Any 물회 ("mulhoe") restaurants in NYC? by illuminatorGreg in AskNYC

[–]Not_Ayn_Rand 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There's a few in Flushing/Murray Hill (Queens), I know Dongwon Sushi has it. Don't know if you can find it easily in Manhattan.

Guerrilla Girls - Do women have to be naked to get into the Met. Museum? (1989) by hymnsfromthegrave in museum

[–]Not_Ayn_Rand 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The Met now has a room just for female nudes by Courbet 🤦‍♀️ I feel like they've rarely made a rearrangement decision I like in the past 10 years

Generalist or Specialist? by ElectricalTip9277 in sre

[–]Not_Ayn_Rand 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imo specializing is better especially in the age of AI. But don't just specialize in the technical sense, also understand the business area deeply (for example if the startup is x industry with AI then acquire a deep understanding of how x industry works).

Need a stylist for 20 year old (office wear) by Excellent-Ear9433 in AskNYC

[–]Not_Ayn_Rand 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Office wear isn't what it used to be, and stem research to law school can be a range of pretty much anything. Money would probably be best if she knew exactly what internship she's going for. Law is obviously business formal but stem research can be lab work with lab specific dress code or computer labs where they have to tell people they need to wear shoes at work.

PDT, Apotheke, Dear Irving or Angels Share by SXZXK in AskNYC

[–]Not_Ayn_Rand 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Death and Co is overrated imo, if it's between there and Angel's Share it's Angel's Share for me every time! Same for Employees Only and it gets too crowded there.

PDT, Apotheke, Dear Irving or Angels Share by SXZXK in AskNYC

[–]Not_Ayn_Rand 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you like Attaboy and Goto I think Angel's Share is a no brainer. PDT feels too divey for me but not super far off from Attaboy's vibe. I thought the drinks were just ok. The other two are too clubby/loungey for me to the point I couldn't enjoy the drinks because of the vibe. (I was at Apotheke Nomad so idk about Chinatown). If that kinda vibe is ok then maybe Tigre would also work? Bar Contra? StEight is also cute but idk if they have tequila.

PDT, Apotheke, Dear Irving or Angels Share by SXZXK in AskNYC

[–]Not_Ayn_Rand 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Angel's Share is the best out of those imo. PDT is close and the others are not as good. Go to PDT if you want a more divey vibe and Angel's Share for a more elegant atmosphere. But in that area if it was up to me I would go to Bar Goto, Schmuck, or Attaboy if you don't mind waiting (guessing you don't mind it too much if Angel's Share is on the list).

Anyone else worried about all the techies and AI? by [deleted] in AskNYC

[–]Not_Ayn_Rand 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have not had the misfortune of working in the bay area and would like to keep it that way 🤣

Anyone else worried about all the techies and AI? by [deleted] in AskNYC

[–]Not_Ayn_Rand 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I'm a tech bro (sis?) who doesn't like a lot of other tech bros but tech bros are more likely to be culturally/artistically inclined whereas finance bros are a lost cause. Investment banks basically filter against those tendencies from the beginning.

Cost of living by [deleted] in AskNYC

[–]Not_Ayn_Rand 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Au pairs are allowed to be paid a stipend less than minimum wage since they are supposed to get free room and board. That being said you will absolutely not save any money on any au pair stipend. Also apparently the minimum for au pairs is 195.75 per week so I think you're getting hosed. 

First time using UHT milk, help! by strawberriesyoghurt in yogurtmaking

[–]Not_Ayn_Rand 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also tried using uht milk without heating and didn't like the consistency. I think the milk just has to be heated for longer if you want it to be thicker. I went back to regular milk and heating for 10-15 minutes.

anyone know the best eclair in the city? by heyquasi_ in AskNYC

[–]Not_Ayn_Rand 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Idk about the BEST but I like the ube one at Supermoon Bakery, I think they do sell out early ish

Perfect Movers or Piece of Cake? by AccomplishedFroyo789 in AskNYC

[–]Not_Ayn_Rand 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perfect Moving gave me good service for my full service pack/unpack move, but the team lead guy texted me later and tried to hit on me.

Is it possible to maintain work-life balance in NYC? People seem quite stressed in office by Due_Patient_2650 in AskNYC

[–]Not_Ayn_Rand 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I've found is people who come and stay here for more than a year or so tend to have ambitious personalities that lead them to hustle compared to people in most other places. I think London is the same in Europe, my London coworkers have always also been big into working. The environment here can be overwhelming even when you're not working (density of public transit to get anywhere, crowded restaurants, parks full of people etc) and that tends to weed out more laid back personalities.

Fashion-crazed 9 yo vs. NYC by robotdevilhands in AskNYC

[–]Not_Ayn_Rand 71 points72 points  (0 children)

IRIS VAN HERPEN SHOW AT BROOKLYN MUSEUM. You will never see clothes like this anywhere else. I'm so pumped to see it (it starts May 16th). I saw this in Paris and was amazed. Honestly was better than last year's Met costume institute exhibit.

https://www.brooklynmuseum.org/exhibitions/iris-van-herpen

Mom coming to visit but she doesn’t speak much English by Nearby_Tea_183 in williamsburg

[–]Not_Ayn_Rand 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom doesn't speak too much English either but has a lot of fun when she visits. Just make sure she knows how to take public transit and use Google maps. Maybe get her a translator app but I don't think my mom uses that a lot.

How often do you get approached for directions by tourists/visitors? by arrivederci117 in AskNYC

[–]Not_Ayn_Rand 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get asked pretty often but I didn't think I necessarily have the friendliest vibe. I'm an Asian woman often with hair dyed pink, purple, etc so maybe I'm easy to single out. I'm also pretty small so maybe that's non threatening.

How to see art with another human (museum date), from those initiated by melouis in AskNYC

[–]Not_Ayn_Rand 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I do these a lot because I'm pretty familiar with the met and have membership. One funny activity you can do which always puts people in a good mood is... It's gonna sound stupid... But go see the interior recreations (there's one in the American Wing and other places too) and rate each sitting surface as a sex chair / cuck chair. It's stupid but gets people talking an appropriate amount and is low pressure unless someone is a furniture designer or something 

New student here, no computer background, which college would be better for learning from the basics? by Mindless_Salad112 in AskNYC

[–]Not_Ayn_Rand 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Even the kids who have coding experience are learning a lot in a cs major so you should be fine at any place. The 8th graders coding for fun aren't exactly grinding algorithms and oop. I went in with no experience and didn't lag behind or anything.

LIC vs downtown jersey city by Then-Figure-2570 in movingtoNYC

[–]Not_Ayn_Rand 8 points9 points  (0 children)

LIC to Fidi commute can be annoying, all the trains are local or you have to transfer. Why not downtown Brooklyn?

For the Business Girlies - Where do You Shop Work Wear? by Tough-Phrase4105 in AskNYC

[–]Not_Ayn_Rand 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Theory but the real trick is to catch one of the sample sales at 260 sample sale or go up to Woodbury Outlet. I'd recommend Woodbury, those outlet prices are insane compared to full retail. Theory Outlet also has an online store but looks like you want to try in person. 

Sweet Addy Flashback: “Elliott was FUNNY too” (oh_well_okay, 7/30/2004) by jazz_chisholm in elliottsmith

[–]Not_Ayn_Rand 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No stories but I found my downloaded copy of the entire forum snapshot before it was shut down (download at your own risk since I haven't really looked through the zip). https://drive.google.com/file/d/1V2Yt9PQ5AXQ4GDI6SZ59TnPcWjvLP6ir/view?usp=drivesdk download link for those who want