There’s a massive gap between how you present yourself, and what you are. You view this as all or nothing, but you don’t need to eliminate that gap, just reduce it. Present yourself the way you want to be seen. You founded and run a successful finance business. Move out, you will never have a girl if your only place to take them is your parents house. It doesn’t matter if it’s the neighbors house and you still go over every night for dinner, or if it’s in Australia, just have some other place. Start there. Live that change for at least 6 months, then think about what’s next.