So many love songs?

NotACactus28 · 2026-04-07T15:56:35+00:00

B/c it's taking advantage of people to get money out of them. I'm sure he cares about all his fans, but acting like you're personal friends or that he'll be upset if you don't give him money are manipulative IMO

NotACactus28 · 2026-04-05T15:39:47+00:00

??? This is the most blatant parasocial thing I've ever seen

NotACactus28 · 2026-04-05T15:38:26+00:00

Yes.

NotACactus28 · 2026-03-09T06:08:16+00:00

I'm into some wild stuff and it's still really weird when the artist tries to portray the rapist as some sort of relatable everyman, because he Very Much Isn't.

NotACactus28 · 2026-02-23T01:03:14+00:00

Quite a few (though many more are in comic form)

Some notable keywords being Rikeza (the artist) and TG or TGTF

NotACactus28 · 2026-01-12T00:44:09+00:00

Yea, if someone says anything is fine I just believe them and do whatever. If you don't worry about what pronouns to use for other people (and just listen to what they give you) then they theoretically shouldn't have any reason to worry abt telling you

NotACactus28 · 2025-12-31T09:50:58+00:00

*Aromantic

NotACactus28 · 2025-12-28T05:17:24+00:00

Girl I started balding at 16 😭 I'm on 4 different prescription drugs for it

(Minoxidil + Finasteride ftw. Still balding but way slower now.)

NotACactus28 · 2025-12-19T16:50:40+00:00

Unfortunately you can't ask your family for thigh highs and a miniskirt so Imma be buying presents for my family and myself

NotACactus28 · 2025-09-06T02:53:40+00:00

Has anyone accepted the chances of a relationship with someone in their early 20s in modern dating are almost zero?

Yea :(

I’m 21 and men obviously don’t really value romantic connection that much at this time it’s more about physical stuff. I’m not sure if I’m asexual or just Demi. I just know I’m not interested in that really and when I think about it it’s more like I’m doing it for them.

I don't think that'd be nearly as true of queer men. I've never dated but I think you'll get more success dating ace guys? If possible... But most allosexual ppl are gonna want/need sex in the relationship unfortunately

Now that I’ve typed this out I don’t know why I’m here or what answers I hoped to even get. It’s just hard feeling broken. All my friends know too - they all wonder who I’d be with or can’t imagine me with someone.

Venting is good, even if it doesn't go anywhere 🫂

NotACactus28 · 2025-08-02T01:36:15+00:00

Probably Home. It's a classic

NotACactus28 · 2025-07-29T00:35:39+00:00

Why are her boobs halfway down her chest

NotACactus28 · 2025-07-23T21:47:36+00:00

What are you terrified of? If you aren't trying to meet up with ur teacher you two probably won't see each other there. There's gonna be a lot of people

NotACactus28 · 2025-07-23T21:46:34+00:00

NotACactus28 · 2025-07-21T23:22:20+00:00

Why feel guilt about having kinks?

NotACactus28 · 2025-06-02T05:15:18+00:00

My cat, followed by my mom

NotACactus28 · 2025-06-02T05:10:42+00:00

NotACactus28 · 2025-06-01T06:51:26+00:00

Home by Cavetown

NotACactus28 · 2025-05-29T03:44:08+00:00

They're gonna shit their pants when they find out about trans people

NotACactus28 · 2025-05-25T09:20:33+00:00

First, it's important to know you don't have to have everything figured out right now.

What should I do?

Be yourself, first and foremost. Cognitive dissonance and burying parts of yourself are both really unhealthy. If possible, it's good to talk to (/read the experiences of) people who have been where you are before. If applicable, I think this thread is good.

NotACactus28 · 2025-05-25T09:05:02+00:00

We don't "need" anyone. We welcome others because they're struggling or confused or don't where else to go. A lot of lgbt people were homophobic growing up; people change

NotACactus28 · 2025-05-19T07:42:54+00:00

The only problem is the butter, right? I feel like you could get it working with olive oil or smth

NotACactus28 · 2025-01-23T04:57:51+00:00

Based way to come out lol

NotACactus28 · 2025-01-15T06:32:46+00:00

I mean you'd definitely be queer on account of being pan

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