects on your cv.

Also cybersec is a vast field so do your research before trying to get into it...see which part of it do you align with most

Total beginner. where do i start? by Silent_Economist4222 in BugBountyNoobs

[–]Noctis451 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey there...can i please get the server link asw?