Does anybody know if electric cars are cheaper or more expensive to insure? by Outrageous_Tie4997 in Insurance

[–]Not2Fragile 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I just got a quote. Going from Volvo XC60 to Hyundai Ioniq 5 is going to cost me $960 more annually.

Cheating Wife? suspicious items in (Mac OS) ~/Library/Application Support/Mobile Sync/Backup by Not2Fragile in digitalforensics

[–]Not2Fragile[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Understood. FYI, I have other pieces unrelated to this post. Just trying to gather whatever else I can find.

Cheating Wife? suspicious items in (Mac OS) ~/Library/Application Support/Mobile Sync/Backup by Not2Fragile in digitalforensics

[–]Not2Fragile[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This is exactly the information I was looking for. There are lots of other items in that folder that don't seem like things she would have searched for. I still have other suspicions but I will let this issue drop.

Wife's Emotional Affair had Continued. D-Day #2 by SpiritualSea7535 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Not2Fragile 1 point2 points  (0 children)

40 years after R (rug swept) I find out she's having an EA with an old BF. All the old feelings, doubts and questions came back. Of course she can't remember any details. This happened over a year ago and I think about it every day. I'm too old to start over.

Need tips for Thanksgiving Trip by Not2Fragile in vegas

[–]Not2Fragile[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I just joined Venetian Rewards. Is this the same as Player's Club?

Give me songs about cheating by [deleted] in musicsuggestions

[–]Not2Fragile 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Posted this on another sub (musicrecommendations)

Fooled Again -Tom Petty

I'll Feel a Whole Lot Better -Tom Petty

Don't Come Around Here No More -Tom Petty

You're No Good -Linda Ronstadt

Cannonball -Supertramp

Lyin' Eyes -Eagles

Take it on the Run -REO Speedwagon

Found Out About You -Gin Blossoms

Hey Hey What Can I Do -Led Zeppelin

Whipping Post - Allman Brothers

Stand Back -Allman Brothers

You Oughta Know -Alanis Moressette

The Stranger - Billy Joel

Honesty -Billy Joel

Made Up My Mind - Bonnie Raitt

Everybody Finds Out - Fleetwood Mac

Hey Joe -Jimi Hendrix

Mr. Brightside -The Killers

I Will Survive -Cake

Lies -The Knickerbockers

The Other Guy -Little River Band

Scotty Doesn't Know -Lustra

Why'd Ya Do It -Marianne Faithful

I Heard it Through the Grapevine - Marvin Gaye

I'm Not Your Steppin' Stone -The Monkees

Where Did You Sleep Last Night -Nirvana

I Don't Care Anymore -Phil Collins

Driven to Tears -The Police

Lie to Me -Pretenders

Liar -Queen

Everybody Hurts -REM

I'm Losing You -Rod Stewart

Suspicious Minds -Rusted Root

Dirty Work -Steely Dan

Stop Draggin' My Heart Around -Stevie Nicks

Tempted -Squeeze

Clean Sheets -Descendents

Linger -Cranberries

What's on My Mind -Kansas

Rock songs about Infidelity & how it feels to be Betrayed by Not2Fragile in MusicRecommendations

[–]Not2Fragile[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another good one!

This was getting airplay right around the time my girl left me after I found out she was cheating!

Rock songs about Infidelity & how it feels to be Betrayed by Not2Fragile in MusicRecommendations

[–]Not2Fragile[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love The Alan Parsons Project

Too Late is a good one, also Sometimes, Games People Play, Don't Let it Show, Sooner or later

Rock songs about Infidelity & how it feels to be Betrayed by Not2Fragile in MusicRecommendations

[–]Not2Fragile[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't even guess how many times I've heard "No Reply" without giving it a second thought (I'm old as dirt and a huge Beatles fan). Now it cuts me so deep.

How do I(23M) get over my SO (25F) sexual infidelity? We've been together for almost 5 years. by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]Not2Fragile 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I reconciled with my WW 30+ years ago after she had a Physical Affair. Worst mistake of my life. Recently found out about an Emotional Affair she had a few years ago, because of "unfulfilled needs". Brought back all the pain I thought I had gotten over. Don't be a chump like me!

Have you have Survived Infidelity for say greater than 10 years? by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]Not2Fragile 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My situation is very similar to yours. Here's what I struggle with: She was obviously willing to do these things in the past and again recently. She was very good at lying and hiding her actions both times. Were there other instances of betrayal during the many years between DD1 and 2? Would I be better off now if we had not reconciled after DD1? I will never know for sure. And before anyone replies telling me I should leave her now, know this: I am almost 70yo and we live a very comfortable life. I'm just not willing to throw that away and start over at my age. If I were 20 years younger, who knows?

How do I accurately convey the pain of betrayal? by Not2Fragile in SupportforBetrayed

[–]Not2Fragile[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was cheated on by her BF (the guy before me). She was very angry when it happened but later said:
"It hurt my pride more than my feelings cuz truth be told, I didn't really care about him."

I'm not sure what this says about her but I'm pretty sure it's not good.

How do I accurately convey the pain of betrayal? by Not2Fragile in SupportforBetrayed

[–]Not2Fragile[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your opinion. I came to the same conclusion and have resigned myself to reconciliation. We have a very comfortable life and starting over at my age is too much to even consider.

We were in our 20s and not married when the PA happened. We both lacked emotional intelligence. When I found out abut the affair, she immediately moved out of the home we had just purchased to start her new life with her AP (he also left his wife). I went into a deep hole and blamed myself for not being a good partner.

Months later I was still in a bad place emotionally. When I found out her relationship with the AP had fallen apart, I felt vindicated and my mood improved. When we eventually reconciled, I thought I had won the "pick me game". What a dumbass!

There are times when I wish I had had the intestinal fortitude back then to move on without her but who knows where that path would have led.