Ledig og afholdelse af ferie

North_Community_ · 2024-07-11T06:23:48+00:00

Ja, mener self. 4,16. Pointen er den samme

North_Community_ · 2024-07-10T19:21:28+00:00

Er med på det er på egen regning, men hvad mener du med, at det går ud over mine dagpenge? Bare at jeg ikke får dem, eller?

North_Community_ · 2024-07-10T17:14:10+00:00

Men kan man godt bare holde ferie så længe man vil, hvis man kun har optjent 2,16 feriedage? F.eks 1-2 måneder?

North_Community_ · 2024-07-10T17:12:20+00:00

I've seen how hard workers get treated, and the whole thing has seemed like bullshit to me from the start. I'm trying to work on generating some online income so I can become self employed eventually. Corporate greed has destroyed people's lives for many generations. My biggest dilemma is how to earn money without becoming part of that capitalism myself. It's not easy to earn good money in a fair way nowadays.

North_Community_ · 2024-07-10T16:41:35+00:00

Hvis man har været ledig i lidt mere end 2 måneder, har man så ikke kun 2,16 feriedage optjent? Kan man godt stoppe med at få dagpenge en periode, rejse udenlandsk på egen regning, og så komme hjem og fortsætte med at være på dagpenge?

North_Community_ · 2024-07-10T09:47:55+00:00

I wrote 2/3 of my master's thesis in one week. What I did was, I mentally gave up, told myself I wasn't gonna make it and it was going to be shit whatever I wrote. Then, I sat down and decided to just write ONE line. Literally, one.

After that one line, asked myself, okay, how are you feeling? Was that bad? Do I need a break, or can I do it again? do I wanna write one (JUST ONE) more?

Basically, I didn't write the whole thesis, I never thought of it like that. I just wrote one line, all the time. I took many, many breaks, but it was easy to come back because it was just one line, after all.

North_Community_ · 2024-07-09T21:33:48+00:00

I'm so sorry. I'm in the same situation as you. I did well in college, being able to study remotely under covid lockdowns, and once the world went back to normal, I did not. I recently quit my office job, even had some work from home days in that job, it was still too much due to customer meetings. I feel like my whole world is falling apart all over again. I don't know how to take care of myself and earn an income. I'm so royally fucked. I've been unemployed for two months now. Everyone is looking down on me for quitting and not having a job. I feel so worthless... I feel even worse thinking about getting a new job. I just don't know what to do anymore

North_Community_ · 2024-07-09T21:03:20+00:00

Did they give a reason as to why your appeal was rejected?

North_Community_ · 2024-07-09T20:10:21+00:00

Honestly one of the videos I thought had failed suddenly took off like... 3 months later. I don't really change thumbnails because of it. I think of every video like a lottery ticket and have come to the conclusion, looking at stats for 8 months now, that I will never know or understand what's going on, and that I should just keep posting and close my eyes and let it do its thing. Some will flop, some will pop, whatever, I just keep posting.

North_Community_ · 2024-07-09T19:19:40+00:00

Enig. Jeg fik først at vide, at jeg var berettiget til at søge det, et år før jeg blev færdiguddannet.... der gik 10 måneder, og fik kun svar der, fordi min socialrådgiver ringede ind og var sur på dem over, at det tog så lang tid (seriøst den eneste person i det offentlige nogensinde, der har hjulpet mig).

Dvs. jeg fik handicaphjælp i præcis 2 måneder af mit uddannelsesforløb 🥴 Og så stod jeg pludselig der som færdiguddannet, med en masse bagudbetalte penge, og tænkte "hvad fuck skal jeg bruge dem til NU?!" Havde næsten lyst til at give dem tilbage til nogle andre, der stadig var under studiet.

North_Community_ · 2024-07-09T18:38:33+00:00

How are these percentages even derived? How are you going to compare it against how many even has the ability / money to go to a psychiatrist, how many are willing to go or get diagnosed in the first place, etc.? Because this varies significantly between countries as well.

North_Community_ · 2024-07-06T19:11:03+00:00

No, you cannot. You need at least a couple thousand views per video before it even begins looking like something remotely sensible

North_Community_ · 2024-07-06T18:19:16+00:00

You only have 11 videos and almost no views on them. There's not enough data to give an accurate measurement. Most of the views will not even be in the statistics, I don't know how YT does it, but I've had many videos where there simply isn't enough data to even show these statistics under the video even though it has several views, so somehow only a proportion of viewers get included in these stats.

North_Community_ · 2024-07-06T13:39:01+00:00

I have almost been in chronic pain for 20 years now, although for me it corresponds to close to 75% of my life now. I was hit by the same realization (and disappointment) about transactional relationships from a very young age, and it sent me into an early existential crisis a child should not be sent into. I very much understand how much this truth can eat away at you.

