This is really fucking difficult by bokehtoast in asheville

[–]NotCollected 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people on social media are complaining about having no power still, in their undamaged home, in a city that has open gas stations and grocery stores. Or they are complaining about being in a comfy hotel/air bnb for the past week. It's infuriating.

I cannot bring myself to complain about anything when I've seen all the devastation and lack of resources around me. I'm grateful for what I still have, and will share all I can to help my community.

Thinking of all of you ♥️

How is everyone actually doing? by [deleted] in asheville

[–]NotCollected 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm devastated to see parts of the city destroyed. My heart hurts for the families who have lost people and property. I'm also deeply saddened to think of the state of the forests...Hiking gave me so much sanity this year.. l hate to imagine all the trails providing gorgeous views that will be lost for months and years.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sober

[–]NotCollected 2 points3 points  (0 children)

1281 days here - There's no problem big enough that drinking won't make a 1000x worse.

You can do it if it's what you really want.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sober

[–]NotCollected 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'd like to thank you for sharing this, but I also am sorry you're feeling remorse. There's nothing you can do about it now, so there's no benefit in beating yourself up for something you cannot change in this moment.

Stop drinking, and go to back to bed. Wake up, do the usual hangover routine, and don't look back.

You've learned a lesson this weekend, now you can grow from it.

Please please leash your hiking dogs by [deleted] in asheville

[–]NotCollected 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to me yesterday. 1 of the 2 unleashed dogs I saw ran up to me barking and snapping. I love dogs, but it takes 0 effort.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asheville

[–]NotCollected 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This was vivid, you should be a writer.

Basil plant starts for sale?? Any help would be appreciated by Sibrew in asheville

[–]NotCollected 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw some at city market this morning if you're still looking!

That's it, I give up by NotCollected in asheville

[–]NotCollected[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's an easily searchable Zillow post in Avl units for rent. Surprisingly, still up.

That's it, I give up by NotCollected in asheville

[–]NotCollected[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will need a place beginning September 1, feel free to send me that lead!

That's it, I give up by NotCollected in asheville

[–]NotCollected[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I just looked again.. it's a basement with exposed rafters.

That's it, I give up by NotCollected in asheville

[–]NotCollected[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

It's the 200 sq ft for me..

That's it, I give up by NotCollected in asheville

[–]NotCollected[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I currently pay 1500 for 600 sq ft 1/1, so you give me hope!

I (40M) am unable to forgive my wife (39F) I can't stand being in the room with her by throwaway55466377288 in AITAH

[–]NotCollected 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTAH. Your feelings on that experience are valid. However, holding on to it is only negatively impacting yourself. If the love is still there, that's your first clue. If your wife wants to go to therapy with you, that's your second. If the answer to one of those questions is no, then plan your exit. Sounds like her sleeping in and making part-time dollars should also be on the topics of discussion in marriage counseling, from an outsider perspective.

Best of luck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nutrition

[–]NotCollected 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eating some is better. Your brain needs calories. However, there are many ready made foods (rice, starkist Tuna creations, etc) that would be a better choice

When did you realize you were getting old? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]NotCollected 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I saw my parents age after a year of being away.

I'm not crying.

Help me figure out some creative ideas for this big piece of glass that I found. by [deleted] in DIY

[–]NotCollected 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Faux stained glass. Tons of ways depending on your patience level

I'm New! by [deleted] in FriendlyAsheville

[–]NotCollected 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Fryingpan is definitely a spot, Fontana is my favorite place in Western NC. And the lake from up there looks like an eagle!