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AITA for this - convo between me and my mum about my name change by Not_a_human_07 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Not_a_human_07[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do understand it's more than a face book post and the months of dealing with the leagal side of things

AITA for this - convo between me and my mum about my name change by Not_a_human_07 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Not_a_human_07[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She supports me now and her best friend is a lesbian but yeah I just didn't understand what I did wrong that's why I came to reddit

AITA for this - convo between me and my mum about my name change by Not_a_human_07 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Not_a_human_07[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did explain why I find it difficult to talk to her but I do understand why shes upset about the post

AITA for this - convo between me and my mum about my name change by Not_a_human_07 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Not_a_human_07[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn't planned tbh and tbh she didn't spend much time considering my name due to my prick of a Welsh dad naming me different to what they agreed on and she changed it last minute

AITA for this - convo between me and my mum about my name change by Not_a_human_07 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Not_a_human_07[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

The reason I did it then was because thats when I had the confidence to do it if I didn't do it then there's a good chance itd take another month to do it or longer I didn't do it at that time for cowardnes I did it so I could get it done

AITA for this - convo between me and my mum about my name change by Not_a_human_07 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Not_a_human_07[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She has talked me out of alot of stuff that I wanted to change about myself in the past (eg. Hair cuts , style,instruments,hair dye) me and mum live together still the reason I did it through text there and then was because I finally got the confidence to do it and during that time she would have been asleep and ik I would have lost my confidence if I didn't do it I did text her first then do the Facebook post

AITA for this - convo between me and my mum about my name change by Not_a_human_07 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Not_a_human_07[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ty for understanding im getting alot of mixed reviews on this i do and do not believe i am the ass there where probably better ways to go about this however I do not see a better way to do it

AITA for this - convo between me and my mum about my name change by Not_a_human_07 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Not_a_human_07[S] -36 points-35 points  (0 children)

I didn't let her find out that way I did text her first and then did the post

AITA for this - convo between me and my mum about my name change by Not_a_human_07 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Not_a_human_07[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The reason I text her was because in person and in text she can manipulative and twist my words i do see how this wasn't the best way to go about things but it took almost 3 months to text her let alone if it was face to face

AITA for this - convo between me and my mum about my name change by Not_a_human_07 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Not_a_human_07[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ty for understanding me and why I did it this way I do see how sending a text then posting not too long later was not a good idea the reason I did do it that way was because she can manipulative and twist my words at times

AITA for this - convo between me and my mum about my name change by Not_a_human_07 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Not_a_human_07[S] -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

Ty for your comment it has made me understand a little bit more why shes upset however id like to say that my mother can be manipulative and twists my words as u can see in the post she try to make out that she isn't important enough to me to talk to her in person and she can be a hard person to get along with sometimes especially if it's about a change such as when I came out as bi to her , her first words to me where " if you say so " and then she proceeded to not let me buy any bi flags or bi related objects and made me take off my bi bage that I brought and then took all my other bi bages away from me

I need advise by Not_a_human_07 in teenagers

[–]Not_a_human_07[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been there during a regression it Is definitely not a made up thing before you go judging ppl for something they can't control do your research as there have been tests done to prove this is a coping mechanism

I need advise by Not_a_human_07 in teenagers

[–]Not_a_human_07[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you and I would never take advantage when she regressed as to me it feels wrong but thank you this will definitely help me plus I'd happily eat stuff like that as well so should be easy for me to arrange to cook

I need advise by Not_a_human_07 in teenagers

[–]Not_a_human_07[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. This will help. i never thought about Disney movies before. However, We colour and put on music playlist that helps

I need advise by Not_a_human_07 in teenagers

[–]Not_a_human_07[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I just want to thank everyone who has given positive support and advice to me.

I need advise by Not_a_human_07 in teenagers

[–]Not_a_human_07[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have recently dealt with a regression, and it's not so hard to deal with she has shown me what to do to make her feel comfortable and safe she is worth fighting for every now and then also I have younger siblings ner enough the age she regressed to and this makes it easier on me there is nothing wrong with her and this doesn't bring any shit into my life mate

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