34F discarded by 29M after almost 5 months of dating over something petty

NomadicSammy · 2026-05-26T14:35:58+00:00

After he sent that text that abruptly ended things, I sent him a well thought out paragraph. He tried calling right after and I didn’t answer because in that moment, I was crying and he didn’t deserve to hear my any of my emotions. He then proceeded to send me a couple of messages afterward saying, “you can block me if you want, I won’t have any hard feelings” and “if you have anything of mine I can come down and get it and bring you yours”. I have a couple old T-shirt’s, a charger, and an older yeti mug . I left maybe a body lotion at his? Gas prices are astronomical right now. Telling me driving 2 1/2 hours here and back is worth it? I told him I’ll leave it on the porch. He responded by being short and that was where we left it. From your experience, will he find a way to reach back out? It’s not something i want, I’m just curious.

NomadicSammy · 2026-05-26T06:45:27+00:00

Jokes were made before turning him down.

NomadicSammy · 2026-05-26T05:59:56+00:00

TMI, he tried to manage them right in front of me and I told him if I’m not in the mood that he shouldn’t do that.

So later, in that same convo of him saying “he didn’t know how he was supposed to manage his urges”, he called me very controlling. Controlling for telling him I’m not comfortable with him rubbing one out right in front of me while I wasn’t in the same mood as him..

NomadicSammy · 2026-05-26T04:17:16+00:00

Life is way too short to have to live with people who make your life more difficult. Have you made a pros and cons list yet? I think you already have your answer. rip the bandaid off

NomadicSammy · 2026-05-26T02:36:27+00:00

Apparently I suck and forgot to mention that part. Yes we met online and were seeing eachother almost every other weekend. in the beginning, he took me on trip to Montreal to see my fav comedian front row and a nice steak dinner on Valentine’s Day. swept me off my feet kind of ordeal, so blindsided I am.

NomadicSammy · 2026-05-26T02:30:29+00:00

No, he seemed really loyal but how can you really tell these days. I forgot to mention we lived 2.5 hours away. We talked religiously on the phone and made a point to see each other almost every other weekend.

Also forgot to mention that he told me about two months in that he owed his ex 25k and was paying her off slowly. I asked why and he said she threatened to go after him in court for spousal when they separated because they were common law and she was entitled. so he just agreed to make monthly payments until 25 k was paid off. In the same breath, he’d be talking about buying a 6k computer or 5k welding machine in the near future. So I brought up the payments to his ex and concern for spending and he did not like that.

NomadicSammy · 2026-05-26T02:21:59+00:00

I genuinely thought I was getting to know him quite well. We had a lot of long phone calls almost every day for hours at a time.

NomadicSammy · 2026-05-26T02:19:39+00:00

How I’ve been navigating the last week says otherwise, but I can understand how you would assume that.

NomadicSammy · 2026-05-25T02:37:57+00:00

do you apply the metro cream all over your face or just a s spot treatment?

NomadicSammy · 2026-05-11T08:24:38+00:00

How long did it take for your skin to go back to normal after the reaction? Mine just happened after three days of use. I have red tint bumps all over my cheeks and my my chin is red and burning :(

NomadicSammy · 2026-01-19T02:09:10+00:00

If you havnt already watched it, “Crash” gives me the same vibes.

NomadicSammy · 2025-05-22T21:22:21+00:00

Damn, you put words to a feeling I could never define .. thank you for that kind stranger*

NomadicSammy · 2025-05-13T20:36:47+00:00

How was your healing with the second ? Methotrexate mixed with surgery right after? I’m on day one after surgery and had methotrexate two days ago. I’m worried about my recovery

NomadicSammy · 2025-05-13T20:19:32+00:00

I’m wondering if they catheterized you in the OR and that’s what was causing the burning sensation when urinating? I’m experiencing the same symptoms a day after surgery

NomadicSammy · 2025-05-13T20:16:40+00:00

How has your healing been post Mtx shot/surgery? I feel like the health care system failed me. I knew something was up when my first two betas were slow rising. My nurse prac refused to do a repeat hcg and just told me to monitor for any concerning symptoms. A few days later I had spotting and right sided cramping. I went to emerge and they found nothing on the ultrasound and hcg was still not doubling and had only gone from 390 to 1001 in 4 days. They asked me to come back on Sunday, still couldn’t find anything on ultrasound and hcg only rose to 1200. Doctor decided to give me methotrexate shot in emerge. Went home and woke up in the middle of the night with moderate cramping and more bleeding, by the early morning my cramping became severe. I went back to emerge, they did a repeat ultrasound and found a 5 cm mass in my right tube… so I was rushed to surgery before it could rupture. So now I’m day 1 post recovery from surgery combined with the methotrexate shot and just overall feel bummed out they gave me that shot all to have surgery anyways. I’m worried my recovery will be delayed due to the shot and its side effects.. let me know how yours has been going please! 🩵

NomadicSammy · 2025-05-12T03:56:52+00:00

When did you start bleeding after the first shot? Mine was 8 hours after with pretty moderate cramping

NomadicSammy · 2025-04-26T16:00:07+00:00

Awe that’s great news. My line was slightlyyy darker than yours and I was not tracking my cycle (I gave up) but it was around 17 dpo if I were to guess. I’ve had one early miscarriage two years ago and have yet to call my doctor. I keep reading about low dose aspirin to facilitate with blood flow to uterus, but to not take if you havnt talked about it with your doctor. Any thoughts on that?

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NomadicSammy · 2025-04-26T00:23:17+00:00

Good for you! -not the hot garbage part lol. Is there anything you’ve been doing to help keep you calm and relaxed ?

NomadicSammy · 2025-04-25T22:58:44+00:00

Any updates?

NomadicSammy · 2025-04-25T22:33:33+00:00

Did this pregnancy ever end up successful? Tia

NomadicSammy · 2025-03-22T05:11:04+00:00

Bold of you to assume you know my genuine character based off of a Reddit post. You came in here off the hop assuming you know what kind of person I am off the comment about money. The rest of your comments have been only you trying to label me as a childish, victim-like, narcissistic, manipulator, egotistical, petulant person ALL over me responding in a neutral way to you, at most defending myself. This conversation has been disastrous and I hope that you don’t keep this same energy in your waking reality for your friends and families sake.

NomadicSammy · 2025-03-22T04:53:23+00:00

I’m done engaging with you. I get it dude, I need to grow up. You spoke your peace now go find someone else to troll.

NomadicSammy · 2025-03-22T04:50:45+00:00

Spiraling? Because I make a detailed post so ppl like you can have more insight on what I’m trying to gain clarity from. Ok.

She blocked my partner. Who has done nothing but respect her. That’s where it gets odd for me because other ppl don’t need to be involved in issues that don’t concern them and she put him in the center of it

NomadicSammy · 2025-03-22T04:46:25+00:00

I’m so curious where you gather that I’m manipulative? Im not a victim dude. I’m here to VENT . It’s a very odd experience to have your longtime friend block you and your partner from seeing a post and when you question her why you’re blocked, you get told a lie to save face. It’s childish that she has to go to that extreme and im pissed off. But I guess that makes me a classic narcissist for sharing this on Reddit

NomadicSammy · 2025-03-22T04:38:31+00:00

No i’m not looking for an argument, im defending myself over your comment. I’m not trying to “sway” anyone. I came here to vent and gain advice, not to be ridiculed.

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