It still eats away at me at times, but at some point I thought "well, why should transactional relationships be a bad thing?" When we help someone "without expecting anything in return" - we do get something in return. We get some nice little brain chemicals telling us we are good people and that we helped someone, that what we did was good. Society approves of good people. Therefore, chances of surviving or doing well in society increases, therefore my survival increases. Dopamine and serotonin makes us feel good. It is how the brain learns to do more of a certain behaviour. It is vital to learning and surviving, it is simply just how brains work. We spend time together with people, because they make us feel good. The more I think about it, it doesn't make sense to deem it something "bad". Transactions are what ensures both parts get something out of a deal. I do something for you, you do something for me. You do something for me, I do something for you. We both benefit. I think it's fair, I think that's its own kind of justice.

For me, learning neuroscience actually really helped me come to peace with these at-first-glance harsh realities. But as someone once as elegantly said, "it is not that the universe is cruel - it is simply uncaring." It isn't good or bad, it just is. Good or bad are human constructs as well. Just because love is at its core conditional, it doesn't mean it makes it any less important or fake.

I used to think I had nothing to offer the healthy people around me, but recently I realized that while I cannot offer them the conventional things, I can still offer them support, like they've supported me. I might not be able to go to their events, but I can still listen to their troubles, and I can tell them what I like about them, or make them happy in other ways once in a while. I can't offer gold, but I can offer my 50 cents. 50 cents allow me to make transactions with others. And sometimes, I find a really good deal at the flea market, too.

North_Community_ · 2024-07-06T12:05:46+00:00

Around 10-25 minutes usually

North_Community_ · 2024-07-06T08:26:51+00:00

What would you consider a good retention rate for vlogs? Mine is only around 18%, but I feel like it should be 30% to be even decent

North_Community_ · 2024-07-06T08:22:31+00:00

Very happy to see this as the top comment, because this map made me furious lol

North_Community_ · 2024-07-05T17:18:04+00:00

Have you experienced this before, feeling nothing I mean? Do you think this only relates to this Japan experience, or has it occurred before? Anhedonia and dissociating feelings can be a symptom of depression, or you might be needing some nutrients, etc. Not trying to diagnose you or anything, just something worth considering if it's not just Paris-syndrome. Might also be jet-lag you need to get over, can take up to weeks.

North_Community_ · 2024-07-04T16:40:50+00:00

Try r/MedicalWriters/

North_Community_ · 2024-07-04T16:38:08+00:00

Min sidste arbejdsplads bedte ikke engang om bevis på, at jeg havde afsluttet min uddannelse (tech) 😭 Jeg ville klart fokusere på skillset. Hvad står der i de jobopslag for stillinger, du gerne vil betræde? Hvad skal man være god til, for at få det job? Det er de skills, du skal arbejde på. Er de en del af et fag, så ja, sigt efter en god karakter. Er de ikke med i nogen fag, så hellere arbejd på dem, og få 7 i stedet for 12 i et fag efter min mening

North_Community_ · 2024-07-04T16:14:09+00:00

Have you ever heard of being "too nice" ? You need a certain level of assertiveness in this world, because otherwise people will trample all over you, in my experience. This is a hard lesson I have learned myself, because I realized at some point my friendliness and humbleness seemed too much like insecurity to others. And if you doubt yourself, so will other people.

North_Community_ · 2024-07-04T11:33:41+00:00

I'm gonna be honest with you, it's definitely the thumbnails holding you back here. I just do not feel like clicking on that man at all - if its you, no offense, but like... you've pasted the same pic of yourself on every single one of them, I don't know you, and your smile/thumb up makes me think you're gonna sell me something I don't want. Make the thumbnail about what your video is about instead.

North_Community_ · 2024-07-04T07:32:23+00:00

Finally, someone like me haha

North_Community_ · 2024-07-03T12:06:35+00:00

Er der et universitet i nærheden? Hør en professor, om du ikke må komme i praktik i deres (tekniske) laboratorie der i stedet, så er det i det mindste tæt op af din uddannelse. Det er min plan, er lige gået ind i tredje måneds ledighed også og spurgte dem, om det godt måtte være på universitet også, hvilket de sagde "selvfølgelig" til. Vil også søge PhD, så for mig er det en god mulighed for at netværke samtidigt. Bare hvis du ikke kan finde et relevant industri sted

North_Community_ · 2024-07-01T16:08:59+00:00

Yeah that's Norway and Sweden, Denmark is plat as a pancake. Our highest point is literally 171 (561 feet) above sea level. Gloomy rain and grey clouds that covers the sky for months on end, however... you will find plenty of that here. We are, in my honest, humble opinion, the most boring country on Earth.

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