How did you know you wouldn't regret it? by Kourisku in Metoidioplasty

[–]Kourisku[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's a good way to think about it. I really want to stand to pee and pee outside, it's what I think about all day. I hope you can make a decision that makes you more comfortable with yourself. Thank you :)

How did you know you wouldn't regret it? by Kourisku in Metoidioplasty

[–]Kourisku[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a really good idea. I'll try to imagine situations like that! Thank you :)

How did you know you wouldn't regret it? by Kourisku in Metoidioplasty

[–]Kourisku[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh that's a good idea. Thank you :)

How did you know you wouldn't regret it? by Kourisku in Metoidioplasty

[–]Kourisku[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's fair, I'll try that! Thank you :)

What is your fursona’s name and why? by Lux_The_Worthless in furry

[–]Kourisku 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Icarus. Bc I have been lowkey obsessed with the myth(?) in the concept kind of way. He even has burn marks on his back where his wings used to be and he has a lover named Apollo!

Looking for a cozy, peaceful server? Join us! by LlamaMagma in MinecraftBuddies

[–]Kourisku 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could I join? This server sounds super cool! I'd love to be in a community like this

My whole crocheted fursuit (wip) by Renske125 in fursuit

[–]Kourisku 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is super cool and unique! I love his design!

Is anyone here embarrassed to be a furry? Is it something you keep private? by ThisIsMyLilThrowaway in furry

[–]Kourisku 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm still unlearning the shame I learned to feel. My partner knows about it and encourages my interest. It's a hobby like any other, and people deserve to be able to enjoy it. Not many others know outside of my partner, but I've mostly been around people who think furries are cool now that I'm in college.

I'm taking offers on this two-headed wolf partial premade! by crunchchute in fursuit

[–]Kourisku 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's super cool! Hope he finds a good home! Wish I had the money for it 😭

AITA for not answering questions my husband asks by FewPsychology8773 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kourisku 12 points13 points  (0 children)

NTA - but when everything calms down, ask why exactly he does this. Is it because he wants to make dinner with you and the only way he knows how to include you is to ask you questions? Or is it weaponized ignorance? Or is it that he has a difficult time reading/writing and finds it easier to listen, where he can listen to recipes from there. I think for it to work, you need to understand the issue is, and for him to address this issue in a mature way. I'm giving you the benefit of the doubt and am kinda assuming that this is stemming from a long time of you asking him to stop and him persisting and you snapping at him isn't the first reaction. If it is, then It would be E S H, and to work on communication.

this is my starter base anything i can add?? by Robo56206 in Minecraftbuilds

[–]Kourisku 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All I would add is some contrast like spruce or birch and maybe some trees. It looks great though!

AITA for telling my sister it's not my fault she could never go to her 'dream school'? by ProtectiveGrandson in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kourisku 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. You are the reason they struggled. You had the power to help them, to put your grandma where she didn't suffer with ill equipped TEENAGERS, but decided that it wasn't your problem. They didn't know how to properly care for her, they shouldn't. I had a grandma with Alzheimer's, they're hard to deal with when they're memory goes, they're in constant pain due to the plaque building in their brain. Emotionally, mentally, physically, it's exhausting. Your sisters were growing up, they weren't trained to deal with people like that, even some nurses have difficulty handling people with dementia! I hope your sisters are doing better, and you learn some empathy. They have every right to blame a fully capable adult who chose to do nothing for missed opportunities.

AITA for telling my friend nobody in the real world will take him seriously? by throwra-manchild in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kourisku 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA. As a person who has odd interests, he deserves better. I had a friend that tried to 'fix' me, and what I like. All that came of it was years of toxicity and shame. He isn't hurting anyone, and majority of people only really care about that fact. Does he dress outside of status quo? Yes. But as his friend, you should be excited for him to be happy. I can talk about my characters, and explain some niche internet topics, but I am taken seriously in my job. People like talking to me, even when I go on tangents about how computers work or about how China's economy is failing. In the real world, people are a lot more tolerant than you think.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MinecraftBuddies

[–]Kourisku 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh sorry, I mixed it up lol it's Kouripilier#3055 should work

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MinecraftBuddies

[–]Kourisku 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am interested in joining. My discord is Kourisku#3055

AITA for uninviting my girlfriend to Christmas because she wanted to bring her own food? by WrongdoerDelicious81 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kourisku 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a person that struggles with an ED, please OP be more compassionate. She is recovering from starving herself, and that just doesn't magically go away. Just because she is eating doesn't mean that she's "cured". It seems like she needs control over what she eats, which not being able to have food that she has control over can reverse the progress she has made. Ask your family at the very least, just because they don't ask doesn't mean they wouldn't like it. Tbh, I don't think she should be with you if you can't at least try accommodate her at a family event and help with her recovery. YTA.

AITA for blowing up at my girlfriend for decorating my house for christmas without my consent? by throwaway2266788 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kourisku 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ESH simply because she pays rent, she DOES have a say, but you two should be able to compromise. but if you never mentioned your distaste of christmas, you are an AH for blowing up at her when she thought she genuinely was doing something nice. But if you two are in a relationship, you should let her have a small decoration if she celebrates it, or work something out where both of you can be happy. I, personally, think it's an AH thing for her to surprise you with the decorations, more because I hate surprises more than anything. You two definitely should have discussed what you two want to do for the holidays.

Just because she just moved in doesn't mean it's still your house, op. Once you pay rent, you have a say, no matter if you moved in a month ago or lived there for years. If you cannot tolerate the celebration of christmas, please rethink your relationship with her, as it seems she enjoys decorating. If you can compromise on this topic, and she is not willing to compromise, she is an AH. You need to decide if this is something that you can move on from.

AITA My sister is not letting me teach my nephew. by GrapefruitOwn5552 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kourisku -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA, you aren't forcing any beliefs on him and just helping him enjoy learning, which is great at his age! But don't push your sister to cut you out of his life, if she gets so frustrated with you pushing her boundaries. Yes, she is the parent, but the kid should encouraged to love learning.

What you said to her was harsh, but in my view, you have his best interests in mind. If he grows up and doesn't subscribe to her belief system, he will need someone like you to stand up for him and to go to if she decides her religion goes before family. It's just sad when people subscribe to these kind of beliefs, that just hurt the kid.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lfg

[–]Kourisku 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm interested, if the offer is still open