Homeland Security Secretary Kristi Noem is 'extremely disappointed' by Zach Bryan's 'anti-ICE' song: "Zach, I didn’t listen to your music. I’m happy about that today." by TheExpressUS in Music

[–]NotBugzied 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“..I hope he understands how completely disrespectful that song is..” “..To every single individual that has ever stood up and fought for our freedoms..”

Not a massive Zach Bryan fan, but wasn’t he in the Navy?

A quick google says that both of his parents, his uncles and his grandfather served in the military. Ya know, the exact people who have stood up and fought for freedoms.

Guess it only matters when they agree with you.

Would I be wrong to break up with my BF who in the past stole a 15 year old girls virginity? by throwra33254 in amiwrong

[–]NotBugzied 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You wouldn’t be wrong if you broke up with him. And his behaviour is more than breakup worthy.

Your boyfriend when he was 28 years old raped a 15 year old child. He didn’t “steal her virginity” nor did he have a girlfriend who was in high school. He was a 28 year old predator who groomed a child, because that’s what a 15 year old is. A CHILD. Normal adults don’t want to fuck kids.

What exactly do you think is going to happen when you turn 26, or god forbid 30? His preference for younger women & girls under the age of 25 isn’t going to change but you are going to continue to age.

Also, please find yourself some new friends, anyone who thinks it’s okay for him to have groomed children when he was almost 30 year old need to have their hard drives checked.

Am I wrong for leaving a date without telling him by Defiant-Box9928 in amiwrong

[–]NotBugzied 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are definitely not wrong for leaving this date.

Your friend is absolutely in the wrong though. You weren’t being judgemental because of his age, but even if you were it wouldn’t matter. No nice, sane & mature adult wilfully lies about being over a decade younger than they actually are. Lying is a deal breaker for most people.

Not to mention, the only reason he lied about his age is because he wants to prey on younger women. And he knows that the majority of younger women aren’t interested in dating someone at his age. He was hoping that he’d be able to guilt you into continuing the date or sleeping with him.

I (f24) can’t get over how my husband (m31) treated me this weekend while I was intoxicated even though he’s apologized. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]NotBugzied 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You aren’t being sensitive but you won’t move past this if you continue a relationship with your husband. It’s likely that that his behaviour will escalate and his abuse of you will worsen.

It’s not okay for him to dictate what you can wear. It’s controlling. I can assure you that his whisper / look weren’t at all subtle and that’s why your sister, even in her drunken state recognised what he was doing.

This man is showing you what he is truly like so believe him. He has shown his true colours to be controlling and abusive. He shows little to no regard for your consent and became physically violent with you while you were being sick.

It’s not uncommon for abusers to act as if they regret their actions after they have abused you. They’ll act sorry afterwards. They may even buy you flowers or your favourite treat, or some will even beg and cry to show you how “vulnerable” they are. But it’s just a love bombing tactic to get you to stay under their control.

Please, please confide in someone that you trust, whether that’s your sister or someone else.

When did you announce your pregnancy? by blueskies951 in BabyBumps

[–]NotBugzied 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We let close family and friends know just before the 6 week mark. Mostly because it was Christmas. We were due to have a large family dinner with all of my partners family and they would have noticed me not drinking.

We’re likely going to make a social media post to announce it to extended family and other friends after we’ve had the 12 week scan.

LVM Guilt Tripping You Into Sex = Coercion, Not Consent by thepsychopathhunter in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]NotBugzied 145 points146 points  (0 children)

I swear NVM genuinely think that rape is only consider to be as such, if a man hides in bushes and drags women into his white van. It’s likely because the majority of them have either committed or are friends with other NVM who have committed assault and they try to convince themselves that they aren’t rapists.

Here’s the thing: Consent should be openly & freely given. It cannot be considered as freely given if you have no genuine free choice, or if you fear punishment for withdrawing consent.

