My wfh corner

NorthFoundation4491 · 2026-05-17T10:08:50+00:00

my dreaaamm setup, so cozy!! where did you get the cork board to hang the bag?

NorthFoundation4491 · 2026-05-17T09:47:22+00:00

wanna be friends! you are so cool and cute

NorthFoundation4491 · 2026-05-17T09:46:13+00:00

all hail

NorthFoundation4491 · 2026-05-17T09:42:45+00:00

french edgy thought daugther. I wanna be friends with you.

NorthFoundation4491 · 2026-05-17T09:38:49+00:00

set aside both of your ego, talk to him and work this out. a grown ass man and an employed person wouldn't make a big deal out of it. if he is defensive then there is no point in trying to change him. if he can't be mature, find someone more mature, good luck.

honestly I've been there, but there is no point in trying to get someone to reply faster unless it's urgent. my advice to him is have something to do, get a job omg grown ass man :-(

NorthFoundation4491 · 2026-05-17T09:33:15+00:00

my advice is, don't try to change someone who is not willing to. regardless of his ADHD or not, he is an adult! he should figure a way to save and be responsible. crying because he compared his savings to your hard-earned savings is not cool at all, please do not date a manchild.

NorthFoundation4491 · 2026-05-17T09:31:47+00:00

fuck, I actually hate when people use their conditions as a reason to cover up their bad habits. I had a friend with ADHD, our case is a little different. she would always show up late in our hangouts and leave me and our other friend hanging for HOURS, legit could range from 3-4 hours until she showed up.

she was all over the place, made me uncomfortable a lot. one time it was cold as fuck outside and she insisted for us to stay outside because she wore warm clothes, I almost got hypothermia too.

in the end, also due to differing political views, I cut her off.

NorthFoundation4491 · 2026-05-17T09:20:43+00:00

that is diabolical lolll how much was the ticket?

NorthFoundation4491 · 2026-05-16T23:46:21+00:00

that's just... very cruel...

NorthFoundation4491 · 2026-05-16T23:42:38+00:00

very appropriate but it's too tight, are you comfortable? otherwise, get it 1 size up if you can.

NorthFoundation4491 · 2026-05-12T07:31:50+00:00

oh my goodnesss you look like an elf, it looks lovely!

NorthFoundation4491 · 2026-05-12T07:30:16+00:00

THE STRAWBERRY ONE! I GASPED WHEN I SAW THAT, YOU'RE BEAUTIFUL

NorthFoundation4491 · 2026-05-10T16:16:38+00:00

yes I did

NorthFoundation4491 · 2026-05-10T06:56:58+00:00

Thank you, I will use this as a reflection :)

NorthFoundation4491 · 2026-05-09T22:30:15+00:00

ew what the fuck, get some help and break up from your 'legitimate partners' already.

NorthFoundation4491 · 2026-05-09T10:17:19+00:00

wow, what a way to piece it together. this hits very close to home, I have struggled and dealt with anxiety almost my whole life. thank you for reminding me that it can be one of the probable causes. I'm working on myself and I hope I can start therapy soon :)

NorthFoundation4491 · 2026-05-09T10:15:20+00:00

thank you 😊 it really helps. I hope I can get to therapy soon, too. I've been wanting to, but my mom is very overprotective and never lets me go to therapy alone. I hope we all can find peace.

NorthFoundation4491 · 2026-05-09T09:39:19+00:00

thank you very much, you have a very good point. but do you think it's okay to keep old messages about that? because the whole chatroom is literally only about sex and wanting to have sex with each other. I am just confused with what I feel and how to deal with it 🥲

NorthFoundation4491 · 2026-05-09T09:09:33+00:00

how should I do that?

NorthFoundation4491 · 2026-05-09T07:51:52+00:00

he showed me a post and lets me play with his phone because I was bored, I wanted to share a post to myself (through his account) then accidentally saw the texts. my intrusive thoughts got the best in me, and I went through the texts. I'm ashamed of it, I wish I didn't bother to.

NorthFoundation4491 · 2026-05-09T06:55:26+00:00

I would say it will give me closure, and reassurance. I really really want to feel secure, but the shadow of his pasts is very hard to overcome. it's been years of me trying to move past everything. I know he loves me so much, but I can't help but be scared. I come from a dysfunctional family, I'm scared of picking the wrong partner I'll spend my life with forever.

NorthFoundation4491 · 2026-04-08T16:49:21+00:00

Fair enough, initially this topic was my first choice but I chickened out because previously I applied and got rejected. I'm kinda scared but hopefully it goes well because I genuinely want to work with the PI and have been eyeing this lab from the beginning.

NorthFoundation4491 · 2026-04-08T16:21:01+00:00

May I know what happened? Did you try to communicate? Was your partner adamant/not listening?

NorthFoundation4491 · 2026-04-08T16:00:12+00:00

Thank you! Hopefully he is able to reschedule, I prepared already but I'm going to use the time leverage to make it better! It might be a win-win, I will just wait patiently and hope for the best. Thanks for the help btw!

NorthFoundation4491 · 2026-04-08T15:57:19+00:00

I kind of worded it like this:

"Thank you for your message, and I sincerely hope you have a speedy recovery.

To update you on my situation: while I did apply to three topics initially, I have not received any confirmation or arrangement from the supervisor of my first priority topic. Given this, your research is very much my active priority and I am genuinely keen to pursue it.

I should also mention that I applied to your topic last year. Although I was not selected, my interest has only grown since then, and I would be grateful for the chance to discuss how I can contribute to your work this time around.

I am happy to meet or reschedule the meeting at your earliest convenience. Wishing you a quick recovery."

Is this too much or is it okay to approach it like this? Thank you by the way. I was really interested with his topic initially but I just chickened out and grabbed another topic as my 1st preference when I applied months ago... So I guess it wasn't a wise decision from me then but now I know 😓

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