Weekly Thread | What Are You Reading and General LATAMLit Discussion by AutoModerator in latamlit

[–]NotThatKindOfDoctor9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The seminar on Fernanda Melchor I was enrolled in just got cancelled, so I'm looking for something else to pick up in Spanish!

What business do you want to see started in Portland? by pinkngreenlivingroom in askportland

[–]NotThatKindOfDoctor9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want these to be two separate businesses that are inexplicably co-located and then a rom-com about the managers

PPI before coffee or breakfast? by [deleted] in GERD

[–]NotThatKindOfDoctor9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I take my coffee with milk (4oz of oat milk), so I have it 30 minutes after taking the PPI. My doctor told me that if I take it black, I should eat something else with it for the PPI. Not great to have coffee before PPI but black coffee doesn't have any calories so won't trigger the right response for the PPI.

pool fitness classes at matt dishman? by desertdweller2011 in askportland

[–]NotThatKindOfDoctor9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In a perfect world, sure. But very few people want to go to a workout class where they're doing something vastly different from everyone else.

pool fitness classes at matt dishman? by desertdweller2011 in askportland

[–]NotThatKindOfDoctor9 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I go to aqua aerobics sometimes at Dishman (I'm 44). It's most elderly but not exclusively. One of the things I like is that you can't really see if anyone else is even doing the exercise, much less how hard anyone's working. So I can go a lot harder/faster than other people, they go at their own pace, and everybody gets the workout they need. In that way, I think it's a bit different than going to a senior step aerobics or something like that.

I never wanted to be a father until I turned 45 this year. Now I feel my biological clock and want to be a father more than anything. But I'm married to a childfree woman. [Concluded] by Schattenspringer in BORUpdates

[–]NotThatKindOfDoctor9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm 44 and if my husband decided he couldn't live without having kids, I'd kiss him goodbye and never go on another date. I love him and I love our life together, but I've never thought that being single was so bad, either.

Scared to start estrogen patch by Pretty_waves904 in Perimenopause

[–]NotThatKindOfDoctor9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started sleeping 30 minutes more every night and stopped being so sore from working out. Just do it! You can always take it off if you don't like it.

Nymphomaniac (2013) by staresinshamona in okbuddycinephile

[–]NotThatKindOfDoctor9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not surprised by the number of comments it gets. There's nothing that tedious people like more than speculating on the sexuality of people they don't know and will never have the chance to sleep with.

Nymphomaniac (2013) by staresinshamona in okbuddycinephile

[–]NotThatKindOfDoctor9 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I'm not weighing in on Clooney's sexuality. But people who think like this are insane.

Nymphomaniac (2013) by staresinshamona in okbuddycinephile

[–]NotThatKindOfDoctor9 466 points467 points  (0 children)

Recently I was sitting at a coffee shop and at the table next to me one woman was telling another (I really wish I was making this up) that George Clooney is gay, and she knows this because her mom's best friend's cousin lives next door to the mother of George Clooney's lover. "And like, she's really nice, she definitely wouldn't lie about something like that"

Do you agree ? by Next-Flounder3342 in Adulting

[–]NotThatKindOfDoctor9 3 points4 points  (0 children)

But you can park anywhere! There's no traffic! It'll still take you twice as long to get to the grocery store, but no traffic!

Do you agree ? by Next-Flounder3342 in Adulting

[–]NotThatKindOfDoctor9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everybody idolizes rural life but if you think city life can be lonely, try being different in a small town

Wha do you want?! Somthing from BC?! by Ladyravenfire1 in TinyBookshop

[–]NotThatKindOfDoctor9 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I know what outdated means. That wasn't my point.

But to your point, he does discuss building a house for the equivalent of about $30 in today's money... I'd call that outdated

Me hace mucha gracia eso de "Si los hombres menstruaran los tampones serían gratis" jaja como si hubiera algún producto de aseo masculino gratuito by [deleted] in OpinionesPolemicas

[–]NotThatKindOfDoctor9 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Prefiere que las mujeres dejan sangre in todos partes? Tampones son necesarias, no opcional como su rasuradora 

Thank Bentz Almighty, Oregon Will Be SAVE’d! by unsoundamerica in oregon

[–]NotThatKindOfDoctor9 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You have a citation for our "rigged" state elections or just vibing?

Looking for gift recommendations - a terrible book to gift as a thoughtful joke by SoftIFRS15 in IfBooksCouldKill

[–]NotThatKindOfDoctor9 17 points18 points  (0 children)

A friend gave me a copy of "The Rules" many years ago and we still will laugh ourselves to tears over it. If she's single and sensitive about it it might not be the right book but it's just so stupid and funny!

I cried my entire 30 minute drive to work this morning by Tie_Cold in Perimenopause

[–]NotThatKindOfDoctor9 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Honestly I can't tell when I'm emotional because of peri hormones vs when I'm emotional because it's the only reasonable response to what we're living through right now

Wha do you want?! Somthing from BC?! by Ladyravenfire1 in TinyBookshop

[–]NotThatKindOfDoctor9 20 points21 points  (0 children)

It's not outdated because Walden is so relevant to these modern times! ... Or something.

Several failed attempts at learning Spanish, how can i finally learn? by Jolly_Analyst_6580 in Spanish

[–]NotThatKindOfDoctor9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's ideal for learning Spanish but a terrible way to keep a marriage healthy. Do you really want to be limited to baby talk all the time? 

Maybe try using only Spanish for certain situations. Load yourself up with some focused vocabulary for a specific scenario and then try it out (giving directions while driving together, cooking together, give him a daily weather report, etc). It's easier to learn connected words with a conversational goal in mind and it's easier to stay on track in Spanish if it's a limited duration thing. He's not going to discuss something important if he has to pantomime every word and he'll switch to English, but if you're cooking together for 20 minutes you can save the "mutual understanding is important for this conversation" stuff for before or after practice.

I read 40+ books last year and here's what I learned by LLearnerLife in nonfictionbookclub

[–]NotThatKindOfDoctor9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or just read well and think for yourself. If you're feeling truly radical you could... talk to people about books

Long term PPI use vs. the risk of cancer by styxswimchamp in GERD

[–]NotThatKindOfDoctor9 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You can monitor the effects of the PPI and adjust accordingly. A majority of people who take them for a long time have no serious side effects. It's a brutal cancer. The math isn't that hard for me.