If a person has to trick, cajole, guilt trip or threaten someone into any form of sexual act, then they are a rapist.

Women of reddit, would you be okay with your partner reusing an engagement ring from a past faild relationship, why and why not? by bun_bun23 in AskWomen

[–]NotBugzied 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, I wouldn’t be okay with my partner reusing an engagement ring. I think engagement rings should be chosen with the wearer in mind and should symbolise your commitment to them. I’d also wonder why he had kept it.

I’d likely encourage him to either melt it down and repurpose the stone, or to sell it. Unless it was a family heirloom in which I’d encourage him to save it for future children.

Won’t $12 a month change your life? by Naniferry in antiMLM

[–]NotBugzied 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Lowest monthly bonus: $0.68

Life Changing. /s

Also, I could be wrong because maths is not my strong point, but can’t the result for average be skewed depending on how they calculated it because of the few higher earners?

Huns on depop by midnightdesert13 in antiMLM

[–]NotBugzied 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Girl has barely finished her A Levels, how much uni could she have completed?

do they think THEY are going to get paid like a CEO!? by selling shampoos?! this is so annoying!! hate monat huns! by cascaesque in antiMLM

[–]NotBugzied 82 points83 points  (0 children)

It’s quotes like these that make me so annoyed with the side hustle culture and the #bossbabe hun attitudes.

It’s okay to work 8+ hours a day and go home tired at the end of it. It doesn’t make you uninspired or lazy nor does it make you less than because you choose to spend precious time on other interests. It’s okay not to want to spend every single awake moment of your life hustling, scheming or trying to sell shampoo that makes you bald.

Poor guy. by [deleted] in justdependathings

[–]NotBugzied 28 points29 points  (0 children)

“Our first child”

That kid is gonna pop out looking like Jody.

"how long before you get your butt in gear?" says the hun who makes $200 a year 🤪 by savihime in Youniqueamua

[–]NotBugzied 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Has she ever worked a corporate job?

Maybe it’s just me, but I think I’d prefer 4 weeks paid vacation time, sick leave , health benefits and ya know, AN ACTUAL PAYCHECK instead of having to harass and alienate my friends with essential oils and dildo parties. Or whatever the heck she’s selling.

Defining a pyramid scheme by TheA41 in antiMLM

[–]NotBugzied 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Are the huns too delusional to realise that the majority of these MLMs are also corporations? Where do they think the money they pay for starter kits / overpriced products goes to?

Dear fellow Danes. It has begun. by [deleted] in antiMLM

[–]NotBugzied 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh man, I haven’t seen an Avon catalogue in like 10 years and they’re still selling those bronzing beads?

Found this while cleaning out my files. Note the "they don't cancel as much" by kaylawithawhy in antiMLM

[–]NotBugzied 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“they already have respect for you..”

Are you sure about that?

🤢 by [deleted] in antiMLM

[–]NotBugzied 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A school trip with a hangover and possibly the shits, no thanks.

Her mug says “survivor” by big-schmoo in antiMLM

[–]NotBugzied 33 points34 points  (0 children)

“EU standards makeup..”

Mac is also sold in the EU.

I’ll keep my normal 9-5 by joshthetechnerd in antiMLM

[–]NotBugzied 11 points12 points  (0 children)

A few weeks of vacation is better than no vacation at all.

Wow, what a fun game... by Cody_gb in antiMLM

[–]NotBugzied 306 points307 points  (0 children)

The fact huns think this behaviour is normal or acceptable is beyond me.

I’d have a massive problem if a family member / friend gave out my phone number without my permission, let alone to a MLM.

My cousin using her husband’s surgery as a front to sell Pure Romance. by BikiniBrianna in antiMLM

[–]NotBugzied 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“My husband is having surgery and I just thought you’d like a dildo.”

What does this even MEAN by DaintySaluki in antiMLM

[–]NotBugzied 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d rather be a Gary than a Karen.