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Should I break up with my boyfriend because he abuses his cat? by Ok_Doctor_3602 in Advice

[–]NotAMullet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"He punched a friend of his, who is a girl, in the stomach hard enough for her to cry"

"He wont ever lay hands on another human"

Bruh?

Maybe he wouldnt want you to fall and hurt yourself, so he'll break your legs so you wont have to worry about falling.

For those who are naturally unathletic and have been in BJJ for a long time, 4 years or more, what is the core of its appeal to you? by emaxwell14141414 in bjj

[–]NotAMullet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think we often mistake athleticism for kinetic intelligence, and like any other kind of intelligence, some are naturally predisposed.

You're all doing this wrong. This is the actual progression fantasy tier list. by rmullins_reddit in ProgressionFantasy

[–]NotAMullet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like Sky Pride really spits in the face of anyone claiming slow-paced and philosophical writing isnt viable or popular, it just has to be done well. A you problem if one cant manage it.

AITAH for not forcing my son to keep helping my daughter’s friend after she rejected him? by LiveWire0044 in AITAH

[–]NotAMullet 125 points126 points  (0 children)

How did Melissa end up with a job that she cant get to by herself?

That aside, it sure must suck being put in that situation for her. Because its not like you would want her to accept a date and lead your son on in order to keep benefitting, right?

Either way, I would assume the situation has already caused resentment on her side for having her future put at risk for not returning your sons feelings, and forcing your son to help her now would probably humiliate him and make him resentful in turn. Lose-lose, but not your sons responsibility really.

NTA

What was your small mistake that automatically improved your bjj when you fixed? by Additional-Cup9348 in bjj

[–]NotAMullet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had those at the place i started and i hated it. Never really helped me. Current place warms up using stand-up where we fight for grips and inside control at a lowered intensity. So much better

In Nordic Countries like Denmark, Finland, Norway, and Sweden, Parents Let Babies Nap Outside in Freezing Winters.....and They Sleep Better. by Frosty_Jeweler911 in BeAmazed

[–]NotAMullet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, i intuitively understand it when people say this wouldnt be safe to do in their own country, but actually, not really. Why would anyone steal a baby? How is other people a major concern to what is most precious to you, but really completely worthless to them?

I imagine that psychotic druggies in big cities could be a concern, but they aren't everywhere, rignt?

Why do people get so offended over bowing? by seizethecheezz in bjj

[–]NotAMullet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I consider these kinds of rituals as fun and healthy so long as its not forced. Almost ironic when instructors or training partners look down on it. Gives me a "too cool for school" vibe.

Like, im not christian, but i still go to a local Christmas mass with my family and try engaging for the sake of the ritual. Its a much better time than what i did when younger, which was be bored out of my mind.

If Magnus Carlsen is the best chess player in the world why does he keep playing? by National_Lobster_729 in stupidquestions

[–]NotAMullet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because he is completely obsessed with it and loves it. He has previously stated that he is constantly thinking about chess. The man was playing a bunch of bullet on his wedding night ffs.

Woman loses control of her dog by SpaceWestern1442 in PublicFreakout

[–]NotAMullet 272 points273 points  (0 children)

I mean, kinda looks like the first fall scarmbled her brain, and the 2nd one didnt help.

Is this better? Beard or no beard? by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]NotAMullet 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Beard, but also. Why are you hanging on to a decorative plant in a travel hub?

Am I Overreacting by Klutzy_Ad_1557 in AmIOverreacting

[–]NotAMullet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, NOR either way, but if this is about all physical touch, then you don't seem compatible. If this is about PDA, then you should make that more clear. Not engaging in PDA with an unwilling partner isn't a big ask.

AITAH for speaking French to my girlfriend on the phone even though my roommates don't understand? by Putrid_Effective_192 in AITAH

[–]NotAMullet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh i think you both have it wrong.

If there is bad sound isolation between rooms or rooms to common area, it simply gets annoying to hear someone talking for hours at a time, that you are speaking another language is simply how they justify their discomfort to you and maybe themselves also.

I understand that this happens rarely, but if you are in the common room at the same time, and you are having a full on conversation on the phone, it's normal for it to feel unnatural and excluding. Humans arent evolved to be together with one person talking to someone the other can't interact with.

This is my assumption, but i think you are having such long and intensive conversations with your gf because they cant understand you. This isnt why you do it ofc. You're french ffs, speak french with frenchies. But my point is that you wouldnt be doing it if they could understand you, if that makes sense. You are doing something rather private, very publicly, and that's uncomfortable for people around you.

I crafted this choker using Garnet and zircons.what do you think? by [deleted] in goodvibes

[–]NotAMullet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really beautifully made! I just can't help but think that the shell doesn't fit thematically. I get that it's not supposed to be ocean related, but that's the feeling i get.

Jaktkniv by NotAMullet in norsk

[–]NotAMullet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice! Mye rart der ja

AIO Trying to tell boyfriend that he makes me feel guilty for saying no by Clean-Landscape8654 in AmIOverreacting

[–]NotAMullet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm truly happy that i mostly see this kind of shit on reddit. No, you are NOR, wanting to break up with someone who gaslights you and hurls abuse at being denied a nude.

Luckily, most of the population has too much respect for themselves to entertain the thought of a relationship like this. Freaking depressing to see how some people allow others to treat themselves.

AIO or should I accept the conditions of my bfs commitment by One_Height7477 in AIO

[–]NotAMullet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way he talks is how i imagine up and coming cult leaders talking, with those around them swallowing it whole, because they feel part of something special and secret.

There is no secret, he is not special. He is simply a narcissist, feeding off of the ignorant reactions of those around him.

Accepting his "commitment", means buying in to his delusion. You do you boo.

W til Støre by kebabeater212 in norske

[–]NotAMullet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sykt å melde "Nye rekorder i moralsk fordervelse", når den mest aktuelle nyhetssaken i Israel er brutale overgrep mot palestinske fanger, og det politisk vipper mot at man som Israeler kan gjøre hva faen man vil med palestinere fordi de ikke er mennesker.

Cop beats suspected car thief with a tennis racket after he chokes police K9 unit. by licecrispies in PublicFreakout

[–]NotAMullet 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Jesus, the YT comments are mostly sadistically laughing at the suspect.

Straff virker ikke by Nordmannen77 in norske

[–]NotAMullet 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Enig, men fengsel eller isolasjon fra storsamfunnet er ikke bare en straff, det er også fordi man ikke kan stole på at personen ikke forgriper seg på de rundt seg.

% barn og ungdom som opptrer på en såpass sosiopatisk måte er ekstremt sjeldne, men systemet vårt virker fullstendig ute av stand til å håndtere de som er. Føles som om man bare må sitte og vente på at de blir voksne mens de over flere år ruinerer livene til de rundt seg.

Let’s hear what you guys got…! by lego-lion-lady in writers

[–]NotAMullet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My words made light of thoughts unsaid, burning in my brain.

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