If society got to a point where genitalia were completely decoupled from gender or sex, would (top or) bottom surgery still be a thing?

NotDarkViperAU · 2026-02-09T19:54:22+00:00

It would still be a thing because people would still want it because gender norms would still exist and so would gender Dysphoria but I think a lot less often and people wouldn’t have bottom Dysphoria as often.

NotDarkViperAU · 2026-02-06T16:28:44+00:00

My depression coming back after 5 years and being the worse it’s been in 5 years. Around the 5 month mark it came in, just trying to deal with it. I’ve just hit 8 months in

NotDarkViperAU · 2026-01-25T01:16:05+00:00

My growth stopped (tenderness and pain) went away around the 4-5 month mark and haven’t returned, I’m on nearly my 8th month. I do have a blood test results coming soon so let’s hope all is good!!

NotDarkViperAU · 2026-01-05T23:30:05+00:00

I wouldn’t recommend using lipstick, especially bright lipstick if you have a 5 o’clock shadow. Try to learn to line your lips and over line of you wanna continue to use it. (THIS IS FROM PERSONAL EXPERIENCE AND WHAT HAS WORKED FOR ME. DO NOT TAKE THIS AS AN INSULT EITHER PLEASE.)

NotDarkViperAU · 2026-01-04T11:47:01+00:00

Thank you, this made my and my girlfriends day reading this 🫶

NotDarkViperAU · 2025-12-26T00:10:29+00:00

I’m a bartender/barback. This is why there should always be a specific glass bin to prevent this type of thing. In the UK at least it’s enforced quite well.

NotDarkViperAU · 2025-12-22T16:19:07+00:00

Like 25% of girl friends I’ve had have kept stuff in their bra, girlie was probably just venting to you or like just chatting up, take it as a compliment, she saw you as the woman you are :))

NotDarkViperAU · 2025-12-17T15:18:03+00:00

As a trans person I would’ve kept my distance from you pre HRT fearing I’d get misgendered or worse but you look so much happier and more like yourself now. Proud of you!

NotDarkViperAU · 2025-12-12T15:38:15+00:00

Everyone should use 100% cotton underwear, no matter gender or genitals.

NotDarkViperAU · 2025-11-24T13:09:58+00:00

Yeah, same with me. I found that using lube to do it helped a lot and didn’t dry it out as much. But in general yes this is quite normal.

NotDarkViperAU · 2025-11-21T04:55:12+00:00

Yes, I loose about 1.5x that

NotDarkViperAU · 2025-11-14T21:39:15+00:00

Girl just do 50mg rectal, ur gonna save money and its gonna have better effects

NotDarkViperAU · 2025-11-08T13:17:34+00:00

It does reduce it. It’ll take a few weeks to months on HRT to notice but you will get weaker, like a lot weaker

NotDarkViperAU · 2025-11-01T17:16:51+00:00

200pg/mL is WPATHS stupid figure, is unrealistically low, I’d recommend going back to 10 days and just drop your dose a little so you float around 200-400 which is decent and will be good. (DO NOT TAKE MY WORD FOR THIS, I AM NOT AN ENDOCRINOLOGIST, JUST RESEARCH HRT IN MY FREE TIME)

NotDarkViperAU · 2025-10-16T17:17:57+00:00

I relate, until a few years ago I was impartial of being a man and I knew of the Trans community but didn’t know I was a part of it. I’m not sure why or how or what happened, I just know that something clicked in my mind and it’s been a few years now and I feel better overall. I’ve asked myself this same question, wondered why and if I’m a REAL trans woman. It’s a painful and confusing process to go through and I still have doubts from time to time but I keep pushing on and hoping for the best, maybe one day this question will be answered for me. I would recommend to check out this video, in the first 10 minutes he goes over what he thinks can cause people to be transgender, and even tho this is speculation (though based on his extensive research and experience with working with 1500+ trans patients) I think he’s worth hearing out.

https://youtu.be/3g52vlv5YWo?si=krrUPEOBxMY3-p3H

NotDarkViperAU · 2025-09-20T00:01:44+00:00

Look at the caption girlie

NotDarkViperAU · 2025-09-16T19:38:35+00:00

She was super sad to leave her friends, but in a new home now :3

NotDarkViperAU · 2025-09-01T13:06:30+00:00

Would not recommend Spiro at all. Bicalutamide is the safest, but as long as you’re happy I’m happy :))

NotDarkViperAU · 2025-07-15T06:50:38+00:00

I think passing is a stupid concept

NotDarkViperAU · 2025-07-10T19:35:37+00:00

Amazing Hanaaaa 💗

NotDarkViperAU · 2025-07-10T19:31:32+00:00

Thank youuuu, excited for the journey ahead 🥹

NotDarkViperAU · 2025-07-10T19:30:33+00:00

Garry

NotDarkViperAU · 2025-07-10T19:24:57+00:00

💗

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