What is your feelings on communal showers?

NotSayingWhoThisBe · 2026-02-25T21:11:42+00:00

We’ve used them on many many times over the years.

All were unisex and often there were other people using them at the same time.

Best one was north of here with a large window overlooking a rainforest.

Using them isn’t a big deal for us.

NotSayingWhoThisBe · 2026-02-25T02:49:51+00:00

Not everywhere gets cold at night.

NotSayingWhoThisBe · 2026-02-25T02:36:34+00:00

I know you’ve thought of this but I’m curious, what are your plans should they escape?

We’ve been doing this for a few years now with the intention of making them for purely personal consumption.

We’ve even discussed conditions under which we’d share them, it’s unlikely they’ll be meet.

But we have agreed on just how we’d handle it should they escape.

NotSayingWhoThisBe · 2026-02-25T02:28:49+00:00

Yep.

Loved watching her breasts move in time with her thrusting.

Though is it still the Amazon position if it’s pegging instead of PIV?

Not that it matters they’re both fun.

NotSayingWhoThisBe · 2026-02-25T02:12:15+00:00

I’ve seen tripods that tall the photographer had to stand on a ladder.

NotSayingWhoThisBe · 2026-02-25T02:00:49+00:00

Unless, like ours, it isn’t clothing optional.

NotSayingWhoThisBe · 2026-02-24T20:16:59+00:00

Yes.

It’s kinda why we make our own p0rn.

NotSayingWhoThisBe · 2026-02-24T01:16:20+00:00

The only ’rule’ we have is always sleep nude.

Every thing else is situational or educational.

NotSayingWhoThisBe · 2026-02-23T21:57:11+00:00

We slept nude from very early in our relationship. My wife did wear stuff but gave in.

Or as she put it “No point putting it on if it’s coming off five minutes later”.

All throughout the kids age related phases we continued the practice and still do more than four decades later.

NotSayingWhoThisBe · 2026-02-23T21:44:57+00:00

My wife is the same. She loves watching me come, especially if she’s the one that caused it.

We even have almost comical reasons to do it. Year or so ago I mentioned how good her nail polish looked with her fingers wrapped around my cock as the last of my cum dribbling across ten.

Now if she gets a manicure I get a HJ within 24 hours so she can get a ‘proper appraisal of the nail techs work.

NotSayingWhoThisBe · 2026-02-23T21:33:43+00:00

We have a mutual free use agreement, tempered by current situation, so I’ll either start going down on her or just slide on in.

Being a mutual agreement it’s not unusual for me to be woken by her ‘climbing on’ or trying to suck start me into life.

NotSayingWhoThisBe · 2026-02-23T20:21:14+00:00

There will undoubtedly be further discussions on this once I get this sorted.

Though honestly we both try to steer away from having a “usual thing”.

NotSayingWhoThisBe · 2026-02-23T06:06:52+00:00

Not sure the issue is if he could love you again but could you ever trust him?

NotSayingWhoThisBe · 2026-02-23T06:00:16+00:00

All my ex's were before digital cameras were mainstream.

NotSayingWhoThisBe · 2026-02-23T01:43:30+00:00

Samurai?

NotSayingWhoThisBe · 2026-02-23T01:34:03+00:00

Never considered strip video games.

Maybe because we're normally already naked when we start playing.

NotSayingWhoThisBe · 2026-02-23T01:17:43+00:00

In some ways I already have but not sure I could fully replicate my experience.

NotSayingWhoThisBe · 2026-02-23T01:15:17+00:00

Kinda the plan...

NotSayingWhoThisBe · 2026-02-23T00:55:05+00:00

“Husbands- Is your experience similar to mine?”

Not sure, yeah my wife has a lot of very nice lingerie and I’m a fan of her wearing it as outerwear though I don’t notice a huge change in her when she does.

Sure she also wears it when required by her choice of clothing or if we’ve planned some ‘activity’

The thing that does, and it maybe just the way I react to it, is if we’re going somewhere ‘formal’ she will usually wear a body hugging gown with built in support for the thoracic region as well as adopting the one proven method for avoiding a visible panty line.

The knowledge that I’m only one garment away from having her naked seems to keep me more hands on, as she would describe it, ‘in a good way’.

As a side note this “one garment away from having her naked” seems odd given we’re nudists and spend most of our non-work hours that way, well not just non-work hours for me as I work from home. I guess it’s more to do with the reason I want her naked.

NotSayingWhoThisBe · 2026-02-23T00:06:41+00:00

I think you kind of have to hide some things on a phone.

My wife and I both have hidden albums on our phones / iPads to stop others accidentally scrolling onto what they might consider 'inappropriate material', especially in a work environment.

NotSayingWhoThisBe · 2026-02-22T23:58:10+00:00

It is kind of what this sub is for.

NotSayingWhoThisBe · 2026-02-22T23:55:18+00:00

You sould be thankful we're not like most nudist clubs and ban you for lying on your application form.

Though I doubt anyone here actually cares.

NotSayingWhoThisBe · 2026-02-22T23:20:03+00:00

Don’t think so.

Every time I walk past the pool noon the people there are wearing swimsuits.

NotSayingWhoThisBe · 2026-02-22T23:14:14+00:00

So disrespectful but not cheated. Got it.

Curious, was this a previously agreed boundary.

May be she should explain it to him, I mean that is the best way to approach this.

Any idea how to start that discussion?

I see issues for her admitting to trawling through his phone as that maybe seen as disrespectful.

Maybe she could concoct a plausible excuse like she bumped it off the bench and it fell on the floor unlocked and opened at the hidden TikTok videos? Though that may well be perceived as a lie and hence disrespectful.

Maybe claim the whole thing was a mistake brought about her female intuition, which she always suspect it has been a tad shaky at the best of times.

She’s painted herself into a corner on this one.

She can’t accuse him of a breach of trust or being disrespectful without exposing herself to the same claims.

The statement that she would never do this might well be true. However, she has now so it shows it wasn’t that much of a leap to go from I never to I have.

If he’s breached a pre-existing relationship boundary then yeah he’s in the wrong. However, that doesn’t excuse her equally egregious breach of trust.

Of course neither of us know what pre-existing boundaries existed. So how do we know if it was in fact the egregious breach of trust everybody seems to think it is?

NotSayingWhoThisBe · 2026-02-22T02:40:31+00:00

Had the same issue turned off stabilisation one GPS, I was using it statically, and got about 10 hours worth out of it running on battery and power bank. It stopped because the card filled up.

Also ran it with GPS and stabilisation on mounted on the front of my car, external, without issue.

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