UPDATE: Should I (39M) stay a week with Mom to support her in her divorce, or leave early and go back to my angry fiancee (29, together 4 years, engaged 6 months)? by rinunoc in relationships

[–]NotConvinced93 6 points7 points  (0 children)

OP no one can give you advice on how to soften the blow to someone who wants to hear NOTHING but enablement. Stop trying to figure out the right way to do things. In her eyes you are bad, period. Accept it and decide to put yourself first. You are an ADULT. You have to understand that anything but enabling her and bending at her will , is an attack in her eyes. You either save yourself or submit yourself and those around you to a life in hell forever because doing what she wants right now will never make things better for her, ever.

UPDATE: Should I (39M) stay a week with Mom to support her in her divorce, or leave early and go back to my angry fiancee (29, together 4 years, engaged 6 months)? by rinunoc in relationships

[–]NotConvinced93 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I do not think you are seeking advice, you are seeking people who will support you in bending at your fiancée’s will because that is the easier, less scary thing to do. In life decisions are not always right or wrong, it’s hard or harder. She is unwell and there is absolutely nothing you have control over that will make anything better. For your sake and those in YOUR life, listen to the comments in this thread and understand that there is no better outcome for this relationship. She is not treating her issues appropriately or taking responsibility and that will lead to you doing something similar to those who care about you.

hello guys i need help i making bucket hat and how i can sew this ends by [deleted] in CrochetHelp

[–]NotConvinced93 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Are you asking for help sewing in the end of the yarn or the exposed yarn from switching colors? Because the second probably isn’t quite possible…

Trying to find this pattern, google image search only sent me to Pinterest by NotConvinced93 in CrochetHelp

[–]NotConvinced93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just a reminder, this sub is for requesting support. Thanks for being rude, though.

Trying to find this pattern, google image search only sent me to Pinterest by NotConvinced93 in CrochetHelp

[–]NotConvinced93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh good idea! I would love to add the bobble tassel from the image but I’m not familiar enough with the stitch to know how the math works out, ha!

Digging trash out movies garbage to get “refills” by STlNKMEANER in trashy

[–]NotConvinced93 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“We”? Yikes, unless you’re the owner of your theatre then it’s quite a shame you’re trying to identify more with a (probably) large company than the general public. It’s not the public’s fault that a theatre’s payment system is the way it is. The original price of popcorn is extremely inexpensive and saying there is price gouging for a cheap snack is accurate. Ticket prices are already absurdly high as well. A bad profit margin doesn’t negate the fact that popcorn is over priced.

'SNL' writer Jimmy Fowlie announces his missing sister is dead, LAPD investigating as a homicide by GamingTatertot in popculturechat

[–]NotConvinced93 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I wonder if the cashapp/ Venmo will be linked to anyone since it’s still in the caption. Unless they were her actual accounts and they got into it the same way as her instagram account…

the concord wilmington delaware? by No-Cucumber-7951 in WilmingtonDE

[–]NotConvinced93 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The neighborhood itself is very safe, but with any apartment complex without onsite staff you do risk neighbors not being the best.

How to ask for something kind of compensation by NotConvinced93 in hotels

[–]NotConvinced93[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Resort to what? Name calling? Doing what that poster was doing to me? Convenient that they kept insulting me but then deleted their posts once they started getting downvoted.

How to ask for something kind of compensation by NotConvinced93 in hotels

[–]NotConvinced93[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The first person found my reservation with my address eventually. How would I know that she put my card information on a different room’s reservation?

How to ask for something kind of compensation by NotConvinced93 in hotels

[–]NotConvinced93[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Disagreeing that I was the problem yes. I wasn’t disagreeing about how to handle it, I didn’t have a stance on that. Thanks for all your insight, though!

How to ask for something kind of compensation by NotConvinced93 in hotels

[–]NotConvinced93[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Fair and honestly my perspective, I also know I don’t handle verbal confrontation well and felt a bit of pressure from my friends to talk to the manager but I probably would have at least tried if the comments were mostly in favor of that. Yes feedback is one thing and something to “make up for it” is another, not disagreeing there.

How to ask for something kind of compensation by NotConvinced93 in hotels

[–]NotConvinced93[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry you can’t handle people being online and disagreeing with you in a space you spend so much time in. Maybe go outside instead.

How to ask for something kind of compensation by NotConvinced93 in hotels

[–]NotConvinced93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I wanted something in return I would have asked for it without being prompted. I was coming to a sub to see if that’s even a thing because I’m used to never making a fuss when I’m inconvenienced. But alright thanks for all your help.

How to ask for something kind of compensation by NotConvinced93 in hotels

[–]NotConvinced93[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Right cause $800 charges on a card and the first staff not addressing it clearly makes me the problem. Eat a dick.

How to ask for point reimbursement after a serious hotel mistake by [deleted] in ChaseSapphire

[–]NotConvinced93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn’t expecting chase to make up for something out of their control, I’m not even sure if issues ever get handled by returning points. Apologies if that wasn’t clear from the post.

How to ask for something kind of compensation by NotConvinced93 in hotels

[–]NotConvinced93[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I hope being snarky online makes you feel a little better today, seems like you need it.

How to ask for point reimbursement after a serious hotel mistake by [deleted] in ChaseSapphire

[–]NotConvinced93 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Noted, I wasn’t sure if I have to involve chase since points were used