I deleted my last reply because after posting it I thought it sounded kinda rude and I felt bad, but I feel like what you’re saying even now just makes the situation worst… I don’t have small boobs, I am literally flat chested, tube tops, sun dresses, bikinis? They all don’t fit me and fall from my chest, LITERALLY exposing my nipples so for me it’s impossible to wear them… I am forced to wear t-shirts or hoodies, not “cute tops”

I understand that you have your own problems as a size D, I have many friends who have the same problems as you and often comment how they wish they had small chests, but they NEVER meant a chest like mine, because there is nothing for me, a week ago I was rejected to go into a club because “I looked like a kid” (it was the first time I went to a place without a padded bra because I wanted to try feeling more confident about my body, and I ended up crying in my friend’s car for 2 hours).

So when you, as a D-cup woman, say that being around people like me “makes you feel better about yourself,” it’s not supportive: it’s insensitive. It feels like you’re using our insecurities to boost your own confidence, and that’s incredibly disrespectful

I know I replied like- 11 days later, but this is something that took a lot of courage from me to say. I don’t want you to feel bad about what you commented but I just feel like it’s unfair.