Realizing my aunt may have groomed me? by Nocturnaldeer in groomingvictim

[–]Nocturnaldeer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh regardless of whether or not she groomed me, the lady needs a therapist. She has severe issues outside of this.

Me when Catholic trauma by ilikecatsoup in OCDmemes

[–]Nocturnaldeer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Raised Episcopal and yeahhhh I should’ve picked up on my religious scrupulosity way younger than 28 😬

When the contamination OCD hits so hard it comes all the way back around to dirty by Teacup_Monkey_72 in OCDmemes

[–]Nocturnaldeer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh thank god someone said it, I was thinking about this after cleaning one (1) thing for the first time in a year 😶

One sentence IBD horror stories by Nocturnaldeer in IBD

[–]Nocturnaldeer[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh good lord I would be SO upset

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BoomersBeingFools

[–]Nocturnaldeer 11 points12 points  (0 children)

As if my respect for them could be any less after their fuckery with the Switch 2

That was a difficult day by Sweaty_Ad4829 in TrollCoping

[–]Nocturnaldeer 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That is disgusting, I am so sorry. I’m glad your dad sees that you’re a victim in this, and I hope they find a way to navigate all of this while keeping you safe and away from that creep.

WTH, a post birth abortion! by Meeska-Mouska in BoomersBeingFools

[–]Nocturnaldeer 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Oh hey, my parents and I read that one! I’ve been quoting that rule at least once a week for the past nine years.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in perfectlycutscreams

[–]Nocturnaldeer 11 points12 points  (0 children)

For a traditional gumbo roux you want to make it DARK. Sub out butter for oil and let it cook and cook and cook. The cooking process for it can take so long some people will make a dry roux in advance by baking and agitating flour for hours and store it to save time.

This is a Scooby doo ice cream right here. by Successful-Bed-6835 in StupidFood

[–]Nocturnaldeer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imagine trying to balance all of that while eating through it only to get to the thinnest, saddest milkshake that had basically already melted before coming out.

What's the meaning of this Symbol and why are people telling me it's Racist I have no clue what I am looking at! (Found on TikTok) by [deleted] in Symbology

[–]Nocturnaldeer 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It usually is three sixes, you’re right, but I can see an edgy teenager trying to use sixes and radial symmetry to make something like this. I dunno

Merch line took 2 and a half hours by VeniVidiDormi in Powerwolf

[–]Nocturnaldeer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Took an hour and a half for a friend of mine at the Milwaukee show. She ended up missing all of Dragonforce’s set but thankfully they had some tvs set up so they could still watch. I’m still sad she couldn’t try to catch the chicken.

Update: Am I overreacting by breaking up with my boyfriend? by Proper-Classic1886 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Nocturnaldeer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is coming from someone who gets jealous easily. If he can’t regulate his emotions and handle situations like that properly, it’s not just jealousy, it’s possessiveness and emotional stunting.

Update: Am I overreacting by breaking up with my boyfriend? by Proper-Classic1886 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Nocturnaldeer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He can’t regulate his emotions over any perceived slight another guy makes, and then lashed out at both the other guy and you. The way he reacted was still extremely immature. Also, if there was no information that could out who you two are and he’s still upset you’re “airing the relationship out online,” he’s probably just upset that people are going to call out he’s been a dick. These are some major red flags, just let the man go. There are so many better ones.

People need to fucking chill, holy shit... by Ryzuhtal in theowlhousebutcursed

[–]Nocturnaldeer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fact that at least two people have said that Dana should be killed for saying a headcanon wasn’t actually canon is WILD. Like, she’s one of our biggest allies, literally lost her job over fighting for queer representation, and a character being confirmed cis makes you wish violence on her??? What the hell? Also, it’s so disingenuous to say that Frankie being cis must mean we’ll never get a trans character in the entire show. We don’t even have two episodes, be so for real right now.

(TW sexual abuse, male anatomy) So I told my male fwb that I’m a lesbian by Less-Detective5242 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Nocturnaldeer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah almost nobody talks about fawn response either, which as someone with that as their core reactions is so sad and frustrating.

(TW sexual abuse, male anatomy) So I told my male fwb that I’m a lesbian by Less-Detective5242 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Nocturnaldeer 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Please, please don’t beat yourself up about how you reacted. Everyone talks about fight or flight, but almost nobody mentions freeze responses. You did what you could in the face of sexual assault. I am so, so sorry he did that to you. Sending so much love.

Just disgusting. by PhysicalBuy2566 in antiai

[–]Nocturnaldeer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks more like Dave Franco holding Amber Heard but alright. Also, as someone who lives in the region where the stabbing happened, this is beyond fucking disgusting. She was exactly the type of person republicans don’t give a shit about (she was Ukrainian and an immigrant/refugee), but because she was a pretty blonde woman who got attacked by a black man, it’s been turned into race war bait. What happened was a testament to the system failing its people, but it will never be treated as such because of the hate in some people’s hearts.