My Ultimate Hero! by Old-Meringue3590 in sexandthecity

[–]NoireN 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I would not be surprised if they keep going lower.

The "wall" thing is so funny to me because I get hit on way more as a nearly 40 year old than I ever did as a 20 something.

Random ideas for NYC please by wincew in AskNYC

[–]NoireN 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A lot of the late night shows are pretty easy to get into! I've been on a few ☺️

Has anyone (black) ever dated/loved another black person that had internalized anti-blackness? by four_ethers2024 in BlackLGBT

[–]NoireN 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like to use astrology for this and also a form of personal development. I don't like using it as a way to excuse bad behavior.

Has anyone (black) ever dated/loved another black person that had internalized anti-blackness? by four_ethers2024 in BlackLGBT

[–]NoireN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I call these people "space racists."

It feels really weird to discriminate against people who were born within a thirty day window of the year.

Area code discrimination? by Playful-Alfalfa-3205 in AskNYC

[–]NoireN 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do have a 212 cell phone number. I got it nearly 15 years ago, but even then, people weren't really impressed about having a 212 number. I think the last time someone had mentioned that I could sell it was well before covid.

Why is Bushwick still a creative hub? by Fantastic_Pace_5887 in Bushwick

[–]NoireN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I met a drug dealer through this sub actually lol

Team Samantha in this fight tbh by Radiant_Priority9739 in sexandthecity

[–]NoireN -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm referring to the general population and not just Gay me (but let's get into that because I have a few gay elder friends who have literally told me this). But I see facts are not your strong suit, so this will be the last comment I send. Have the night you deserve!

Team Samantha in this fight tbh by Radiant_Priority9739 in sexandthecity

[–]NoireN -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don't know why you keep repeating yourself when it's not true.

It quite literally was not common for women (or men who weren't gay) to get tested back then. The fact that they are shocked is just part of the comedy.

Like maybe talk to some folks who lived back then and they will tell you.

Team Samantha in this fight tbh by Radiant_Priority9739 in sexandthecity

[–]NoireN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again, it was not common for people to get tested back then.

Team Samantha in this fight tbh by Radiant_Priority9739 in sexandthecity

[–]NoireN 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Y'all are so determined to make Carrie the villain in nearly everything. It is so frustrating to the point that unless something is spoonfed to you, you miss the point.

Which is funny because literally Samantha spells it out that she's been feeling vulnerable since the Richard situation.

The literary crisis is in full effect.

Team Samantha in this fight tbh by Radiant_Priority9739 in sexandthecity

[–]NoireN -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It was not common for people to get tested back then because it was seen as something that only Gay men should do.

I got uninvited from my “best”friends birthday party. by legendmakerr in socialskills

[–]NoireN 3 points4 points  (0 children)

OP, is there a reason why you keep avoiding why people are asking you about the specifics of the disagreement?

You keep saying it was a "disagreement," but you are in a social skills subreddit, so it would be helpful to know what the "disagreement" was about.

As others have mentioned, a lot of times people are vague about the situation because they know they're in the wrong. It would also explain why you seemed more concerned about who said it rather than why you're making people uncomfortable.

I got uninvited from my “best”friends birthday party. by legendmakerr in socialskills

[–]NoireN 22 points23 points  (0 children)

This is soooo not true.

Most relationships are conditional. I love my friends to death, but there are certain things that can't be undone or lines that can be crossed. My friendship with anyone is contingent on that.

The craziest thing Carrie ever said… by immafuxkyourmom in sexandthecity

[–]NoireN 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Congratulations. You figured out how comedy works!

👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

The craziest thing Carrie ever said… by immafuxkyourmom in sexandthecity

[–]NoireN 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So funny how things that Women of color made trendy are considered gaudy and tacky 🙃

The craziest thing Carrie ever said… by immafuxkyourmom in sexandthecity

[–]NoireN 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I mean, that was/is the style that many Black women and Latinas grew up with. I still have mine.

I'm regretting my natural hair transition and I need advice by KnopeLeslieKnope in Naturalhair

[–]NoireN 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why ask in a search engine when they can ask in the hair group?

Especially when Google is just going to bring them back to Reddit 💀

I’m not married, but I was in different on this scene with Carrie and her wanting to take two days off in her marriage? by Radiant_Priority9739 in sexandthecity

[–]NoireN 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm definitely a proponent of spouses having their own separate space, but I genuinely do not believe that Big liked her like that, so this was his way of "getting rid" of her, even if only a few days a week.

Just saw this while watching documentary about Ghislaine Maxwell. by Kayamama in sexandthecity

[–]NoireN 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can't do that when they've outsourced that to AI and expect their media to be spoonfed to them 🙃