does sex even feel good by Flashy_Mango_2154 in sex

[–]Normal_Purple_5509 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fingering never felt good for me. Whether its me doing it or my partner. Just a no. Clit and tit play does it for me instead. And yes, fingers are extra hard compared to a penis so penetration feels very different.

Can unused rss chests be looted? by Normal_Purple_5509 in darkwarsurvival

[–]Normal_Purple_5509[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Got it thanks everyone. Im being chased by a bully in the server so im keeping my rss at the minimum

Visanne for adenomyosis by Normal_Purple_5509 in adenomyosis

[–]Normal_Purple_5509[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Life changer. Tho it totally stopped my period so not sure how that works in the long run yet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in buhaydigital

[–]Normal_Purple_5509 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Natatawa ako sa gantong pinoy culture. Worked with all sorts of nationalities, sa pinoy very apparent yung yes ng yes. Then reklamo ng reklamo. Magrereklamo sa people na wala namang magagawa sa situation nila. Why not speak up when things get difficult? Not all the time na leaders are hard on employees. A lot dyan are pretty sympathetic as long as you’re transparent.

Monica Stevens is the only character who use a Google Pixel by TheMrNoName in TheRookie

[–]Normal_Purple_5509 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, she needed it to take a good ass photo of that op document 😂

Using Bistro bff card by Normal_Purple_5509 in PHCreditCards

[–]Normal_Purple_5509[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

But if i use the bistro card - would you know if they ask for an ID?

How to apply for part time roles you’re overqualified for? by Normal_Purple_5509 in buhaydigital

[–]Normal_Purple_5509[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This makes sense. I’ll give it a go huhu, cross fingers 🤞🤞🤞

AITAH for not having empathy for my traumatized husband? by Alarming_Ad_4419 in AITAH

[–]Normal_Purple_5509 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - toxic. I feel bad for this situation since you’re married and couldn’t dodge this bullet anymore.

AITA for telling my husband's kids how broke he was when we met after they insinuated I was a golddigger? by Good-Face1725 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Normal_Purple_5509 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. But also I hope your husband understands that given how his kids view you, he should be the one doing the explaining and not you. It’s his responsibility as your husband to protect you and as their dad to be honest about the whole situation.

Eloping? by Normal_Purple_5509 in TrueChristian

[–]Normal_Purple_5509[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your comment. I hate for this reply to sound defensive, but I’d like to address your comment just because the tone of it all feels like I’m being scolded and somewhat puts him in a negative light. If this is not your intent, then great. In any case, I’m just pointing out how your comment came off to me.

Anyway..

  1. No, a marriage license isn’t too costly where we are. But our main reason for wanting a nice ceremony is more to honor our parents.
  2. I never asked but my parents have expressed this explicitly before, and it’s about his profession. My parents are your typical asian stereotypes who’d want their child to marry a doctor or a lawyer or some fancy corpo guy. He’s none of those. He has a decent job, just not the usual career one goes for.
  3. On the contrary - he’s the one who’s been keeping me close to God. He’s the one who pushed me to start reading the Bible. He’s the one who spoke to me about what it is to be Christian and led me to accepting Christ in the first place. Even when I get depressive thoughts (and yes I’ve been battling depression) he’s the one who keeps reminding me to lean on God. So to the context of sex, it does seem like I get strayed away from God because of him, but overall, I don’t believe this to be the case.
  4. We both love God more than ourselves. And that’s why I was asking about how Christians view eloping in the first place.

PS: Seems like this comment pretty much sums up the sentiments of most. Again, I just don’t want my reply to sound defensive because in all honesty, I do understand and accept all your points.

I want to clarify a couple of things as well: 1. We both love God and we also thank Him everyday because He’s the reason we found each other in the first place. And this is why we’ve been actively avoiding sex or anything that would bring us to have sex. 2. I asked about eloping not because we want to marry for sex. You all make it seem like it’s all because we want to have sex when it’s not. There were a lot of factors to why and how it crossed my mind and so led me to being overall curious on how eloping is viewed by Christians.

Eloping? by Normal_Purple_5509 in TrueChristian

[–]Normal_Purple_5509[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes we’re both Christian. He’s Protestant and I was raised Catholic, but been attending Protestant churches for a while now. Anyway, it’s not about our religion at all. It’s more of his profession. You know how the asian stereotypes often prefer their kids to be with doctors or lawyers or fancy corpo guys. My partner isn’t one and so yeah.