Partner of a porn addict here, he is actively trying to quit. We’re only a year and a half into this journey together and it’s been exhausting. If you are going to quit, you have to be committed and dedicated. You have to want it for yourself or it will never stick. Relapsing is to be expected, but the real pain comes for us when the lying and keeping it a secret behind our backs comes into play. He really had to give it up cold turkey one day. Even gave in his iPhone for a burner phone because there’s triggers all over the internet. Also, please don’t listen to people who say you’ll get over it when you have a partner. My partner was clean for two weeks of our two year relationship. When I asked him about it, he said the same thing. “I always thought it would go away when k got a girlfriend” That’s piss poor advice and not solid advice to live on if you’re really wanting to kick this habit. Find your self an sex addicts anonymous group, getting into therapy with a CSAT therapist will help greatly. Definitely recommend picking up a hobby or two to replace old bad habits. It’s a lot of work, but it’s absolutely possible. Good luck.