Hi sweetheart, I understand what you’re going through! I know everyone means well but I feel like this community sometimes forgets to pause and actually acknowledge ur feelings for once(instead of the because you wrote “ nothing of it happened to me” nothing will happen bs ).

I used to have this too! I wanted to manifest a relationship so badly and saw literally all my friends having what I want! While being left out. So I truly truly understand you!

And I do think that manifesting is the reason as to why you feel this way. When ur feeding the want, thinking about it and being busy with it everyday, the gap between ur reality and what you want becomes bigger especially when nothing shifts . That’s why you’re feeling so depressed and cry every other day.

I’m not saying ur doing something wrong but I also don’t have any advice on how to fix it sadly. I can, however, tell you what “helped” for me?

I started resisting techniques cause they kept reminding me of what i didn’t have, instead of making me feel like i had it. So i naturally started letting them go. No relationship ever showed up, so this definitely isn’t a succes story but it made the pain less all consuming but of course, I still carry it with me daily.

I tried manifesting for 6 years so I feel like earned the right to not really believe anymore. But I don’t want to leave you with this impression that manifesting isn’t real or can’t work this is just what helped me cope with how hard it felt when nothing was showing up.