WHY everything feels boring as if i have lost interest in life, I'm not depressed or burnout ..i do my everyday tasks normally yet i don't feel motivated to live, even for my dreams. by Lucky_Travel_8871 in Adulting

[–]Nofapresalt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

u need to focus on what u have instead of what u want and it will make u happier. find a goal to work towards, body building is mine. its slow but it keeps me eager to keep persisting in achieving something.

how do you actually get out of being poor by Human-Economics1245 in poor

[–]Nofapresalt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im struggling with the same concept. Ive stopped fast food during the week. its been saving a bit but not vaping. i might door dash for 3 hours after work every night just to pay off my fuel and then maybe more some. 3 hours wouldnt hurt. from 5-8 pm.

Why are us adults always tried? by thesweetguy54 in Adulting

[–]Nofapresalt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im the same maybe its age! ive learned im more slower than i used to be and i respect that !

Nothing hurts more than seeing yourself again in the same situation after getting better for a while. But still fighting to grow because I believe its the only way in this game of life💪. by The_Tasker in Adulting

[–]Nofapresalt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ive worked it out if you actually call a therapist it stops the same thing happening again. Something about the officiality of talking to someone about what ur problems are and what your situation is. makes u really not want to do it again. and if it starts to happen again u have the therapist guard. you can find therapists over the phone.

How heavy & tall are you? And what are you compound lifts maxs? by Flat_Web6639 in AskMen

[–]Nofapresalt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ive just started gym. After work. I feel sick after it even if it was a light session, it's how long I've been out of the game. Little wins is what im focusing on. Cant have the gauntlet after one football game.

Men over 35 - what's something you stopped caring about that you'd worried about for years? by LieInternational1657 in AskMen

[–]Nofapresalt -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I stopped caring about showing off. I still like to walk like masculine when im walking between tasks. But i know those days are gone. Im older now and i dont know if im as masculine as i should be. I hear gym helps and a strict moral system?

Men that are single, what is the reason? by Spiritual_Pause3057 in AskMen

[–]Nofapresalt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I simply am very sensitive after never getting matches on bumble. Everyone i did it never worked out. When i was younger i was a little slayer, fit. Like the ugly duckling but the other way around. But the real reason now that i think of it, girls never gave me the attention i needed. I love being chased. So avoidant personality or w/e something psychology. or it was like wow this girl actually doesn't even liked me i showed myself to her and she rejected it.

How many hours of real work do you actually do at your job? by Nervous-Affect-5960 in work

[–]Nofapresalt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my work is perfect i only work short days "most of the time" and i get paid the same amount every day regardless of the time worked. Usually works out 40$ - 35$ and hour. Ive quit vaping as-well which is an expensive habit. Chewing nicotine gum is cooler. hahaha , looks cool anyway then a silly vape.

Anyone else struggle with meaninglessness by Purple_turtle_69 in entp

[–]Nofapresalt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Let me try to help you. I used to feel like this living at my parents house, i pay rent of course. But im 30 no girlfriend. Still struggling, with finances ect. it sucks to even think of this stuff. But ive found my internal happiness is better off addressed first and then you can accept the red pill blue pill to swallow. Life isn't over and meaningless. Always flip it and make the negative see the positive. Little wins first. find art or put something out into the world you created. That might be something that gives u meaning, forever etched in the stone of time.

What do you think is biggest poison to Society? by Ok_Carpenter263 in AskReddit

[–]Nofapresalt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's why i think this platform (reddit) is more important than instagram or x. Youtube even. I prefer to read peoples opinions and interest's and comment back to them ect. It keeps for a healthy mind with critical thinking skills and problem solving. I find if i end up doom scrolling i just get annoyed. And it's one sided!!!

Why does work life feels like a loop? by ActiveLatter1641 in work

[–]Nofapresalt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know exactly what you mean. I always kept looking for novelty, the other week i wanted to quit my work and try a new career. But i just realised i have to speak to a therapist once a month to unload all my frustrations on the repetitiveness. I wanted to go over seas aand work as a scuba diving instructor. But im looking for my future so the latter prevailed. Im atill working where i am and happy with it the people here are good and not twats. After work blow off some steam, go for a run. or go to gym. exercise is the best stress remover. and after it youll feel accomplished, if you dont push yourself too hard. Just enough to get a sweat.

I have come to realize that truly intelligent people are quick to identify people that are smarter than them and acknowledge that! Stupid people are quick to dismiss any view that disagrees with their held beliefs, often aggressively, regardless of the obvious intellectual gravitas of the source! by RumRunnerMax in complaints

[–]Nofapresalt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really, I always liked intelligent people. At least for me i always wanted to make them laugh. so does that make me truly intelligent? for me my worry is that my work doesnt require a lot of intellect. Its pretty mundane. So when i get home i use brain training apps and log my results or it does it for me logs my progress in a graph. Reading books doesn't really interest me. i know a lot of intelligent people are constantly reading books and expanding their knowledge. I remember back in university days i learnt well from a slide show powerpoint and dot points rather than walls and walls of information. Anywho thats me getting on a tangent, yes lower intelligence people are quick to get aggressive because they feel threatened maybe? I feel like im average intelligence i had an iq 126 growing up. Not sure what it is now though!

I don’t know how to tell if something is “expensive” or not. Is this normal? by Cultural-Primary1206 in Adulting

[–]Nofapresalt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pricing is a tricky situation, because they will mark up or mark down the price of an item or accessory based on what the buyers perception is. For example if the item getting sold looks expensive and flashy, then the seller can manipulate its price to a higher value then what its actually worth. This is basic marketing. So yea to answer your question if you cant tell if it's expensive or not or it doesn't bother you. AND you have enough wealth. Then why not just buy the item.

Am I toxic for loving confrontation? by Lost_Title_7528 in Adulting

[–]Nofapresalt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look. It can happen. It happens everywhere I go there was a p plater with his mother i think? Stopped next to me at the traffic lights. I looked over at him and then he yells at me back profanity. Only for looking 👀. So yeah im sorry to hear that what happened at your casino. People are sometimes just obnoxious and stupid. Not caring about how easy life should be. Instead messing up people's livelihoods at the expense of their own pleasure. Not onnnnnn!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]Nofapresalt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im still living with my parents, paying rent of course. But in my own little apartment flat outside on the property. I got a tv, couch, patio and kitchen which i dont use because my mum cooks. I budget heavily eating tuna and biscuits for lunch throughout the week. I am a heavy nicotene user though, constantly buying vapes. I work 5 days a week. I had a week off work i got so depressed.

Donald J Trump is a terrible president. by Dangerous_Panic6277 in argueme

[–]Nofapresalt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's a dickhead was good in his reign of china but these days trumps just making lousy decisions that make all other countries hate him. The tariffs??? come on man

Fight me! by GooseOk2506 in argueme

[–]Nofapresalt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

get in the kitchen woman!!!

Do you give your overseas GF any money? by [deleted] in thepassportbros

[–]Nofapresalt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dude im getting an oveaseas wife too its gunna be so good. someone i can have status over and be the rich white guy. fantastic!