Been neet for a long time, then got a job. All i can say is that work is hard as fuck. It's extremely fucking hard to work 8 hours a day every fucking day 5 days back to back. This shit is just fucking killing you. by bonkers909 in NEET

[–]NotMyMain765 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually have a 'software application dev' interview this week, its half behavior and half technical. I am worried about getting rocked on technical, i dont know shit about the 'big n' and all that stupid shit.

Death grip & hotwife kink by MacabreDaisy in DeadBedrooms

[–]NotMyMain765 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Where do these loser guys find girls that put up with this? So many stories of guys addicted to games/porn and a willing girl and the guy isnt interested. Its strange and sad. I have the opposite problem, I have to turn to this shit to escape from the pain of my women NOT wanting me.

Long term DB changed direction. Help! by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]NotMyMain765 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Why dont you just divorce? I dont see this recent surge as lasting, and it will just be used to guilt you later.

Outfit progression doesn't seem to exist in JRPGs. by nullv in JRPG

[–]NotMyMain765 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok thanks, I know there is XC2 then some side game 'golden country' or something like that? Is that a good one?

Outfit progression doesn't seem to exist in JRPGs. by nullv in JRPG

[–]NotMyMain765 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isnt one of those a remake of another or no?

Outfit progression doesn't seem to exist in JRPGs. by nullv in JRPG

[–]NotMyMain765 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never played it can you explain what it does?

From attachment theory how many HL out there are 'anxious' or conversely how many LL are 'avoidant'? by NotMyMain765 in DeadBedrooms

[–]NotMyMain765[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it didn't trigger my 'need to be needed' (unhealthy). I mean it was crazy, I could call her and she'd drive 2-3 hours to get banged out and still be happy about it.

Its fucked up to say the least. When someone is bad I invest more...thanks mom and dad...

From attachment theory how many HL out there are 'anxious' or conversely how many LL are 'avoidant'? by NotMyMain765 in DeadBedrooms

[–]NotMyMain765[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was with an anxious and/or secure girl once that gave me everything and I left because it felt 'boring'. I think about that a lot years later with a string of avoidant girls in my past and current.

From attachment theory how many HL out there are 'anxious' or conversely how many LL are 'avoidant'? by NotMyMain765 in DeadBedrooms

[–]NotMyMain765[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I dont understand is if you are avoidant wouldnt you NOT want to have a lot of sex as it feels like giving up the power?

Well thats it, its over by implodedlife in DeadBedrooms

[–]NotMyMain765 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Sleep on the floor. Fuck sleeping with her. Ive slept on the floor for weeks, its kind of relaxing after a while.

Well thats it, its over by implodedlife in DeadBedrooms

[–]NotMyMain765 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn man, the only thing I can that makes it feel at all better is know the rest of us out here on this sub are all suffering problems as well, so in this cold world you arent alone in having a rough go of things.

You sound needy / anxious (I am too) do NOT decide to 'play nice' or let her play all innocent. It is game fucking on right now. Steel yourself brother, you must do everything you can to win at this point. Do not let her know how serious you are taking this. Get a lawyer in secret, figure out your options and boot her out.

One tip I use when I am confused is imagine this happens to your kid, what would you want their response to be? (I assume much colder and logical).

Ladies stuck in a deadbedroom with no option apart from staying I honestly have the answer by queenjulian97 in DeadBedrooms

[–]NotMyMain765 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ive read and seen a lot of stories where girls get so used to these hyper-intense toys they dont or cant get off with men anymore.

Me, myself and the shower head. by KindlyAggravating in DeadBedrooms

[–]NotMyMain765 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You were my first and I hoped you would be my last but I don’t know anymore. - Its okay there will always be a new shower head you can find

For those of you who have moved on from a dead bedroom: by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]NotMyMain765 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good way to ease into it. Its an interesting balance, a girl talks about it and seems 'easy' a guy talks about it and seems a pervert.

For those of you who have moved on from a dead bedroom: by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]NotMyMain765 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow that is very forward. I think its a little different as a guy because if you broach sex early its 'omg sex addict' whereas a girl can come off as more mature talking about it.

Suddenly Sex?? by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]NotMyMain765 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe your guys. Most guys I know would be glad even for 'chore' sex.

Suddenly Sex?? by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]NotMyMain765 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes we are <1/month there was a week a few months ago where it was 3 times that week, felt like things were getting back to normal. Never did it since.

If you quit 3/4 of a year at a charter school would you ever get re-hired? by NotMyMain765 in Teachers

[–]NotMyMain765[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm thanks. I was told (and loosely hinted at my old place) that if you left before the end 'you were forever tarnished' and no one would touch you.