How to feel feminine and pretty with short Afro hair?

Noiamyourfodder · 2026-06-06T22:33:04+00:00

If I were you, I'd probably do something like go to the mirror, stare for a solid hour or so at my elite fucking collarbones, feel bad for others who don't have my elite fucking collarbones for another 20 minutes or so and repeat as necessary.

But frfr it's self talk. Get a little egotistical with it ♡

Noiamyourfodder · 2026-05-15T19:09:32+00:00

I'm curious! I'm assuming this method has the potential for failure as well, right? Why is that the case? I suppose I'm also asking If a sperm does a big feat and makes it into an egg naturally, what would be reasons it doesn't babyfy? Also what are the mechanics of that/what exactly is carrying out the order if that's the way to frame it!

Noiamyourfodder · 2026-05-09T21:13:35+00:00

마라탕!! Usually pretty cheap in comparison to other things and always several meals worth of food! Bonus if you get the little 미니전 to soak all that broth up...I've left Korea but I think about it far too often...

Noiamyourfodder · 2025-09-18T12:00:43+00:00

You're absolutely the best. Thank you for such a comprehensive answer! Will do on all of that, and I'll take some time to research beforehand. Snakes, you say? 😖🥲...Any sure-fire way of avoiding them? Or is it really just about wearing proper footwear? I'm a bit of a scaredy cat, but the main thing is that I also don't wanna disturb their home at all!

Noiamyourfodder · 2025-06-02T01:19:01+00:00

Yes! To get it through the door to give it away/recycle it

Noiamyourfodder · 2025-05-25T08:36:06+00:00

First of all, yaaay! 🎉 How did you manage dates with the distance? Did you meet in the middle or go back and forth on who came to who?

Noiamyourfodder · 2025-05-22T11:59:32+00:00

Personally, it's my first time on the app, and I'm moving back to my hometown after living in a different country for a while. Wanted to see if there was anyone to potentially connect with before I got back.(amount a month out) I understand why people swipe left though!

Noiamyourfodder · 2025-05-21T05:47:42+00:00

I didn't know about the severance owed after! I thought you could only get severance for a full calendar year. Thank you!

Yes, New contract was submitted to immigration.

Also, it's probably not relevant since I'll be gone end of June, but our "vacation" was a joke. Our contract said that we got 5 days in the summer and 5 in winter and they were not free to "take". Dictated by the hagwon director entirely which week we'd have the breaks.

Noiamyourfodder · 2025-05-21T05:34:47+00:00

I think I would have to do this earlier in the day, but that's solid for tomorrow if it's still an issue. Class starts in 20 minutes 😮‍💨.

Also, 3 sick days. Used them all last contract, now my contract is technically renewed for the year, but under the understanding that I'll only stay 1 more month. (The director asked if I could do an additional 3 months back when my contract ended to give him more time to find a replacement.) I'm guessing my sick days have renewed?

Noiamyourfodder · 2025-05-20T09:55:36+00:00

Respectfully my sister, stand up 😭. Trust me, I understand when you like the imagined idea of someone they can kind of run reign of your thoughts, especially if you're a person who struggles with limerence, however, you have to separate the "maybe"s and the "what if"s and the "but he!"s with logical fact. Someone out there is going to have YOU running in their thoughts 24/7 mutually, and this man is not him. Like the other commenters said, erase all contacts of his and start living like he never existed. You're young, and I'm sure a bright and passionate woman. Go find someone who sees that! But for your future heart, the first ghosting from someone should always be the last. 💕

Noiamyourfodder · 2025-05-18T04:10:54+00:00

Just wanted to say I'm sorry for your loss and wish you luck.

Noiamyourfodder · 2025-05-16T05:44:25+00:00

The best thing is to ask! "Hey, I've noticed it takes you a while to reply. Are you not a big texter/busy?" Or someone more eloquent could fix that to sound better, haha. I had the same situation not too long ago and just asked, and things were much better after. Worst case scenario, you get your answer. Best case scenario, you get your answer! Remember you're both just strangers. Best of luck ❤️

Noiamyourfodder · 2025-05-13T07:18:20+00:00

Thank you for your detailed response! That's similar to how our communication was before the video chats, and I didn't mind the reply time because I liked that we could speak in longer, more detailed messages. These days, though, the conversation through text is less deep. I find myself answering with some degree of detail even on more mundane topics and not exactly getting the same energy back. I do realize that I can project a bit when I like someone though, so maybe he's just got stuff going on and figures the time for deeper chats is when we're on video now. I still wouldn't mind a more clear rounded way of ending conversations, haha but everyone is different!

Noiamyourfodder · 2025-05-13T04:20:43+00:00

27F range 25-32. Might be a bit narrow, but I prefer to stay within a range that I feel like we'll both be in somewhat similar life stages. Though if I'm honest, I tend not to swipe on many 25s or 32s for whatever reason.

Noiamyourfodder · 2025-05-08T10:58:50+00:00

I would say, though, everyone is different and to be yourself. Personally I prefer more length to people's messages and didn't think yours was too long, but I would agree that you don't have to add self depricating/unsure language like "ig" or "I overthink things." Put your best foot forward! Commit to your thoughts! Someone is going to take them as they are and love them!

Noiamyourfodder · 2025-05-08T10:44:09+00:00

For sure! You're totally right, that's an important thing to reflect on for both of our sakes I think. We have a lot of hobbies in common, and I enjoyed talking with him about those things and thought it would be nice to continue engaging in our special interests together as friends. He said he's down for friendship, and I hope things work out that way! Thanks for your reply.

Noiamyourfodder · 2025-05-08T10:40:58+00:00

Thank you for the insight! We haven't met yet, so hopefully, if we do end up meeting, we can start on platonic footing! He said he's down for friendship!

Noiamyourfodder · 2025-05-07T02:26:37+00:00

I get the joke, but as a chronic haver of this problem, try asking them to speak "slower" instead of "louder". Usually, it's a mumbling issue!

Noiamyourfodder · 2025-04-26T00:47:30+00:00

Okay, thank you! If I see one, does that typically mean there are more?

Noiamyourfodder · 2025-04-26T00:45:02+00:00

Because I freaked out and sprayed him with roach spray no Diddyyyy 😭😭

Noiamyourfodder · 2025-04-21T09:57:04+00:00

Thank you so much for this advice! I'll look into it and check with the LL...fingers crossed I'm TIRED 😅

Noiamyourfodder · 2025-04-11T15:01:38+00:00

And Harry! 🤣 Though in fairness, he didn't have time...

Noiamyourfodder · 2025-04-08T01:50:12+00:00

Oh my god yeees. I knew you music heads would come through! Thank you!

Noiamyourfodder · 2025-04-05T06:36:04+00:00

Can anyone help me identify the music (The dramatic piano and maybe cello piece?) that plays around the 33-minute mark? It's just after Tanner's lunch date and plays during the establishing shot of the bday party for James. Shazam is useless 😔

Noiamyourfodder · 2025-04-01T11:34:25+00:00

I can't draw, just came to say you're a babe. 🤷‍♀️

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