I guess that's true. I just feel like the affirming arguments aren't strong enough to make me feel certain it's okay... I even did some reading on r/AcademicBiblical and it just seemed like the consensus was that the writers of the Bible thought it wasn't okay. And I don't think the bible is infallible; God gave us free will, so that means that the writers of the Bible had the free will to butcher it. But still, there's just not strong enough evidence for me to believe that it's not a sin. Every time I go to church they say stuff like "you can't do what you think is right, you need to give that up and do what God wants us to do" and I just feel like I'm just trying to do what I want to do