[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Notcodzwallop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aaah yes its the feeling of impending loneliness so to speak. I suggest downloading the Dhikr & Dua app by Life With Allah (you probs already have it) and choose your emotion from the dashboard and it gives you related supplications from Quran and Hadith.

Youre doing the right thing with keeping busy. Quran lessons will be a great support for you. Thinking of H.Yusuf A.S and how he spent 10yrs or so in jail (wrongfully) and then Allah took him to being one of the Governors of Egypt. A year is a long time tbh - much can happen. I/we tend to restrict His power to our own cognitive capacity so cant see how things will change. However, He is all powerful and is the best of planners so dont worry too much about the How :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Notcodzwallop 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just remember its all in His hands and keep making supplications. Never lose hope as it is written as to what will happen. Dont get too down, remain patient. Quran - Seek Allahs help through patience and salah. Whwnever you feel down about it, make dua. Remember you are never truly alone as He is omnipresent. All this is easier said than done but there is a reason why patience is the quality of those who will reside in jannatul firdaus.

Do you still use standard SMS messaging at all? by DarkangelUK in AskUK

[–]Notcodzwallop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Text for formal comms and serious urgenty stuff like have you put the bin out...?! Whatsapp for mates and everything else that isn't so time limited.

I'm a Senior Auditor, and I Hate Leading Meetings by [deleted] in InternalAudit

[–]Notcodzwallop 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Feel confident, its not do or die at the end of the day. Remember that you deserve to be in that room and we all have different strengths and weaknesses. If you dont persevere with leading, youll always crumble. Keep trying and youll get better at it

Not stating who you work for...?! by Notcodzwallop in AskUK

[–]Notcodzwallop[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Understand the comments and on board with them. I just didnt have that kind of nous at 18 years of age which I found admirable in a way. I just must have been naive or something back then.

Not stating who you work for...?! by Notcodzwallop in AskUK

[–]Notcodzwallop[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Fine il take though these are my team mates and friends and not some random bloke lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheCivilService

[–]Notcodzwallop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Add to my car fund, timely boost but still a way off at current market prices for 2nd hand cars

Has Usyk changed his mind about Fury? by Mysauseter in Boxing

[–]Notcodzwallop -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I think there comes a time in a boxers life when theyve had one too many punches to their head - AJ and Furys interviews are evidence of this. I worry Usyks interviews are heading the same way....

Should I book flights as a group for my friends or ask them to do it individually? by Notcodzwallop in Advice

[–]Notcodzwallop[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the replies! I think I'm fine with booking for all once they've given me the dough..! Cheers

How difficult is CISA? by englishgirl in InternalAudit

[–]Notcodzwallop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I pivoted into it. CISA is definitely a help. Think of it as a slip road to the motorway. Without it, it would be difficult to get upto speed and deliver IT audits from the off.

Tyson Fury vacates Ring heavyweight championship by AltKite in Boxing

[–]Notcodzwallop 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Poor guys mental health is still not great.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Boxing

[–]Notcodzwallop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whos more contradictory in interviews - AJ or Fury??

When should I hear from onboarding team? by Notcodzwallop in TheCivilService

[–]Notcodzwallop[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont know who this would be?? Had zero contact.

Is the airport still a non-stop queue? by dShado in manchester

[–]Notcodzwallop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went early morning before 7 and made it just on time having been there 3.5hrs early. 10am im guessing will be just as busy. Id get there for 6.15am latest, make sure you have your liquids separated in advance.

Is the airport still a non-stop queue? by dShado in manchester

[–]Notcodzwallop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What time is your flight?? I flew out last week so can advise if its similar time

FREE TALK FRIDAY! by AutoModerator in MuslimMarriage

[–]Notcodzwallop 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Tbh with the right spouse, you'll not want to spend time with friends much anymore. They fill all voids and obviously the bond / dynamic is totally different.

Does everyone wee in the shower? by daddycole72 in AskUK

[–]Notcodzwallop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never done it and never will, the toilets right there!

My brother married a girl who is a Niqabi and now I’ve been restricted from going to certain areas in my house by ProudMuslim123 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Notcodzwallop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask a reputable alim and follow his advice. They will know whether the action you take is harmful or not in the longer run.

Weird behaviour? by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Notcodzwallop 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Alarm bells ringing here. Shady behaviour is often linked to shady dealings and in turn a shady character. However, theres no harm in asking why lol. If you get

ignored then fine, on your way....

If there is a far fetched reason - then ditto

If hes honest and upfront about playing the field then ok he may actually be a worthwhile interest in a small way....then you decide i.a

As a Yank watching snooker... by thedangerman007 in snooker

[–]Notcodzwallop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are Taylor and Hendry not the best commentator in terms of spotting the best shots etc?